What Do the Boyfriends Know?

10/31/2010 3:11:18 PM

All the dancers I've met have a boyfriend or husband somewhere. Girls have introduced me
to their boyfriends at clubs or have talked to me about them. The boyfriends know that the girls
are strippers, of course, but I've always wondered if they know what the girls do in the VIP rooms.

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I was given some insight last week. Angelique, a 22-year-old dancer with large natural boobs,
sat down at my table and talked about her boyfriend who she had moved in with. She explained
it was a serious relationship. We went to the VIP room, and after a couple lap dances she asked
if I wanted a blow job. I declined because I wasn't looking for extras that day, but I asked her
what her boyfriend would think if he found out. She said, "He doesn't mind if I give guys blow jobs.
He just doesn't want me to fuck anybody else."

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This surprised me, because when I was young a blow job was considered worse (so to speak) than
straight sex. But I've read that a lot of high school students today don't think BJ's are a big deal,
and I suppose a lot of young dancers feel the same way. I had thought that any dancer who
would give BJ's would also give FS for the right price, but that may be a faulty conclusion.
Young dancers may not believe oral sex is sex at all.

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So now I'm not sure if dancers' boyfriends are clueless or if they just don't care if their girlfriends
are doing HJ and BJ. Or maybe the boyfriends are okay with their girlfriends doing anything
if they get enough cash.

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Does anyone know what's going on in the boyfriends' minds?

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sinclair

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14 years ago

I think the boyfriends/husbands don't care as long as the girlfriends/wives bring home money. Strippers are attracted to weak guys that they can control. Ever see some of these "great" guys that dancers date: no job, smoke PCP all day, been in and out of the county clink, dress like monkeys (pants halfway down their legs and crooked hats).

inno123

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14 years ago

I think they are in denial. I also think that a majority of the dancers are in denial too. And more than a few of the customers.

Pablo Antonio

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14 years ago

It seems to me that boyfriends of dancers fall into one of two categories: Stupid or Don't Care.

One of my favorites had a boyfriend. We started out in the VIP with oral, and a few months later we were up to full sex. I think her boyfriend was in the category of "Don't Care." Personally, I think he was fucking girls on the side the whole time I was doing his girl. I actually kind of felt sorry for him.

I think you have a kind of sexual rush when your girlfriend is a dancer. It puts you in the category of dating the world's sexiest women. And let's face it guys, a beautiful dancer IS one of the world's sexiest women, otherwise why would we go to stripclubs? For the drink specials?

Having a relationship with a dancer is at best difficult. They will always be faced with the temptation to have hot sex in the club even if they say they love you. The nudity, the alcohol, and general horniness usually take over. After all, it is a sexually oriented business.

Oral sex is sex, despite the denial of today's generation.

GSWx4

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14 years ago

I've dated 4 dancers in my time. None of them provided extras ITC/OTC but more to the point, I was never "The Boyfriend". I didn't date them because they were hot (they were) or to have bragging rights but rather because they were so fascinating. For anyone contemplating a relationship, let me save you a lot of time and trouble. Fascinating translates into even more screwed up than I was. I think that for a guy to cross the line into being "The Boyfriend" that he must be even more screwed up than dancers are.

magicrat

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14 years ago

At one of my former clubs, there was a room with a saloon type door where pretty much anything went. A dancer's bf or husband, can't remember which, was in there one day and took a peak over the door as he was heading to the restroom. Well he got a great view of his girl giving a bj to a customer. He goes back to the main area of the club, gets a pool cue and barges into the room and starts hitting the customer with the stick. He gets escorted out and the dancer gets fired. And he thought she was just dancing.

georgmicrodong

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14 years ago

Every dancer that I've ever been involved with who had a boyfriend claimed that he didn't know, and that he'd have a fit if he found out. No idea whether that's true or not. My ATF's boyfriend just left her, not because he found out for sure, but because he "couldn't be sure" she wasn't doing extra work. Not sure why she kept him around this long; from her reports, he didn't fuck worth shit, or near often enough. Could be SS, but her physical reactions give it some credibility.

dw.buck

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14 years ago

i have stated this in another blog but the guys are either dumb as hell or a pimp. dumb to actually think she aint doing shyt to get xtra money doing xtras. not to generalize all strippers but wave the right amount of cash at the right day to anyone of them and they'll be slobbing that knob, or riding that stick like a jockey at the kentuck derby. if her man was providing for her she wouldnt be on the pole, or working individual poles.

a pimp... cause he dont give a damn what she does as long as she makes that money and gives it to him. then she is the dumb one for working to pay to keep him, more than likely he fukking the other strippers in her club while paying the other strippers with the money she gave him. (a true pimp at that)

whatever the case i would never be the boyfriend just her pimp

farmerart

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14 years ago

To answer the question at the end of your article; I cannot imagine what is going on in the minds of strippers' boyfriends. I am of the generation of men who were conditioned to feel that they were required to provide for their women. I would never be a stripper's boyfriend. I will fuck as many of them as I can but as anything other than a fuck toy - never.

Ricci

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14 years ago

I just turned 40, but this is making me feel young... I remember in my teens and twenties I didn't consider oral sex to be "real" sex either.... Isn't that why they call the other thing "full" sex?

bumrubber

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14 years ago

+1 sinclair

StrongSilentttt

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14 years ago

Of all the things you could be with a stripper, boyfriend would be the worst!

rickdugan

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14 years ago

Diddo on the last comment. In what fucking universe is it a "fantasy" to date a stripper? Once you peal back the onion, most of the strippers I know are bonified head cases. And I'll never understand what kind of sackless wonder is ok with his wife or girlfriend grinding on the cocks of other guys, even assuming that is all they are doing. ;)

Like the old saying goes, you do not pay them to stay, you pay them to leave.

georgmicrodong

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14 years ago

rick: I guess I probably qualify as a "sackless wonder" then. Given what *I* do, however, I can't bring myself to be so hypocritical as to condemn what my wife might be doing. Mind you, I don't *know* that she's doing anything, but as long as she's following the same rules I am, I'm not gonna complain.

rickdugan

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14 years ago

gmd I think that you and she have a very different type of thing going on. For most of us in more "mainstream" relationships outside activities are not tolerated or expected.

Player11

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14 years ago

Based on my experience Dancer BF don't know or don't care. Basically they are all cuckholds for the mostpart.....

My Atf got married to her live in a few months ago. I have been doing her over two years itc and otc FS. She said the marriage would not change our meetings. It didn't and the sex is super. Her FB page (a wealth of photos and info) presents the image she is happily married to her soulmate. My take is she has him under control. Interstingly enough an x BF is living with them renting a room. You can bet she is bumping some off with him too. What kind of man would allow his wife to have an x BF living with them? Beats me. These women gravitate to men (as far as relationships are concerned) they can control. The rest of us happily pay to rent them for sex enjoyment services.

Swagaholic

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14 years ago

I'm 25 and in college and dating a 20 year old stripper and enjoying the ride.

I'm one of the "boyfriends" you speak of, I can only speak about my experience. I've hooked up with a lot of strippers for free. Me and buddies like to go to strip clubs and hit on them. You know your in if they give you their number. A lot of customers give there numbers to strippers. There suckers, me and my guys go in and spit game. It doesn't always work but when it does its a hell of a ride

First of all strippers are all not the same. there all fucked up, lol, but in different ways.

I'm not gonna marry this girl, I'm just havin' fun. Because of her I've fucked 2 smoking hot strippers on the side and had a 3some.

I know she gives hand jobs in VIP but I honestly don't care. The freaky shit me and her do....man cant even begin how to explain how much fun it is....

some of the other girls suck n fuck in vip, believe me i know.

perks of dating a stripper? you get to meet and hang out with other slutty strippers. for some reason they all want to fuck each others man! win-win

surprisingly it's not very hard to make a stripper fall for you. Some are easier than others.

Soon enough I'll have my degree and move away, and move on with life.

but, im certainly enjoying the ride :-) someone said strippers are attracted to weak men that they can control. yeah its true ive seen it. but strong men can also control weak strippers. it's a two way street.

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