Comments by steve3003 (page 10)

@mondogogo: listen to mondo bongo and chill out a bit; your writing may benefit

Always go for the hottest girl. You'd be surprised how many times they turn out to be liberal with them sexual matters.

Short-term: looks, longer-term: personality. Lots of lookers around. Many fewer with that personality thingy.

@snowtime: You got it right. This 10-year cs10pro fella is a newbie. IMO, you gotta have at least 2 decades under your belt (3 decades is better) to know what you're talking about. I do tip $20s at the stage but it's to tip the dancer cause she's been good to me prior, not because I expect her to be good to me later. It's mostly for my semi-regulars and regulars. Occasionally for dancers I don't know if they've put on a good show. They come to thank me but rarely do I ask for LDs from them. This newer generation that's attached to LDs (I get my fornication mostly OTC and some ITC) is not my kind of thing. I suspect many of the lurkers out there feel the same way.

@Jinxi: Thanks for the dancer's perspective. What I've found over the years is that, although women like to be pursued, if there is no STRONG signal of genuine reciprocity -- doesn't return calls or txt messages promptly, shows lackluster initiative, etc. -- then chances are it ain't gonna work out. What confused me when I was younger was the indoctrination that when a guy pursues hard enough (w/o crossing the line to stalking) the girl may come around. That ain't so. The same applies to dancers although the signals can get mixed up in SC settings.

@georgemicrodong: Writing ain't your strength. Keep your day job and follow Hemingway's advice now and then.

5 "solid" dancers over 10 years? That's slightly better than a monkey typing the works of Shakespeare on a warm afternoon. :-)

"The stage or as I like to call it tip rail is exactly that meant for tipping. It is not a place to lear, cavort, heckle, or simply just gawk. If you are up close and personal you are there for a reason and should tip accordingly." Agree with this part 100%. Assholes that do that destroy the vibe. As to the rest, on the whole you seem a bit uptight avalons07. Some drama and misbehavior is part of the strip club culture where human frailties come to the fore. Within limits. But wouldn't mind visiting a Martha Stewart run titty bar now and then. :-)

vixen7: where the fuck is part2? You are a great writer. Practice makes perfect -- don't spend all your time dancing and doing makeup. An impatient fan.

We've all been there. Even a jaded old timer like myself. When it strikes, it strikes. It's a physical thing, so can't do much about it. It's that damn oxytocin thing that screws your brain up. No shame in falling for a girl, even if it's a bar girl. Reminding yourself that she's got zero interest in you except as a source of $$$ can help but not much. Same for the other fish in the sea: they ain't quite the same. Gotta own up and suffer through it. Best one liner I saw scribbled in a SC bathroom wall: "She will never love you."