Sex in VIP room

Has anyone else had sex in the VIP room? I had previously thought that it never happened, but I'm not a regular club-goer. I stopped at a place I had heard about on a whim when I had time to kill, thinking I would just get a beer and watch some girls. A beautiful young woman, Greek/Italian, approached me for a LD. I had never had one, as I always thought it would be lame, especially if you couldn't touch the girl. But, I've been making more money so I figured why the hell not.

We get back to the semi-private dance area, I sit down, and this babe, maybe not a 10, but definitely a 8.5-9, starts with the dance, riding, grinding, etc. But then she grabs my hands and puts them on her breasts. I said, "I thought I couldn't do that" she says, "please, I like, you're making me horny." So I touch her, literally everywhere. For about 3 songs we're making out, touching, caressing, etc, and she invites me to go upstairs to VIP with her. Again, this is something I had never considered doing, especially since I've heard you can't touch, and even if a little touching, not below the belt, and if I can't do that I'm not paying hundreds of dollars.

But this girl is incredible so I figure why not continue this, as long as it's under 300 bucks. She asks for 200, so we go.

I had to beg her to slow down, after five minutes she was rubbing my member all over her body, including along her naked vag. I'm afraid a bouncer is going to come in and kick me out, but she insists that she wants it. I told her I can't have sex with her, I'm in a relationship with someone and very happy, and I can't do it. But I'm in a weakened state, and this "exotic dancer" puts a condom on my shaft, and slips it in her and rides me for a few minutes, turns around on all fours and we go doggy, and instructs me to come on her breasts.

It sounds crazy, I could not believe the experience. To top it all off, I tried to give her more than 200 but she wouldn't let me!

I think I got lucky for my first lap-dance, and I seriously doubt anything like that would ever happen again. Maybe she was just super-horny that day, but wow. We were talking after, she's 22, from Italy, going to college in the states, wants to be a journalist. She was actually very articulate and I could tell she was quite bright. Unbelievable experience.

My question is, if I go back for more with a different girl, could I expect this to happen again? I'm not the typical strip-club go-er, so I don't know what's normal.