Comments by ClubFan81077 (page 2)

@drew It sounds like it already got messy with the squirting... :) CLEAN UP ON AISLE 6!

^ Good song, but not one I've ever heard played in a club!

Performed by the right cutie, here’s a 3 song set that would make my wallet part like the Red Sea: 1. Marilyn Manson - I Don’t Like the Drugs 2. Afroman - Because I Got High 3. Aerosmith - Dream On

“One Hundred Ways” is one of my favorite songs ever. Incredible talent. R.I.P.

@Icey Yep, that makes sense. When I said ironic, I was thinking about your username and high temperatures… :) @Lurker My logic isn’t any better than my singing… :) @crosscheck I try to make sure that I’m the only who can hear my own singing!

@mogul1985 We will accept any answer! @sfrsox Another vote for Monopoly...

Also, is it ironic that @Icey can enjoy temperatures in the low 90s???

@Icey and @Lurker-X Since 1.5 + 1.0 = 2.5, if the two of you sing at the same time, you're right on average... :)

@twentyfive 4.5 is impressive! So if you were a rock star, what singer might you most resemble, vocally? As for Monopoly, I ain't no spring chicken, but I still love to play it, along with many other games as well... And since you like to play chess... P-K4. Your move. :)

E - got to go with the micro bikini…

@ilbbaicnl there’s got to be a karaoke night somewhere where us “2” rated singers can belt out our tunes without being intimidated by the 3.5s and up!

@Puddy Tat Also a 3.5…ready to do a duet with GGB on karaoke night!!

@grrlgonebad With the way you can rock a bikini, hardly a surprise that you want to be on the beach! We can always dream that it’s a NUDE beach, at least if YOU will be there…haha Also, a 3.5 makes you a solid companion for any karaoke night! So when you get your Monopoly groove on, what piece do you always choose to be? :)

As much as I don't like walking into a club with a lot of cash, I'd rather have the cash I need going in, even if I were reimbursed for any club ATM fees. My reasons are: 1. I don't necessarily trust a strip club ATM. I don't know where that thing has been. :) 2. I don't want to encounter withdrawal limits. 3. I don't want to risk that there could be a glitch in the network that prevents a withdrawal when I need it. 4. I assume most strip club ATMs probably can't dispense $100 bills, which is my preferred denomination for clubs. I'm just guessing on this one, though...

I think the most abundant elements in the universe are: 1. Hydrogen 2. Helium 3. Glitter Hasn't glitter been around since the big bang? :)

@rickdugan Yes, for me, this is ONLY about helping the OP with his dilemma! Before anyone else really joined in the thread, I was already trying to reinforce just how rare it is for customer/dancer relationships to turn into something more. Even though I've had TWO dancers who actually developed feelings for me, I STILL consider my personal odds at ever going beyond the customer/dancer relationship to be ZERO. Not tiny odds, but flat out ZERO! But even if that's the same for the OP, there are things that I don't fully understand about his situation, so I'm not that comfortable suggesting to him what exactly he should do next. As you said though, he asked for the opinions, so it's fine if someone else feels confident enough to offer more direct advice. I just know that my older and wiser self would have done a few things differently with my club relationships, if I could have gone back in time and had a convo with my younger self! The problem is, I can't really explain all of that very easily to the OP on here, so if there's possibly a unique way that I might handle this situation myself, I've got no easy way to convey that to him...

@rickdugan If I had any interest in debating this topic with you or anyone else, I'd have replied directly to you or to them, but I just don't care about winning debates on the internet... The ONLY reason that I even replied again at all was JUST for the benefit of the OP. I respect whatever path he ultimately chooses. But since he seems to be much newer to all of this than you or me, I'm trying to give him whatever useful information I can provide, and then hope that everything works out well for him. Not every guy has the same definition of a "good thing". I'm just suggesting to him that he keep that in mind as he takes in various opinions from people on the internet. If I knew the OP personally, or if I'd ever witnessed even ONE interaction between him and the girl in the club, then I'd be able to give him much more definitive advice. As it is, I've tried to give him some useful info to help him make his own decision. If any of my thoughts seem like drivel to him, then he's welcome to ignore me just like the rest of the world does...lol :) Peace!

@Handfull Ah, the internet...a magical place where everyone will tell you with 100% certainty exactly what is best for you... :) I'm not going to comment on anyone else's advice in this thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and I'll just leave it at that. Imagine if every human out there had to put their entire life in front of the whole world, and have the world "vote" on what everyone else thought about their life. What percentage of people out there would have a life that's considered so "universally acceptable" that millions and millions of others wouldn't voice some kind of disapproval? I'm actually not even saying that I disagree with some of these other comments or suggestions, or that I haven't read some comments that I thought had some merit, or maybe even a lot of merit. It's not that I think some posters are necessarily giving you good advice, or that they're necessarily giving you bad advice. What I DO think is that sometimes, on the internet, people will just give advice on what might work for THEM, and they may or may not try to put themselves in your shoes... Look, you handle this situation however you think it will work out best for you. Take as many or as few suggestions from this thread as you like. But whenever I'm in a situation like this, I know that I try to do what I think will make ME happy! The way I look at it, it ain't my job to please the internet...lol

^ The Beef n Cheddar is my go to Arby's sandwich. Love that onion bun.

^ This questionnaire is just for shits and giggles, as the expression goes, so just about any sandwich is an acceptable answer. :) I had that Arby's wagyu burger once, and it was actually pretty tasty...

@skibum Thanks! I'll check out the reviews for them! I'm a little late in the season for much warm weather up there, but if I can't find a block of warm-ish weather this fall, I can always look at a late spring or early summer trip to MA. That's one reason I was kind of hoping that Austin might be good for me in the short-term, because there should be some fairly warm days down there this fall...

@HandFull Again, only you and her are truly qualified to give an informed opinion on the relationship that the two of you have now. I can only make some guesses based on what you've told me... So, if it were me in this situation, based on what you described, would I personally hesitate to ask about OTC? No, not personally, but then again, I might have already asked her about that months ago... :) But meeting a girl OTC for dinner, dances, making out, whatever... it isn't new to me... but I can't say how she will react if and when YOU ask her... There's several different ways you could try to approach this depending on 1) whether or not you still want to see if she's interested in a conventional relationship, or 2) if you just want to take things as they are now, but move that OTC, or 3) if you're wanting OTC, and also hoping your OTC experience will be different than your ITC experience in some way? It's really hard for me to advise you on exactly how to proceed, so I guess my real answer is that only you can decide on how best to approach this! I wish I could give you a more definitive answer, but I rely so heavily on my face to face interaction with a girl to determine the best course of action...

I've had multiple dancers in my past that either dumped the club, or wanted to dump the club to hang out with me instead. But whether a particular dancer sees a decent guy as just a great ITC regular or a great OTC regular, oftentimes the "friendly" texting is just her way of building the business relationship, and it doesn't necessarily mean anything more... But sometimes a dancer will actually truly enjoy talking to or spending time with a customer, so that can also happen... How do you think you want to handle your situation, at least at the moment?

@HandFull Ok, that helps me understand things a little bit better... The key thing I noticed from your last post is this: "longing for her to text me and counting the hours until she works again". Is it a fair assumption to say that you don't really have any doubts that you would like to try dating her? By that I mean, are ALL of your doubts/concerns mainly related to fear of rejection, rather than any concerns about who she is as a person, or your potential compatibility with her? A 10 year age gap doesn't seem like that much in the grand scheme of things. That doesn't necessarily mean things will work out, but just that the age gap itself might not be a big issue. Of course, a more realistic opportunity for success could also mean a more realistic opportunity for a broken heart, so, yeah, no one is going to pretend that the latter wouldn't suck... :( On the one hand, you've already said that "it is probably highly unlikely to happen", so you at least recognize that most customer/dancer relationships are unlikely to turn into something more. On the other hand, it sounds like in spite of that recognition, at least a part of you has already gone down the path of wanting more anyway? By the way, did you ever get any indication that when she was texting you more often, that she might have become frustrated that you didn't ask about seeing her OTC in some way? I'm not suggesting that was in any way the case, but just wondering if you already considered that as a possibility? Without knowing your exact relationship with her, as only you and her could know, I'm not suggesting that you should or shouldn't have done something differently. Just trying to help you think about your scenario, really... Things obviously can get tricky for any of us if the heart kind of "barges in" and overrides the brain. Sure, the brain may know that something is unlikely to work out, but the heart sometimes still wants something anyway. I may be really good at "fire-walling" my club relationships, but I've certainly experienced scenarios similar to yours in my past, outside of clubs. So I can very much relate to how you're feeling, and I'm hoping things go well for you...

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