Anyone tried to get a FRMOS going with the meseros? I know a lot of them "claim" to be straight but what if you show some generosity and maybe get them to sit on your lap and say "it's just a joke, we're just playing around".
What about getting one of them in on a three way with one of the girls. At least start that way and then see if they will do a one on one guy-guy TLN next time?
SJG
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SJG
So are you approaching meseros, or are you waiting 'till they approach you? Are you selecting the one you want? Maybe someone in some nice tight jeans that give a hint of the package?
HK bar, other bars, street, massage?
Looking for TLN? Looking for meseros you can see regularly? Taking them to lunch and then into one of the bars, for preliminaries?
Front room makeout sessions?
Good Luck! SJG
I have lots of big plans, but still not quite sure that I would want to be a principle in such an operation, or getting money out of such doings. But I am getting closer.
Right now I am just bouncing the idea off of people, see what they think, see if they have any constructive comments.
I have though about the idea of a special VIP card for a group of meseros. The card costs no money, it is a trust card. But if you show it to a mesero, and scans it, maybe asks you to type your pin number. If it clears, then you are given special treatment and special pricing.
In most AMPs the dolling up and slut wear level is not as high as in strip clubs. But in San Francisco it is still closer.
So if your card clears, you are led from the lobby to a VIP selection room. A guy give you a fruit drink, suggesting that you are to relax and be comfortable, not the norm in AMPs. Then a guy, wearing strapped on stripper shoes, not always so in AMPs, will approach you in a TJ manner, likely sitting on your lap and ramming his tongue into your mouth. If you opt to session with him, there will be a special pricing and a longer time formula, so you can have a nice pegging session. The shop might be "Relaxation" instead of massage, though LE looks harder at these.
But the men and the shop will make money reliably and safely from these members, and likely contact info is exchanged so that future sessions will be OTC.
This would be an easier way to start than opening special Members Only establishments.
The Rise of the Bromosexual Friendship: nytimes.com
SJG
The best plan of attack should be to gain the mesero's trust as a friend. If you catch him looking in your direction, then strike up a conversation. Any excuse to start a friendship. Once you get to know him, you'll soon discover whether you desire a deeper friendship or not. You don't have to come out to him right away, but you should eventually disclose your intentions.
Even if you find yourself falling in love with him, have a little patience. If he shares your feelings, he'll return the sentiment. If he's gay, you'll eventually know when he's ready for you to know. Until then keep your wand in your pants and stay in line.
If he is not, then you can keep a good friendship and improve the good things you both have together. Don't always judge your feelings in a strict way. Don't make it a "I must have him or not have him at all" decision. There are plenty nuances you can explore in this situation. Besides, there are many many many other meseros out there waiting to be discovered. You might be surprised.
SJG
Thinking about it more I feel like a FRMOS is the key here. Slip him some money and maybe start with an innocent kiss on the cheek?
SJG
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Anyone ever used grindr inside HK TJ to see if there are any meseros on it?
SJG
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SJG
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The best plan of attack should be to gain the mesero's trust as a friend. If you catch him looking in your direction, then strike up a conversation. Any excuse to start a friendship. Once you get to know him, you'll soon discover whether you desire a deeper friendship or not. You don't have to come out to him right away, but you should eventually disclose your intentions.
Even if you find yourself falling in love with him, have a little patience. If he shares your feelings, he'll return the sentiment. If he's gay, you'll eventually know when he's ready for you to know. Until then keep your wand in your pants and stay in line.
If he is not, then you can keep a good friendship and improve the good things you both have together. Don't always judge your feelings in a strict way. Don't make it a "I must have him or not have him at all" decision. There are plenty nuances you can explore in this situation. Besides, there are many many many other meseros out there waiting to be discovered. You might be surprised.
SJG
I suggest you try it at "On The Border" or "Tres Amigos" and report back on results.