Comments by TravelingBoredBusiness

Yeah, I can tell you that you will NOT find brothels in Punta Cana, you will likely find that kind of thing going on in Sosua, but thats a different part of the island entirely. Sosua is also considered dangerous compared to Punta Cana. Even though pros titution is legal in DR having a brothel and pim ping is ILLEGAL in DR. So chances are that if you do manage to fin d something like this you will be dealing with some real shady ass characters and likely a criminal element behind it. Which I would advise to not do, DR is safe for tourists who want leisure but once you go into the world of procuring ladies of the night in DR you are stepping foot in another world. In DR are all public so the resort wont stop solicitors (Most solicitors are just regular honest vendors trying to make money for their family selling you shirts, and various beach items) I will say that if you are on the beach just relaxing or whatever solicitors selling items are a given (have to respect the fact they are out in the sun like that trying to earn a living), but some solicitors will approach you if you are a single male and offer you ladies. You will have to use your own judgement whether to partake or not. Be safe and be aware of surroundings at all times and use good judgement.

Just don't say anything and many will assume you are local. You cant fool them, even if you knew certain phrases or words they know by your pronounciation that you are not from Montreal. Even if you were from Newfoundland or Alberta, they can tell just by how you sound that you are a Newfie or Albertan. Just speak regular English, most people you will come in contact with know English. If you UNDERSTAND French then that is the key. Speaking it in my opinion is of second importance. If you can read French and undersatnd when they speak you are golden there.

@Hungryhunnypot, Sounds good dumbass, let me know if you find out that way I can make her an offer.

One thing I have to add about all this is if you are going out solo I wouldnt fuck with any nonsense like that in DR. even though prost itution is legal there, the girls have their own "security" guys and you and never be too sure what kind of shit they might pull. Even though Punta Cana is considered safe by DR standards there are some places that can get sketchy where thug types are. The girls are likely to try to pull bullshit if you are not EXTREMELY careful. It really comes down to if you are street smart, dont put yourself in fucked up areas or positions and dont ever fully trust someone, you are in another country and no matter how nice someone is they likely dont give a fuck about you. Understand these are relatively poor places. So trust yourself and not some local regardless of how nice or willing to help they seem. So as a disclaimer I would advise against trying to procure any ladies in DR. or being in that scene for anything other than typical tourism. But if you stick to normal tourist activities you should be ok.

When you tip them dont be cheap with $5 or bullshit like that. Give them at least $50 that will let them know that you value the info and expect them to give it to you straight. They will respect the fact you recognize the value of the info and in turn they will give you great info.

Depending on what resort you stay at you can go to the excursion desk , if its a guy joke around and say are there any excursions for hooking up with ladies. A friend of mine actually had one guy at excursion desk tell him that if he saw a laday working at the resort that he finds sexy then let him know and he will tell her because he knows the ones who work at resort that will fuck. So you might not even have to go far. Once againthough, you will have to feel out the situation and use your own judgement depending on resort you stay, place you go and how friendly you are when you socialize with locals or the bartenders. If you come across as nice and normal they wont have issue pointing you in right direction especially if you tip them.

Prosti tution is legal in Dominican Republic so you shouldnt have any issues getting a woman if that is what your aim is. Just go to a bar, any casual type of bar. If you look like a US person or foreigner the likelyhood of escort type women approaching you and asking you is quite high especially on weekends. If you just go to a downtown bar like Make's and hang out to grab a drink and a bite just to get the vibe of the area Then go into a more club type environment. If you get a few drinks at any bar and tip the bartender well and make some light bullshit conversation then ask, "Where can I get some ladies tonight" they will likely ask you if you are into Venezuelan or local ladies. then just tell them, they are local so they know the best spots because the spots change depending on the day of week and what events are happening. Plus they work at a bar so they have their finger on the pulse of the area. Also one thing to keep in mind if you are staying at a resort they will not allow you to bring in any outside ladies to your room (this goes for most, if not all the resorts, they know what to look out for) If you are bringing one and encounter security just play dumb and act offended that "how dare you call my wife a escort" , likely they will leave you be, or offer a tip, whichever you feel more comfortable doing. Just be safe, be aware of your surroundings, and dont trust any of the ladies too much, watch out for them if they seem to be texting a lot if you are taking them back to room, they could be trying to pull some bullshit.

Book Guy , link that thread.

The quality of girls just isnt there. Its like Hooters, they started out with hot women. Now all they have is lezbos, shaved sides of heads, tattooed up type of women who dont even like males and just see males as a person to sucker out of money and not give anything to in return so they can take their lezbo out shopping or on a vacation. Get mad if you want, people tend to get mad at the truth.

If she doesnt do OTC/ITC then she can have the best tits on the planet and it doesnt mean shit. Sounds like this might be a dancer trying to get some pathetic self promotion going by posting about themselves.

Actually I just saw some pics of OZ and it seems more like a place I could get a few drinks and see what happens, so I will head there first. The inside looks decent so going to see what happens.

I will be checking out Atlantis first and if it's a no-go then I will be heading elsewhere. Thanks RockAllNight for the heads up.

The dancers dont want her there and the customers dont want her there. The dancers might act nice because its there job , but believe me they are telling other customers and dancers how they cant wait until the bitch leaves.

Also many women like to go in wth their boyfriends/ husbands under the excuse of "Lets have fun, I like women too" In reality its realy just a spy mission so they can see what their man does when they arent around. They keep a close eye on how their husband or boyfriend acts around the pros. And if you are a guy...trust and believe that when an argument happens or cheating accusation comes up SHE WILL use the strip club "Fun Outing" against you. LEAVE YOUR HEN AT HOME or let her go do her thing and you do yours.

Shadowcat, I agree. I have been going to strip clubs for a long time and we , as customers do not want to see someones dumb wife in there causing a scene, trying hard to take attention away from the REAL talent by actng wild. I even talked to many dancers who said they hate female customers because they tend to get grabby more than the men and have no respect and also mess up the girls money. I think all these women who insist on going into GENTLEMENS clubs do it because they aret supposed to, ANYTHING they arent supposed to do is the first thing they want to do. Its this kind of toxic personality that these types have. They get some kind of pleasure from annoying people. I once went into a male strip club with a woman I was dating who didnt want to go in alone and her friends didnt want to go with her. I paid a bigger cover than she did and also as a NON dancer male I was NOT allowed anywhere on the floor and had to remain at the bar the entire time. She got a dance with some really muscular guy and I didnt give one fuck. Most of the male dancers are gay anyway, plus I am not a jealous type. They dont allow gys on the main floor because jealous husbands might go in starting trouble. I have seen more jealous wives and GF starting trouble at strip clubs than men. They feel more self entitled. I once saw a jealus wife go in and try hitting her husband that was getting a dance. She pulled the dancer off by her hair and the dancer ended up pummeling the woman to the ground. The husband was likely so humiliated. This could have all been avoided if they would NOT allow the women in. Its a GENTLEMENS club. Get it???

If she desnt respond or responds negatively then just block her ass. There are tons of dancers who wantto get paid, so just move on and forget her.

Here is a hint: Just ask her what club sh works at in her DM (private message) Just let her know you would like to see her in the club and want to be a regular and that you are "generous" (Would help to send pictures of actual cash too so she knows you arent fucking around. She will likely try to get you to send her some online payment bullshit like Zelle, CashApp or Venmo, (thats a suckers game.) Then you just tell her that you have cash ready to spend in the club and if she wants to she can have it but ask her what club and tell her you wont go running your mouth to eveyone. Then let her know if she oenst want it that its ok and some other dancer can have it, but you were offering it to her first.

MissVicious that is a good point. I will have to go in around that time. The 2nd falls on a Sunday and most apartments or landlords likely give 3 or 4 day grace period, so I am guessing that the girls that cant make rent by the first will start feeling pressure by Sunday or Monday knowing that the weekday is slower and they are less likely to make rent by then unless they do some OTC/ITC . If they put their feet in the air then I will make their rent worries go away. For ITC I might give them 70% of their rent just because ITC I cant do certain positions I like. I try to avoid weekends in general because the girls have this atttitude and act like they are on a weekend high. Come Sunday reality starts to hit. So I usually go in to clubs Mon- Thurs depending on what city I'm in and how bored I am. Sometimes I will go in on a weekend just for the fuck of it.

MissVicious, thanks for your reply an agreeing with the sentiment. Some great detailed info from you and Book Guy. What you and I stated are just facts, the other people got hurt by it because likely they are the types that are bringing club quality down. MissVicious I have also been seeing clubs stuggling to get these lazy younger girls to even show up for shifts. Many times I have gone ito a club that opens at 2PM and I go in at 4PM and there is 1 dancer. (A good looking late 30's dancer) I only know she is 38 because she told me. She literally looks way younger, in her body and face. They always say one is getting ready in the back, but likely they are messaging the other dancers to get their asses in the club fast. I see guys walk in , look at the deserted stage and no dancers and walk right back out. I know the drill so I stay and get a couple dances from the only dancer 1. Because she is hot, 2. Reward for showing up and making effort. I actually had OTC with her once. It kind of is a turn on that we had some hot sex and then a couple days later I go get casual dances. She is really good to talk to as well. She has a lot of life experience as far as travel and hobbies. I respect her hustle and her attitude, unlike the lazy ones. Some other members tried to attack my age. I am actually in my 30's. I have been going to strip clubs since I was allowed in at 21 so Im not old and by no means a noob to clubs and the quality they used to be, I get regular women outside the club but I have a thing for strippers and regular women don't compare. As a customer I have seen the women out on the floor literally eating chicken wings and BBQ and having sauce on their mouth. This goes into your point that as a guy we go in to see women loooking like a dream, acting like a fantasy etc. Instead more and more you are seeing them look and act disgusting. Getting a woman on Eros, Tryst and other sites is risky because they might try to set you up , be cousin Leo etc. At the club, you know they arent going to be after a couple lap dances and they initiate the touching. Also meeting them through the club is more discreet. You can then get the vibe and then ask if they offer OTC or depending on club layout ITC. As far as "Death of cash economy" I think its oly going that way because most people are broke as hell now and are living off credit cards and off the money they get from equity from their home using their homes as ATMs due to the inflation. You dont see cash as much anymore simply because most people dont have any. Credit cards are an easy way for people to live beyond their means and "Buy now pay later" but cash ....either its in your hand or its not, there is no faking it. Plus there are no transaction fees, no interest, no electronic bullshit that someone will try to Chargeback, or say "Hold on my card isnt working". You either have the damn cash in hand or you dont. The market for clubs isnt so much dying but I think its shifting to other countries where the women dont have all these idiotic tatoos, shaved heads and still have feminine features and offer more mileage for the dollar. I respect the seasoned dancers like MissVicious who respect the hustle and keep the standard high. I always give them extra tips and if they do OTC I know they are usually professional and discreet and wont post shit online or gossip, which I respect their discretion. MissVicious, ont hang up teh heels yet, the REAL customers need women like you.

Yeah, Well I'm not old at all and dont actually have an issue getting women outside the clubs. I just have a thing for strippers and OTC. Plus I have money so, its really just a numbers game as far as which ones want the money and which ones dont. No loss for me either way. If they take the money I get the pussy if they dont then I keep the money. Win/Win for me. Sounds like you are mad and likely one of those losers who goes into a club, babysits your drink for hours and gets $50 in 1's and hangs out by the stage trying to get a girl to sit near you. Don't be mad that a guy like me has some options. What made you mad, the fact that I told the truth about tatted up shaved head uglies or told you the truth about how broke you are?

I mean when you date a female and then you fuck afterwards is she guilty of "prostitution" since she essentially accepted the meal and a nice bracelet or earrings and had sex for it?

Yes the owner of this club likely got greedy and didnt give the "dues" to the proper city officials. There is a lot of moves taking place to use ordinances, zoning laws and other legal bullshit to try and shut down gentlemens clubs everywhere. I guess they want men to be gays and sexually frustrated to the point that there wont be anything but street pussy. Strip clubs play in important role not only for customers to take a load off (no pun intended) but for the dancers to earn a damn living. With the shit pay that most companies pay people , even with degrees I dont blame them for dancing. Leave the dancers alone already. Damn its not like they are fucking around in the open parking lot or street. If 2 consenting adults agree to fuck for money, to pay a bill or whatever and both adults agree then what the fuck is the issue?

It would be good for dancers that do OTC/ITC to start posting where they will be (dont have to post your dance name, if we go to the club we will make conversation and give you our handles on here like a code word "Hey, I'm TravelingBoredBusiness, whats your name" If you are the girl who posts then you will know(then we can talk turkey) if not then it will just get a laugh and a confused "What?" out of the dancer and you can cross check it at the club to make sure we arent cousin Leo. This will make it to where us guys who partake in such things won't waste our time with hit or miss and dancers wont waste their time with cheapskates. the only actual issue with something like that is that many dancers will start scamming guys on here asking fr CashApp or Venmo crap before seeing them etc. Enough of all that CashApp / Venmo and ther crap.....straight cash is best, no bullshit for both parties.

@PuddyTat69 I’ve actually seen these types of women with full shaved heads, piercings and tats all over and split tongue. (No joke) They think it makes them edgey and different, all it does is make them repulsive.(Some guys pretend to like it out of politeness, which just drives them to do it more) Guys need to start ridiculing them for the freaks they are. Its fine if you want to be like that, but you DO NOT belng in a strip club (At least not one that is worth a damn) I don’t send anyone CashApp, Venmo or any of that shit. The way it works with me is they want the cash, I want the pussy. We trade and that’s it. I am not giving someone something for nothing. I don’t mind spending money at all, but the money I spend is to conserve my time and not have to deal with drama, getting to know someone or wasting my damn time or dealing with them for anything other than light conversation and then some sexual activities. If they have kids it can be a double edged sword, if they are good looking I will overlook the fact they had their pussy stretched to a watermelon size. Single mothers tend to do OTC some due to them needing the money. But to me I avoid unless I am feeling extra horny and don’t have time to procure another lady. I will not buy them new anything, Once their feet are in the air and I'm in then they can take the money I gave them for the leg spread and spend it on whatever the hell they want after we get down to screwing. 100% my style, ("In and out, no connection, no partaking of their fucked up lives.") You are certainly a man of distinction and taste.

Many are scammers. If rates are too low for teh looks then its likely LEO setting you up. Another thing that is if they insist that you get "verified" its likely a setup at the least and if not the girl could use your info to try and squeeze more money out of you. I never do incall because the provider can have a cam setup and use it against you. I do outcall only and have a method of hotel room procedures in order to make sure teh girl is real and if it ends up being a setup from a pimp daddy or LEO I am not present anyway. You also have to do your own verification process on the provider. There is a way to verify them, but if I post here the fakes will move to shut down the method, all I can say is use your brain and think of all the ways these providers will trick you and then think beyond that.