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2 years ago
Its clear who’s morally superior anyway
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2 years ago
I dont need to text all day. I texted her like twice a week.
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2 years ago
Rick ignoring her back would be unacceptable IMO. This wasnt just her ignoring me it was her ignoring me even when i told her I would be coming to see her that weekend. I mean i said I would be at the club that weekend, idk if tje distinction matters. She was still angry about my prior disappearance so ignored me even when i said I would be at the club. That’s an insane level of disrespect. There’s supposed to be some level of appreciation, enthusiasm, gratitude for someone who’s your client.
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2 years ago
Thats the most righteous thing you can do. If someone ignores you, you have to walk away. Or talk trash then walk away
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2 years ago
Ishmael its all true. Did you read the full OP? Not just comments. Whys it hard to believe?
25 what’s stupid?
Also what should I do, beg her not to beat me? I cant apologize since I said righteous stuff, but i could beg her not to beat me
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2 years ago
It could be what you said but it could be something else. Its not a big deal or something personal. A lot of times the other guy is spending more money. If I’m already at the club i have a few hours to blow, so i can wait and be on my phone. For instance i was only gonna spend $200 or so, and she was with a guy who was spending $800 so of course she would have me wait. Even if she likes you more as a person it doesn’t make sense to have the bigger spender wait. Bigger spender should get priority. And I prefer waiting if I just got to the club cause I wanna see the other dancers.
I usually want to talk to the dancer for some time before doing VIP. And i want to spend some time in the club seeing which other dancers are there. So waiting around is normal and preferable to me.
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2 years ago
Its human nature imo, guys and girls do manipulative shit to get their needs. I don’t do it, but most people do. But yeah it takes time to figure out
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2 years ago
Rick I think it depends what you’re looking for when you buy dances, buy otc or give gifts. It seems youre the type of guy whos good with just paying for otc and dont care what else the girl does. Im not buying dances or otc just for that specific event. Im also buying them for the gratitude, the appreciation, the respect, enthusiasm, etc. so if those things are lacking, i wouldnt want to continue paying. Additionally im also looking for someone with morals. So a dancer thieving or behaving violently is a bit of a dealbreaker too even if shes not behaving that way with me
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2 years ago
Bharlem her behavior after not seeing me for months. Wanting to beat me.
You wouldn’t be able to get away with beating someone cause they said something mean. That would get you in major trouble
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2 years ago
I don’t think shes sweet i think she’s manipulative. She’s splitting the bill now, but hoping and planning you’ll commit to her eventually. Not exactly a nice person, a nice person would do that with no strings attached.
SJG isnt them being strippers meaning theure cheating too if clients getting lapdances is cheating.
Also there seem to be many many strippers with boyfriends who either know about their otc activities, or who they do it secretly from. Even if they have kids. In fact supposedly the dancers with kids are more likely to do OTC, more likely to cheat on their partner cause they’re in more need of the money
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2 years ago
Jimmy her behavior doesnt want to make me come back. It makes me want to avoid her at all cost. It takes a certain type of person to act like she does. She is some kind of hyper dominant woman. Anytime we have discussed watches or cars or anything materialistic she always asks me how much my items cost, then tells me how much her items cost and it’s usually way more than mine. Like she’s trying to one up me or maybe thinking itll make me want her more idk.
Should i beg her not to beat my ass?
Im not sure id go to the club with her there.
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2 years ago
Rick I appreciate the advice...
Usually I am stoic actually. I don’t express emotions much. But this is one of those things i dont deal with. What would you do if a girl was ignoring you? It’s especially unacceptable here because this is a paid relationship. I literally told her I would be there on the weekend which meant she would got some money. For her to still ignore it is disrespectful and rude. The only options in that case are walk away quietly, or talk some trash then walk away. I definitely couldn’t pay cash for someone who ignored me. Nor could I fuck even a civvie girl who ignored me. I see it as a form of desperation or weakness to still pursue or want to sleep with a girl who ignores you which is a subtle way to insult you.
Some people are honorable enough to donate money to someone who’s talking trash to them, i dont have that ability.
Also Rick for a girl to do that staredown as well as her ass beating threat seems odd to me. That seems like guy stuff. I think she is in some ways masculine. Wouldn’t a typical girl actually get excited over player behavior like a guy seeing and spending time with other women? Yet this girl gets enraged over it? You’d think if you haven’t seen someone for months they’d be excited to see you yet this person is grinding her teeth ready to attack me for it. I don’t think her behavior in itself is feminine. I was way too tired to fight so I didn’t want to deal with her staredown and provoke her more. Nor did I want to tell her I had seen other girls, as she was already acting crazy just from me mentioning other addictions eating up my money.
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2 years ago
Rick I have rejected civvie girls if they did things like ignore texts. In one case a single mom was inviting me to a trip to canada with her. She had ignored texts of mine months back, I had that mistreatment in mind when I refused her pathetic invitation.
If they dont show respect or gratitude or appreciation I exit with ease. That single mom was extremely angry when I talked trash to her. I didn’t explain to her why i talked trash to her either as it was randomly done months after she ignored me. Somehow i keep talking to them even after being ignored but eventually they do something else improper that reminds me of the ignore instances from the past and then I exit or talk trash and exit.
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2 years ago
Rick i feel me refusing to get dances with her because of her ignoring me, i feel
It is extremely masculine. I think its far above. Cause think about it, the typical strip club customer is desperate, horny, willing to put up with all kinds of nonsense to get the dance or pussy. Not me. I have standards for how I can be treated. Violate those standards and I exit the relationship with ease. As I did here. She ignored my texf, showed no gratitude for me telling her I would be coming on the weekend. And she lost a regular for it. A regular with a 3k a month spending budget. I think I won. Something about it feels like I won
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2 years ago
Rick what do you mean?
I only told her once that I would be coming on the weekend. I also asked her if she had seen another dancer there.
A few days passed so i told her im not getting anymore dances with her. And told her to “get fucked in prison scammer, too bad u couldnt get more money off me!”
Im not sure what to do. Should i beg her to not beat me? I could get cops involved but by that point I would have been attacked ir something. This is dangerous.
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2 years ago
I am not apologizing btw. She did silent treatment, so I insulted her and said no more dances. Id be willing to buy dances eventually, but not apologizing. If she does get some gangsta or something I would get the cops involved and she’d get in trouble as she texted me threats too.
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2 years ago
SJG what if you stop seeing a dancer because she didn’t answer your text? Or because she didnt show enough gratitude and appreciation for you telling her you’ll come see her on the weekend?
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2 years ago
They dont understand how business and logic works if they don’t understand why buying more dances is supposed to carry a discount.
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2 years ago
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drewcareypnwnot the real drew carey, but I play him at strip clubs...
Icee that is just nonsense. Many guys on here have talked about paying $300 to $500 for sex. One older gentleman has even paid $600 for outside the club dances. I have never seen the $50 blowjob guy you’re talking about.
$300 to $500 is a good amount to make for sex especially of you’re regularly getting it. I think you’re exaggerating on both fronts. The girls making $300+ for an hour of sex aren’t necessarily desperate or on drugs, they probably just want to be rich. The drug addicts are the ones who’ll do $80 sex. These women charging $300, $500, $1000 for sex are very rich women. They’re not desperate. They probably make a lot more than strippers make. Just two clients a week at $1000 and they already make more than what most strippers make, in just 2 hours per week too. You have to be extremely good looking, very famous or both in order to be able to Charge $1000 for an hour and still maintain a good number of clients. Imagine how rich these pornstar escorts are. Gettig paid $1000+ per each porn scene plus $1000 an hour from clients. Its money dancers could only dream of and most dancers wont get that much.
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2 years ago
SJG What about strippers who are in relationships?
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2 years ago
SJG I thought many countria dont have the child support or divorce laws like the US so there’s much less risk for guys to be impregnating women.
SJG woild you say a mistress is something halfway between a hooker and wife? You give her a half commitment, half hooker type relationship. Long term hookee type thing? Hooker whos your side chick basically?
ljap I expect a dancer to give discounts the more dances u buy from her. And a club too. And 1 hour should only cost 50% more than 30 minutes. Or 75% more. Not 100% more
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2 years ago
Jimmie, its civvie but you mentioned shes a hard working woman wjth kids.
There is a stereotype that single mothers are aggressive, forward, and want someone with money. A lot of single mothers banged guys who didnt stay with them, and then are looking for a nicer guy with money. When a girl asks you out it doesnt necessarily mean she likes you, it could also be she wants to use you for something like sex, your fame, status, wealth, commitment etc. the more you have any of those things the higher the chances someone could be looking to use you. This might be one of the reasons why some of these celebrities are paying to fuck escorts when they could get free sex from all kinds of civvie girls.
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2 years ago
SJG is it also relationship infidelity if a stripper is assisting woth an LDK then? It does seem that some strippers avoid LDK, and avoid grinding on the dick when its hard.
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2 years ago
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drewcareypnwnot the real drew carey, but I play him at strip clubs...
Icee are you saying stripper hoes are the norm so most strippers are also OTC hoes?
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2 years ago
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Who was mentioned there so far?