Girls that try SA for the first time?
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Newbie girls to the SA world has been a no fly zone for me to this point. Had one cancel last minute with a typical excuse. Had another actually meet for drinks and then decided p4p wasn't for her.
Finally had a young 20 year old first timer show up for dinner and then completed the transaction.
She could have been fibbing, but I don't think so in this case.
I would guess first timers doing otc or even itc extras are a similar quest.
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Not quite, at least on the OTC front. I think the difference is that a first time OTC stripper is already doing sex work, even if she's not fucking and sucking. She's still earning her living rubbing on guys and generally leveraging their hard-ons for her financial gain. It's a smaller jump for her than a girl who has never done that sort of thing. Once she commits to it, I find that most of these girls see it through.
The newbie SA girl I would agree has a little more ramp to run. But even so I find the payoff to be worth it once she finally pulls the trigger. A girl generally doesn't go on SA because she's confused about what guys want - sometimes it just takes them a little longer to work up the nerve to go through with it.
But where the similarities exist is in the early hotel experiences. They often need to be led through the encounter. It's the most natural feeling p4p experience I know. I often find myself reverting to what I used to do during my dating years to move things over the goal line, which of course is to go down on them. Sometimes they cum and sometimes not, but either way they're more than ready for the rest of the adventure.
Good times.
I typically chat up several potential girls for a few days leading up to a time in a city I want a sa date. Usually 2 to 4 days out is the sweetspot to solidify a plan. In addition to their profile, I try to get a feel for which girls are going to be reliable.
Do they reply to text timely? Is it 1 or 2 word texts, or do they communicate well?
I'm sure I subconsciously give a 9 or 10 a little more leeway when in the discussion phase, just because I REALLY want to hit that. Experience more often says the 7 or 8 that's spot on with communication is gonna be sure thing to show up.
For some guys that cost is pretty high. I'd rather take three quick shots and hit one with some dancers (because they all talk and the one you get first may lead to even better options) than do a lot of back and forth maybe to land a stranger. But if your approach is working for you then it's always interesting to hear how other guys go about the hobby.
Honestly, perhaps Rick should take this advice seriously, as it comes from someone who is an expert in not looking smart.
Shame on you.
I hear ya', but nah. Young Icee thinks she's creating fire by pounding the same 4 points over and over in different ways, as if she knows more about how clubs and relationships work than the guys on this board: (1) Any girl who ever has sex for money is an indiscriminate hooker; (2) any guy who fucks around with a stripper is a John; (3) people don't go to strip clubs to fuck around with strippers; and (4) married men fucking around with strippers is very very bad.
So rather than expend any real effort in responding, I keep a few stock posts in a file. Ctrl C, Ctrl V, voila! And I'll keep using them until she learns to behave herself. Or she won't, in which case she's going to get awful tired of seeing the same insults over and over. 😉
If you were normal you wouldn't have to groom or coerce hookers. You wouldn't be rejected by them. You're off mentally thinking a hooker taking your money is an accomplishment
@Wall: You can include me in that high cost of time too and you hit upon a very important difference between SA and clubs. As I have posted here before, historically I had not been able to do much with SA because the filtering and "get to know you" chatter is just so damned time consuming. Going to eh club at your own convenience, on nights where you can carve out some time, is much more convenient.
I had a window during the holiday season where work slowed down dramatically, which is how I was able to dive in a bit and get a couple of SA girls into the rotation. But once they've played out, I'm not sure how soon it will be before I line up another SA girl.
Shame on you.
Certainly less time consuming for me than sitting in a club that I might only visit once a year and trying to figure out which one might be willing to leave the club with me. Couple that with many aren't allowed to leave before closing without a hefty fee. Nah...I'll spend a few minutes chatting on text the week before and have much better odds.
A few messages and I can usually garner the needed Intel to decide. A few minutes here and there on my phone.
^^^Ive had the same tact with her. It's also funny and ironic to see her bring up her same troll at you over and over again and carry it into other threads...while at the same time she accuses you of being a repetitious troll. It's all a bit rich. 🤭🤡😂😂😂