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What Is Pegging And How Do You Actually Make It Feel Good? https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19934153/how-to-do-pegging/ SJG

Gender fluidity: What it means and why support matters https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/gender-fluidity-what-it-means-and-why-support-matters-2020120321544 When this first came out in 1991, people I knew were writing papers about it. It is really interesting. SJG AC/DC High Voltage album www.youtube.com

How to Have a Prostate Orgasm: 35 Tips for You and Your Partner https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/prostate-orgasm SJG Humble Pie - For Your Love (1970) www.youtube.com

F2f shailynn, you would not get by with the things you assume on here, so as it is you’re nothing but a keyboard cowboy! Might I remind you, my privacy wall is impenetrable and as such my affairs will only be known to members of my organization. Our secret recipe will not be disclosed, for a certain ingredient causes drowsiness to those who ingest said gravy. AAMPs rule! :) SJG

#JusticeForJohnnyDepp Trends After Amber Heard Admits to Hitting Actor in Audio Clip https://www.newsweek.com/justiceforjohnnydepp-trends-amber-heard-admits-hitting-actor-1485267 SJG

Identifying as Truscum is a Disservice to Yourself https://www.ftmmagazine.com/identifying-as-truscum-is-a-disservice-to-yourself/ “Truscum”: Why Do They Hate The Way They Do? https://medium.com/@atranslog/truscum-why-do-they-hate-the-way-they-do-23d5f9fe21aa SJG

Donna was a Vietnamese AMP girl. What was significant about my experience with her, and the reason I mentioned her about 2 years ago was to talk about how one breaks out of the selection box. Just like you don't let girls sell you dances at a strip club, you don't accept the type of serial line up they usually offer at AMPs. You find ways around it, to make the girl see that you are selection her and of getting her softened up before committing. So anyway, I came over after work and was not sure if I was going to session. Then I spotted Donna, out a side door washing her car. So I went in and asked about her. But they did not understand me. So they showed me 4 girls and I had to turn them down. Finally someone understood and went and got Donna. Well that breaking the selection process. Once we got into the room, she had her arms around my neck and was pressing her entire body against me, and then soon we were DFKing intently. And the rectal stimulation that followed was sublime. Well this is way way beyond what AMP's offer. And then in the long years which followed, Donna would go to other shops in other counties, as LE was closing places down. And she would always select a new name. But all I had to do was start calling other shops and tell the story about the car washing, and then the girl on the other end of the line would fill in about the Purple Dress. So they all knew the story. And then they would tell me Donna's new name and I could come and see her. But my point is, you must find ways to break the selections process, in all these venues, as that is the key to getting the girl softened up and getting great GFE, followed by mind blowing pegging. Most of these guys still don't understand this, but the one who does and who practices it continually is SJG. Because I was married, I felt that I could not start seeing Donna or any others offsite. I knew that if I did that, then I would be making the girl into my mistress, and that this always eventually results in hurt feelings. Regrettably Donna has since dies of leukemia. SJG

FWIW, Purple Dress Donna was always maximum GFE with me, arms around me and letting us melt together, and looking straight into my eyes up close while pegging me. Hard to beat that. The reason I introduced discussion of her about 2 years back was to explain that the selection process is everything when P4P FS is on the table. I selected Donna when she was out a side door washing her car. I had to turn down 4 other girls before someone understood what I was saying and went and got Donna. So when the selection works that way, the GFE and accompanying FS will be awesome. If people think it through a bit, they will see that you want to break out of the designed selection boxes. In a strip club, you do not want to let girls sell you dances. Rather, you select the girl yourself and let front room GFE happen. Get a FRMOS going and then guide her hand down from your back into your shorts. Let her know you are clean and she can finger you. People have explained that this is how it works in the best of the US dives, and in TJ. Regrettably, Purple Dress Donna has died of leukemia. As far as my ex-wife, I would not want to know someone like that today, not sexualized enough. In the end, not willing or able to satisfy. A prescription for problems. So I over look young women who come across in a similar way. Don't need to deal with them. It would never work. Real issue is what relations of any type will I continue to have with my ex-wife. I would like to think that there will be some kinds of communications and support. But even at this juncture that seems very difficult. SJG

The best plan of attack should be to gain the mesero's trust as a friend. If you catch him looking in your direction, then strike up a conversation. Any excuse to start a friendship. Once you get to know him, you'll soon discover whether you desire a deeper friendship or not. You don't have to come out to him right away, but you should eventually disclose your intentions. Even if you find yourself falling in love with him, have a little patience. If he shares your feelings, he'll return the sentiment. If he's gay, you'll eventually know when he's ready for you to know. Until then keep your wand in your pants and stay in line. If he is not, then you can keep a good friendship and improve the good things you both have together. Don't always judge your feelings in a strict way. Don't make it a "I must have him or not have him at all" decision. There are plenty nuances you can explore in this situation. Besides, there are many many many other meseros out there waiting to be discovered. You might be surprised. SJG

The Fat Acceptance Movement: Answers to 5 Important Questions https://www.talkspace.com/blog/body-positivity-fat-acceptance-quotes/ Seeing Ourselves Beautiful: 10 Bloggers Fighting Fat Shame & Affirming Body Positivity https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/magazine/10-bloggers-fighting-fat-shame/ SJG

^^^ The homo erotic CHUMPS are the ones buying dances. SJG

Effective Allyship: A Transgender Take on Intersectionality https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3EcuDfDjUd8 Kids Explain Intersectionality https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WzbADY-CmTs SJG

The Eötvös Effect, named after Hungarian nobleman and physicist Baron Roland von Eötvös, is a longitudinal effect which affects gravimeters and occurs when a vessel is traveling eastwards or westwards. In the early 1900s, a German team from the Institute of Geodesy in Potsdam carried out gravity measurements on moving ships in the Atlantic, Indian and Pacific Oceans. While studying their results Eötvös noticed that the readings of the gravimeter were slightly lower when the boat moved eastwards, and slightly higher when it moved westward. It is found that a gravimeter is a low-frequency seismometer, and that the theory of gravimetry is based on a theoretical assessment of the background noise in the subseismic band. The patterns of the tides and other phenomena can be pulled out of the background noise, and are assumed to be due to "gravity". In connection with the above, The Eötvös Effect is an effect which adds or subtracts anthropogenic and microseismic noises to the gravimeter when a vessel moves eastwards or westwards. Although the cause of the noise is unknown, the noise may be related to the stars, tides, or even the upper flow of the 'great ocean conveyor belt', all of which make regular westwards motions across the earth. A vessel going against this noise would pick up greater noise than a vessel which goes with the noise. Due to the nature of the gravimeter, it is suggested that this effect seen in the gravimeter should be better classified under a category of seismology. SJG

What the Heck is Genderfluid? Part 1 - Th-Ink Queerly - Medium https://medium.com/th-ink/what-the-heck-is-genderfluid-part-1-dd0f8b120ea9 SJG

Fifty Most Iconic Gender Benders of All Time https://www.thecut.com/2013/01/fifty-most-iconic-gender-benders-of-all-time.html Gender Bending and Gender Conformity: The Social Consequences of Engaging in Feminine and Masculine Pro-Environmental Behaviors https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-019-01061-9 SJG

Identifying as Truscum is a Disservice to Yourself https://www.ftmmagazine.com/identifying-as-truscum-is-a-disservice-to-yourself/ Why I’m a transmedicalist, a truscum https://medium.com/@danapham.au/why-im-a-transmedicalist-a-truscum-4f6fffab9522 SJG

Why I Believe Every Man Should Experience Being Penetrated www.bustle.com SJG

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Why I Believe Every Man Should Experience Being Penetrated https://www.bustle.com/articles/137828-why-i-believe-every-man-should-experience-being-penetrated SJG

^^^ No such thing as gay / straight.

Feeling Dysphoric? https://so-many-genders.tumblr.com/tagged/dysphoria SJG

NASA Going Nowhere Since 1958 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AGxhmZ6OKUU Another Picture Proves the Flat Earth https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rc42p2O0x_k SJG

10 Tips for Your First Trip to the Bathhouse https://www.pride.com/gay/2015/10/07/10-tips-your-first-trip-bathhouse SJG

Why Every Man Should Try Prostate Milking Once in Their Lifetime https://www.butt-wax.com/blog-1/how-to-milk-your-prostate 12 Things You Might Feel During Prostate Massage (You Won't Believe Number 10!) https://pluglust.com/blogs/news/12-things-you-might-feel-during-prostate-massage-you-wont-believe-number-10 SJG

Genderfork — genderqueer, unisex, & androgynous photos http://genderfork.com/ Genderfluid Support https://genderfluidsupport.tumblr.com/ Genderfluid Shit — Other Non-Binary Blogs https://so-many-genders.tumblr.com/non-binary-blogs SJG