Don't ask rule
licklick
Florida
Monday, April 19, 2010 4:18 PM
I've been going to strip clubs for longer than I care to admit. And along with the usual sensible rules that are shared here, I have my own rule: don't approach a dancer to ask for a dance. For the most part, it's worked very well. Dancers who approach you at least have an inkling of interest in sharing time with you. I like being the prey for the predator to chase down.
Over the weekend, I was at my favorite club on a non-busy afternoon. Saw one of my favorite dancers when entering…eye contact was made while she was in conversation with another dancer. I sit down, watch the end of a ballgame for about 20 minutes and wait for her to make her way over. Nothing….not for two hours. She even made the rounds to ask guys near me. Just when I'm ready to give up and go home, another favorite of mine arrives. She approaches quite flirty, we have a quick conversation and proceed to the back for some hot, satisfying dances. I head back to the seating area to cool off, get collected and prepared to leave and as I'm making my way to the door, the dancer I'd been waiting for gets up and starts to approach me. I share a pleasant hello as I continue toward the door. What do you think? Have I blown it with her or will she be more eager to greet me next time I visit?
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