All the dancers I've met have a boyfriend or husband somewhere. Girls have introduced me to their boyfriends at clubs or have talked to me about them. The boyfriends know that the girls are strippers, of course, but I've always wondered if they know what the girls do in the VIP rooms.
I was given some insight last week. Angelique, a 22-year-old dancer with large natural boobs,
sat down at my table and talked about her boyfriend who she had moved in with. She explained
it was a serious relationship. We went to the VIP room, and after a couple lap dances she asked
if I wanted a blow job. I declined because I wasn't looking for extras that day, but I asked her
what her boyfriend would think if he found out. She said, "He doesn't mind if I give guys blow jobs.
He just doesn't want me to fuck anybody else."
This surprised me, because when I was young a blow job was considered worse (so to speak) than straight sex. But I've read that a lot of high school students today don't think BJ's are a big deal, and I suppose a lot of young dancers feel the same way. I had thought that any dancer who would give BJ's would also give FS for the right price, but that may be a faulty conclusion. Young dancers may not believe oral sex is sex at all.
So now I'm not sure if dancers' boyfriends are clueless or if they just don't care if their girlfriends are doing HJ and BJ. Or maybe the boyfriends are okay with their girlfriends doing anything if they get enough cash.
Does anyone know what's going on in the boyfriends' minds?
I think the boyfriends/husbands don't care as long as the girlfriends/wives bring home money. Strippers are attracted to weak guys that they can control. Ever see some of these "great" guys that dancers date: no job, smoke PCP all day, been in and out of the county clink, dress like monkeys (pants halfway down their legs and crooked hats).