Ladies, please, STOP SHAVING. Get it WAXED. No stubble that way, and you only need to do it once per month.
Personally I prefer totally waxed clean (brazilian), or at most, a neatly trimmed landing strip. Anything more and it begins to become a turnoff... much like some of the old porno tapes of mine from the early 80's that I found recently while cleaning up a storage room. They ALL had completely unruly full bush with hairy assholes to boot. To believe I used to spank it to that stuff as a teenager!
IMO, the clean, hairless is so much better to feel and to go down on. It looks cleaner, and it's much easier to spot warning flags (sores, warts and whatnot).
For my own parts, I've kept them trimmed my fairly short (around 1 inch or shorter) since early college. I also went through about a year of shaving my sack and sometimes the entire groin region with a razor... it was scary as shit the first time I did it (took nearly an hour to complete too), but then you realize with hot water and shaving gel, it glides right over everything just as smoothly as it does when you shave your face. Takes me less than 10 minutes now. The problem is, you often get razor bumps, especially in the upper corners of that region where your leg skin folds over as you sit or run. It's itchy and annoying and obviously not attractive. Also, after even 24 hours, you begin to feel stubble. Obviously not comfortable for either you or the woman you're with. And the more you shave, the more coarse and uncomfortable it will get.
Recently I've been getting it waxed. Wow! So much better. No itchy stubble issues. And because it's being ripped out by the root, about 3-4 weeks later the hair starts to come back, but it's thin and fine as it comes in and when you get it waxed again and it's a small fraction of the pain involved in the first wax. And yes, that first wax is a painful experience. Each rip feels just like you think it will.
The ladies I meet fucking love it, and I do to. It's usually a look of surprise when they see or feel it, and then a big happy grin and giggle followed by serious groping and stroking. It's like when you shave your head down to stubble and some women just want to rub your head for hours on end and can't stop. I get the same reaction for my other head now! Plus, no more feeling the pinching and pulling of my sack hair during a hot day as I walk, sit, or exercise. It may be a trend, but it's one I really enjoy.