Comments by 3131 (page 4)

The only "cost" is time. A same day cancelation is a challenge to replace. SC is always a backup plan, depending on the market. Some cities just don't have clubs up to par. I've done the same day scramble a few times over the years. IME my same day dates have been less satisfying all around. I typically chat up several potential girls for a few days leading up to a time in a city I want a sa date. Usually 2 to 4 days out is the sweetspot to solidify a plan. In addition to their profile, I try to get a feel for which girls are going to be reliable. Do they reply to text timely? Is it 1 or 2 word texts, or do they communicate well? I'm sure I subconsciously give a 9 or 10 a little more leeway when in the discussion phase, just because I REALLY want to hit that. Experience more often says the 7 or 8 that's spot on with communication is gonna be sure thing to show up.

@jimmy is politely declining a 1k ppm being a dick? You've oversimplified it. But what most of us are getting at is our target SA girls aren't using the site anyway!

I'm guessing it's for pros that are vetted by other pros to even access the site.

@warrior she didn't disclose a name. And I can't see it from the screenshot.could be a web forum? I doubt it's an app.

Of course I'm an asshole. Fully admit. Most of you probably are also.

She sent me a screenshot. It was brief. Not from a girl I'd ever met, just one that was unhappy with however our discussion negotiations started. I'm guessing it was one of the SA girls I'd talked to in that time frame that wanted over 1k. I don't really care to fix the situation. I can fix it quickly by getting a new burner text number if I wanted to. But I dont. Point being for me , I'm really not looking for that high volume pro. I like the SA girls that want to get dinner or drinks and then hotel for fun. There are TONS of them in most cities I've visited.

Saw a high school classmates (now ex) wife dancing at a club. Recognized her from a prior meeting.

How can you tell that your new SA date is also a stripper? She's more than 30 minutes late for your reservation.

Cheetah. . . . . Distant 2nd / 3rd in no particular order DD or BT All the reasons already mentioned above. BT might be appealing if you are under 30. Too party vibe loud.

@htxx I'm going to need to plan a trip

In smaller markets, and even large .... alot of dancers don't bring home 500 per night. Maybe Saturday night. @wldtatas I'm usually hanging out for drinks or dinner, then the hotel. Total time with me is usually 2 to 4 hours. I've had half a dozen double pops, but those were rarities when she just stays around and chills long enough for me to get horny again. I've never asked for it, it just happened. 95% of the time either she or I get dressed immediately and that's a good clue that it's over.

Couple other Red Flags. I avoid really new profiles in general. Those are most often the scammers that keep making new ones. I also avoid profiles with limited description. If a profile goes dead after you've started texting, but before your meet..... also a bad sign. She got reported for something or else blocked you.

*porn

@moneyman inflation has hit recently in my experience. Cities that I could always find options at 400 are more like 500 now. The 1000 requests are also becoming more frequent. These used to be only the mid 20s college cheerleaders, true 9 or 10s, or pork star lookers. I'm getting 1k quotes from 34 year old moms sometimes. Attractive women, but these would a been 5 or 600 a few years ago.

The WORST is trying to filter out the girls that will last minute cancel. Or even no show. I still haven't perfected it. I like to get a little back and forth chat via text. Any red flags like problems with their car or phone, headaches, or drug problems are usually a no for me. Use of whatsapp is still a zero percent chance of success for me to date. I might stop even communicating there. I refuse to download kik. Snap has been 50/50 The younger girls like it.

I've surprisingly seen only a small percentage of SA girls show up substantially different than their pictures. Yeah there was the "29" year old that showed up 40. Maybe 2 or 3 that were substantially heavier. Had a couple that actually surprised me showing up. Like I was expecting a 7 ad this was 8 or 9 range

SA cost will vary by city and quality. Nationwide over the past 4 + years I've found the sweet spot is 4 - 6. I'd say with inflation the past year there are fewer 400s available. Some trends toward requests for 7, but I've rarely exceeded 6.

1. Drink less alcohol. 2. No personal experience but ive read Cabergoline might help reduce your refractory period. Please consult your doctor before trying this.

Could be dangerous for lots of reasons. I just took a selfie of myself. It pulled up a dozen other old guys plus it found my work website pic and some old photobucket pics of me from a group 10 years ago

Damn Muddy, I'm glad I don't have your picky standards! I will say my MOA on SA is probably less picky than I am in the clubs. In clubs, I am always drawn to the youngest athletic hard bodies. I've had several of those on SA, but I've found for an actual night out and then in.... the majority of the sweet spot is high 20s low 30s.

Yes it is competition. I club less than I did pre SA. So its definitely taking men outa the SC. Is it taking dancers away from dancing? Probably. @muddy you can set a filter on SA to search certain ages and body types you know? If you filter for only under 30 and slim or athletic. And white. I'd say it's MUCH higher appeal rate than 3%. If I'm hitting a new city, I'll shotgun out multiple messages and and see what sticks. Chat up those who respond and see who has potential.

It's like Google on steroids. Try it. Crazy what it pulls up

You can search 3 times per day for free ( unlimited if you use a VPN) Or there are pay options. I paid 1 month. Didn't see a value. I usually search any SA girl before meeting. Avoided a catfish once.

I'm seeing alot more bigger girls dancing across the nation. Part of it is our society has further normalized obesity. Somewhere along the lines Sports Illustrated and Victoria Secret started putting obese women on their advertising. I don't see the appeal. But I know guys that do. Bottom line for me, if she weighs more than I do..... hard pass.

This topic needs an update! Did you negotiate? Seal the deal? How'd it go? Don't leave us hanging.....