Why?
Thursday, November 25, 2010 10:26 AM
I walked into one of my favorite clubs recently and while my eyes were still adjusting to the darkened interior lighting I heard my name called out and as I turned I was surprised to see one of my favorite dancers hanging on the arm of a coworker of mine. This scenario is stranger than it sounds because he works out of an office that is located 200 miles from the club in question. As it turns out he was in town for a meeting with one of his clients and before heading back home he thought that he would stop, grab a quick beer and check out some of the local talent. After I gave my favorite dancer a hug I invited my coworker/friend to sit down and have a drink with me which he heartily accepted. Long story short what I discovered that afternoon was that he, like me, enjoys visiting strip clubs while traveling on business to interact with the dancers and enjoy their company (to include lap dances and such where available). We didn't talk about “extra's†and outside the club activities but it was clear that he and I shared an appreciation for the attention of scantily clad attractive young women.
I haven't had the opportunity to extend the conversation we had that afternoon to delve further into why he visits strip clubs when he travels or what he gets out of the experience but it did sort of prompt me to think about my motivations and expectations.
I have been visiting strip clubs on and off since I was 17 and to be honest with you I enjoy the experience immensely. Traditionally I would only visit clubs a couple of times a year mostly while on business travel but recently I have been going out of my way to find clubs and have even manipulated my schedule so I could visit a club that I wanted to see based primarily on reviews here. In the 33 years I have been going to clubs I have never had full sex with a dancer and on only two occasions have I had any outside the club activity (once was when I gave a dancer a ride home after her car wouldn't start – resulted in a blow job in the car, and once when I asked a dancer if she would like to have breakfast with me after a long night of dancing – resulted in a soulful kiss good night).
Perhaps I am a pussy for not pressing harder for extras but when I go to a club I get legitimate thrill out of talking to the dancers and I don't mind paying for their attention one bit. I have to admit that I do like lap dances and I have had some very good times as the recipient of some very frisky LDs from some very attractive 20 something's but LDs aren't allowed in the clubs near me so I've learned to temper my expectations in that regard as well. For me I guess in the final analysis it boils down to intimacy not sex per se when it comes to why I visit strip clubs. I don't go to clubs expecting or even seeking sex although I gather by reading the posts by others on this site I am likely in the minority in that regard.
As a portly 50 yo white guy with reasonable but limited financial resources where else can I go and get the attention of attractive 20ish year old women? Not dance clubs, not anymore anyway, so strip clubs are my venue of choice. In a strip club the dancer knows why I am there and for a hundred bucks or so I can “buy†her attention and if she is good she might even convince me that she is genuinely interested in the conversation we are having. If she's really, really good I might just fall in love… ;-)
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