Dancer squeezing your balls...

Well, I like it. Done correctly, of course. Squeezing the testicles themselves is right out, but the right technique can fun a merely good BJ into an awesome one for me. And, knock on wood, every girl who's made the attempt seems to understand exactly want to do, and not to do.

Some girls just like to see how much they can rough guys up before they say something.

I hate it when they squeeze the dick and balls like they are stress balls. I think we're supposed to be receiving the therapy not the other way around.

I enjoy a dancer to rub my balls and gentlely squeeze, but not hard. I once had a dancer bite my dick so hard she left teeth marks - that wasn't cool. Could have been the type of girl described by Wallanon.

jeeze, do these girls think we all like pain? if you wanna caress the jewels, that's one thing, but squeeze 'em like stress balls? gimme a break. particularly painful if, like me, you have a cyst down there...

I remember one dancer I took back for a dance did all sorts of painful things, squeeze my balls, bite my neck, pinch my nipples, etc. It was very uncomfortable and I kept having to tell her to settle down. I told her she might be a good dominatrix though.

wallanon says:

Posted: 06/20/10

Some girls just like to see how much they can rough guys up before they say something.

yup.. including the lap bouncers that think bouncing their ass on your lap with all of their weight is sexy. ugh

i think some of them actually hate guys or are taking whatever daily frustration they may have out on their customers.

We are paying customers not some object for sadistic attack. You should make them cut it out if lapper is uncomfy. I for one hate fat gals that like to bounce on my dick during lappers. They should not be doing anything to a guys balls unless it is gentle rubbing during foreplay / sex.

I'm not subtle. Happened to me once. Said "OW" and pulled her hand away.

So far when a dancer has had me by the balls, it's been figuratively, not literally, lol.

If she is playing with my balls and squeezing them during a HJ or BJ then I'm fine with it, but If I'm getting a standard lap dance with just stick shifting and she is squeezing that is when I'll say something to her.

Next time it happens I'll try to remember to tell her if her hands get tired (of squeezing or whatever) she can start using her mouth to suck on them. Tactful way of asking for a BJ during a HJ, something I picked up from a tuscl discussion thread (I think one of shadowcat's post)

Yup, outside of a dancer at the former Rick's (R.I.P.) in Seattle going up my shorts by way of the legs and stabbing me in the sack region with her fingernails, the gals always stay away from the testes.

Hmm. From the sound of things, I've been rather fortunate. They all seem to know what to do, and what to avoid. :)

sam, I remember that post. It happened at the Memphis Platinum Plus 9 or so years ago right after a LE bust. lol...

Look at her and say, "Would you like these in your mouth?" But only if you trust her not to bite.

She can cup 'em, lick 'em, or suck on 'em, but don't squeeze 'em.

Let's all remember the late Isaac Hayes, who as South Park's Chef sang, "Suck on my chocolate salty balls--put 'em in your mouth and suck 'em..."

Shadowcat,

 When they were squeezing your balls, did you happen to notice if they had rough hands?

steve, NO the pain was too great. But I can see where a bare handed HJ might hurt equally. And teeth during a BBBJ could be uncomfortable too.

A dancer who knows what she's doing can play with my balls anytime. Unfortuinately, not every dancer knows how. Some of the more ignorant ones seem as if they've watched a domination porn flick the night before and want to try something out.

I was in my early 20's when the stripper did that to me. I had, earlier than that, won a few fights by kicking a guy in the nuts. After the stripper, I learned that it hurts, far worse, to have them yanked on. On one occasion I used the knowledge to add insult to injury, but on the second occasion used the knowledge to win a fight I was about to lose.

I hate it because a)it can hurt and b) i'm not allowed to return the 'favor' by putting my finger in her pussy.