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rickdugan

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<b>The following is solely a portrayal of a&nbsp;fictional character and is provided for entertainment purposes only.&nbsp; Nothing in the following article should be construed as representative of&nbsp;any experience&nbsp;of, or activity conducted by, the author.<br />
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</b>All too often, I read that it is difficult or impossible to find girls that will provide &quot;takeout&quot; in this city or that club.&nbsp; While there are indeed some clubs where it is difficult, for the most part this&nbsp;is complete crap.<br />
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The reality is that, with the&nbsp;rare exceptions of some small town,&nbsp;one-off clubs in the boonies, wherever there are&nbsp;dancers there is&nbsp;takeout.&nbsp; I travel extensivley across the country and&nbsp;I would estimate that about 35% of all dancers are open to it under the right circumstances, though the ratios may fluctuate a bit from city to city and club to club.<br />
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This is particularly true now when times are tough and these girls are not making what they used to.&nbsp; Many of them have kids to support, which makes the thought of an after-hours cash infusion that much more appealing to them.<br />
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Before we venture further, however, it is important to note that this is not for everyone.&nbsp; If you need to be &quot;loved&quot; by the stripper,&nbsp;are looking to make a long-term connection, or are just timid&nbsp;then move on.&nbsp; This is&nbsp;purely about how to get her from the club into your hotel bed, which is always something I am on the lookout for.&nbsp;&nbsp;I don't care about making any type of connection, nor am I really&nbsp;interested in wasting time&nbsp;in some crappy lap dance area, so if I think a girl looks good on stage then she would look great naked in my bed.<br />
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<u>Now to the meat of the matter:<br />
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<li><b>Remember that she is trying to sell something and so are you.&nbsp; </b>She is trying to sell the fantasy, t&amp;a, etc., in the hopes of eliciting cash from you.&nbsp; You need to be seen as someone who can feed her with&nbsp;cash.&nbsp; I always wear a nice suit (which I usually have on anyway when I am traveling), but I would imagine that other nice clothes would work.&nbsp; A good suit will make you well noticed in many clubs and&nbsp;opens up your options dramatically, particularly in the right clubs (more on that below).&nbsp; If you look like a bum then you are playing handicapped.&nbsp;&nbsp;Remember you do not necessarily have to&nbsp;<i>spend&nbsp;</i>like a heavyweight, just look like one.&nbsp; Also, when the stripper&nbsp;asks you what you do, have a good answer.&nbsp; If your job is less than special, then make something up, like a chemical engineer or something else that sounds &quot;complicated&quot; and &quot;important.&quot;&nbsp; She won't know the difference anyway, but it will keep you on her mind as a source of possibilities (including cash flow).</li>
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<li><b>Play it cool.&nbsp; </b>NEVER sit at a stage - it makes you look desperate to see t&amp;a.&nbsp; Sit at the bar&nbsp;or at a table if the bar is not available.&nbsp; If you are&nbsp;suited up then the girls will find you.&nbsp;&nbsp;When a girl that you like sits down, offer to buy her a drink and be confident,&nbsp;calm and friendly, with a warm smile and&nbsp; direct eye contact (remember you are playing the part of a friendly but sucessful person) .&nbsp;&nbsp;When&nbsp;the girl asks for a lap dance,&nbsp;I usually respond with something like &quot;thank you for asking honey, but&nbsp;that's not really my gig.&quot;&nbsp; If she presses, I usually let her&nbsp;know that &quot;I never handle my stuff in these places.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;If&nbsp;she is&nbsp;a pro, this will ususally prompt her&nbsp;to follow up with a question that leads to the right place.&nbsp; If she does not respond but stays sitting with you anyway for a while longer, nonchalantly give her something for her time (I usually use&nbsp;a $20) and&nbsp;feel free to&nbsp;take the initiative.&nbsp;&nbsp;When she says thank you I am ususally ready with&nbsp;something like &quot;&nbsp;No problem - you have to make a living too.&nbsp;&nbsp;It's been good talking with you.&nbsp;&nbsp;I have to say that I also have&nbsp;every intention of trying to&nbsp;talk you out of here tonight.&quot;&nbsp; If things have been going well up to this point and she is open to it, then this will usually move things along.&nbsp; However, keep your eyes and ears open - if she refuses you outright or you&nbsp;are getting pleasant but noncommittal responses, then time to fold a bad&nbsp;hand and&nbsp;move her along.&nbsp; With the way you look, another girl will take her place soon enough.</li>
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<li><b>Pick the right club.</b>&nbsp; This stuff works in many places, but picking the right club helps a lot.&nbsp; A club with only a couple of girls working in it is not a good option as this can be a game of numbers.&nbsp; Also, if you are in a&nbsp;big city, stay away from any club close to the downtown business district as it will already have a bunch of suited guys trying to do the same thing -&nbsp;not only is the competition high, but the prices get high too.&nbsp; You want to find a club with a decent number of fair to good looking women&nbsp;that&nbsp;is&nbsp;frequented mostly&nbsp;by locals.&nbsp; Ideally you will be&nbsp;the only suit in a club full of hungry women :)&nbsp; DO YOUR RESEARCH.&nbsp;&nbsp;</li>
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<li><b>Have your hotel close by and negotiate upfront.&nbsp; </b>Your hotel should be no more than a few miles from the club.&nbsp; I usually try to pick a hotel near a few target clubs.&nbsp; The girl will not want to travel 20 miles out of her way in the dead of night, and this kill what would have otherwise been a good score.</li>
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<li><strong>Negotiate upfront and know your market.&nbsp; </strong>Work out the terms BEFORE you leave the club and NEVER give her money in advance, either in the club or when she gets to your room.&nbsp; If she insists on advance payment then let her know that it is payment after or you will need to move on.&nbsp; If she is serious about doing it then she will relent - if this is a deal breaker for her then you were never going to get laid anyway, just scammed.&nbsp; Also, know your local market.&nbsp;&nbsp;Short visits to EROS and Craigslist will usually arm you with the&nbsp;going rates in the particular area you are in.</li>
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Hopefully this is helpful and good luck!<br />
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