Comments by CC99 (page 48)

Hey twentyfive's stripper friends! Hope you enjoyed how absolutely dysfunctional we are as a forum lol.

@twentyfive Next thread will be... Should strippers be allowed to lock down a particular customer all night?

I don't know what I went off there for lol.

@Subraman Don't you realize that Eva and Icey here are some real ass gangstas from the hood? They don't take shit from nobody when they out on dem streets slangin dat crack an cocaine, fuck the hoes let em know when I'm chillun wit my bros.

@Icey Being autistic is not being disabled. Its not a mental disorder or anything like that, its just having a neurodiverse mind.

I haven't seen a fight in general since elementary school.

It's mostly accurate. I wouldn't describe myself as being a feminist though, I have my own ideas for what makes a good relationship. I also mostly wear cargo pants or normal jeans in winter and cargo shorts or basketball shorts in summer. You wouldn't catch me dead wearing skinny jeans lmao. I would say I had a mother who wants me to treat a girl lovingly with affection but I wouldn't say she was man-hating.

^Cute girls really are amazing aren't they?

Look I'm done complaining about how the game is rigged or unfair or stuff like that. I've found a way to satisfy my physical needs without compromising anything that I believe in and its working for me so I'm doing okay now. I am happy to explain why I've chosen to stop playing but by struggling to change the game I'm still ultimately playing it albeit from the losing position and I don't want to do that at all anymore. I'm opting out of it entirely.

So why do women like that think their attention is something that men need to work so hard for and often end up not even getting the results they desire despite having worked so hard to achieve it? Many girls dangle their pussies in-front of guys like an ice cream cone so that they can get a sense of power out of making them work hard to get them and then denying them. What's more frustrating is knowing that you worked so hard and then seeing the laziest motherfucker get all the girls. Eventually you start to feel that your efforts aren't worth the results. When you pay a girl though, you see your efforts come through. You know for a fact that the amount of effort you put in will be proportional to the reward. Because of this, I feel like the dating/hookup culture is a scam. I think this "game" that men play where they compete for women's attentions is horrible for our psychological and emotional health. I think that's what I really criticize a lot of men on TUSCL for doing is that they obviously don't want to play the game or they wouldn't be paying girls for sex but they expect me to continue playing it just because I'm young. But I'm just as fed up with it as they are. I wish that the guys here would be more accepting towards guys who don't want to play that game anymore instead of calling them losers and stuff like that for trying to find ways to opt out. We're told that the only way you can have your needs fulfilled is if you play that game but as I'm discovering, that isn't true. Guys who are figuring out how to survive without playing the game are doing us all a favor, they should be respected instead of criticized. Girls in strip clubs make it simple, they tell you what they need from you in order to give you the things you want, you work to earn them, and then they reciprocate by trying to be the girl of your dreams and fulfill your fantasies. I don't want a girlfriend who will see me as a way to upgrade her status among others. I want a girlfriend who is ready to make me the most important thing in her life and wants to become my best friend. A girl I can be vulnerable and intimate with without worrying that she will lose respect for me and leave me. I want to feel like even if the entire world was to turn on us, that we'd still have each other. I will never find a girl like that by playing a game to earn girls' attention. I will only find a girl like that by being exactly who I am right now and waiting to find a girl who knows who I am and accepts me anyway. But I also have needs that have to be fulfilled or I become a depressed, irritable, pessimistic asshole who irritates those around him with incessant complaining, and that's where hookers and 2D girls come in. With those in my life, I can do pretty well, I can have a sex life and feel like I'm living a decent life even if I haven't got what I really want most of all yet.

@Subraman I've actually always believed you to be one of the most credible sources on this forum. I wasn't saying that to support Icey's claim about it all being a persona and stuff like that, its more about what I've personally noticed. From what I've seen, they are kind of party girls, I'm not denying that a lot are to a certain extent. It obviously makes sense that quite a few of those girls are attracted to stripping but its also a bit of a mixed bag because of their bohemian personalities. To me, it seems like a lot of strippers have multiple personalities. Not like in a mental disorder way, but that a lot of them have several sides to their personality and that one side of their personality is a party girl, but that there's more personalities in there. Like there are strippers that can switch from ultra-sensual seductresses to a girl who just wants to eat cheetos on the couch. Or you have NinaBambina who is a stripper but has only slept with like six or seven guys. A lot of people describe these contrasts as "personas" but I'm not entirely sure if they are personas or if the dancer is literally tapping into a different personality. I also think it might be exhausting for them to be in one personality for too long though and that's why they want to be in very contrasting situations. The difference between the strippers and the girls in college bars is that I think that most of the girls in college bars are completely, 100% hard drinking party girls. They don't have this multiple personality thing, that is thru and thru who they are and what they dedicate the majority of their free time to doing. Personally, I think the multiple personality thing is a lot of what attracts me to strippers because I want to learn more about them. The multiple personality thing makes them so unique as a person that it interests me a lot. I don't know if you know what I'm talking about here, or maybe that's the reason you want to be around them too, but I do think that the girls at college bars are actually more dedicated to being party girls than most strippers are.

I think I personally like the bohemian personalities of strippers. They always manage to surprise me and have viewpoints that I've never heard before.

Truthfully, Subraman, I think you'd find more real party girls at a college bar. Strippers are really unique in that they are sort of party girls and also sort of not. The girls at college bars are actually unabashed hardcore drinking party addicts though. If you specifically want a fantasy girl of your dreams though or think you'd have trouble picking girls up in a college bar I can understand that. I'm not trying to be like Icey I just thought I'd let you know.

Better yet, where are the omega cucks at? And what kind of cuck is pistola?

I find soyboy even more funny because I literally am vegetarian.

@pistola Why's that? Are you saying I'm not a beta cuck?

^Okay that makes sense.

@twentyfive I think you might have misinterpreted me, I am on the side of having favorites and spending plenty of time with them.

I don't know if you saw this thread... https://www.tuscl.net/app/discussion.php?id=65029

If you're willing to wait that long I believe there's a meetup at TJHK on the 23rd of this month. You can PM @Countryman or @Founder if you want more information on that.

"You guys like comparing it to other service providers... Do you get upset and take your business elsewhere if a dr makes you wait to see them? How about leaving if a mechanic doesn't stop working on another car to service yours?" I don't think you understand the concept of VIP do you? If you were so inclined to get something done very fast, you can pay the service provider extra money to give you priority over other people. In some cases this is physically impossible, delivery drivers for example can only bring a pizza to you but so fast. I imagine, however, that if you told the car mechanic that you needed your car fixed right away and were willing to pay extra to get it done fast that they would do it. It might come with a pretty big price tag but if somebody is willing to pay it then I don't see why they shouldn't get priority. That being said, guys who want to lock down a dancer for six hours, as somebody else described, really should be considerate to the dancer and ask for an appointment OTC so that she can get properly paid for six hours worth of work. Six hours is an entire shift so the PL should be ready to pay pretty well for that. Two-three hours, however, is still in the reasonable realm for ITC if the PL spent decently. I kind of figure this is probably how it works at other clubs too but at my club I know that the amount that you buy in dances, de-facto buys you more time in the front room as well. So if you bought like ten minutes for $100, you shouldn't expect her to stick around for very long. If you bought like 20 minutes for $200 though, you can expect that she will give you company in the front room for at least 40 minutes. I've had some dancers stay for as long as 2.5 hours after that though.

Before it comes up btw, Nicole was clearly destined to be a career woman. I think its a lot more important to her than it is to most people. But for me, having kids is really important and I think trying to juggle childcare with both parents working is extremely stressful for both parents. Part time work in something creative that can be done at home is one thing but both of us working a full time corporate job? It would require taking on a level of stress and busyness that I just don't want for us. I'm not really that good with babies, so I think the burden of working that full time job is better suited to me. Any marriage that begins with the premise of "but what if we divorce" is almost bound to fail. If I marry a woman, I expect to be with her for the rest of my life and I expect her to feel the same way. If her reason for wanting a career is "what if we divorce" then that calls into question her commitment to the marriage and I will have a problem with that. I don't want to marry a woman who's already got possibly divorcing me in the past of her mind.

What's scary? The clip NiceSpice posted?

You're telling me that women are not expected to have careers now? They absolutely are. Its no longer just a matter of they have the freedom to have one, they are pretty much expected to have one now. Women who choose to be housewives are considered "bad feminists." Both of you either claimed to be suspicious of housewives or feel like they're not contributing to the household and you want to talk about "the freedom to choose a career?" A huge part of the stripper dilemma is what they want to do when they are ready to stop dancing. A lot of them don't like corporate jobs but people have made them feel like they have to get a job when I think many of them would like it if they could be a housewife and the husband makes enough money for them to live comfortably. Being a mom and having a full time job is incredibly stressful. I don't want my wife to be stressed out and exhausted because of the dual burdens of motherhood and a career due to the fact that feminists have made her feel like she's "oppressed" if she doesn't. Nobody really wants to work. If a billionaire came to me and said he would pay me $150,000 a year for no reason you think I would get a job? You work because you have to. Its better when a team's roles are split so that you're not both so stressed out and exhausted at the end of the day that you can't enjoy your lives.

They took "freedom to have a career" for "every woman is now expected to have a career." You said yourself you are suspicious of women who want to be housewives. Feminists act like because they wanted careers that they need to shame women who don't want to work.