How to get More than a Lap Dance
Monday, July 16, 2012 12:00 AM
For starters, this article is based on my personal experience over the past 10 years or so. At first, like most of you, I started going to clubs and easily spend 100-200 each time, with nothing to show for it but blue balls! So I got to thinking, how can I start seeing some of these girls outside of the club on a more intimate basis. There's no magic to it, I've learned that you have to just be yourself and be honest with what you are looking for.
The hard part I have found is the feeling out process and getting to know them part in the club. When you find the young lady whom you'd like to approach, it's always best to sit at the stage when they are dancing...don't bother with the $1's if you find the one you want to approach. I've always found the $20 bill to do the trick to get her to come sit with you when she's done - it's well worth the investment people!
Once she is done and she starts collecting, don't be afraid to ask her to come see you when she's done changing. You'll be surprised that 100% of them will say to go back to your table and wait for them. And they do every time. When she sits down, buy her a drink before she asks for one (we all know they have to hustle drinks). This is where you will get to know them. They will sure enough ask to give you a dance, tell them in a minute, you want to get to know them a little bit. Not all of them will stick around, those are the ones who are in it for a quick buck and you don't want them in the first place. The ones that do stick around you have a good chance with as long as you don't blow it. Play it cool, ask if she is a student, has kids, etc. I've found that single moms are your best bet.
You have to make them feel at ease and must have a little gift of gab. Ask for a dance. If nothing else, you will get a better dance than the average Joe. After the first dance, ask to go sit down again, they won't say no. By this time, let them know that you are interested in getting to know her outside of the club. I've found that this works better for daytime dancers more than night shift. The best times for this "date" is around 6-7 pm when they are usually done with their shift. Do not push them, if they aren't comfortable with the idea right away (and most won't be), tell them that's cool and that you are in no hurry since you are honestly waiting for the right one.
Ask when their regular shift is. You may have to invest a few bucks into her on subsequent visits. Be persistent, but don't push the idea. They will be coy and ask what you want in private, all will claim that they won't go all the way, but let them know that's what you want ultimately, they aren't dumb, they know that's what we want, so don't lie about it.
Take the time and invest into this, it will work. I have hooked up with 5 solid girls and all have been long term arrangements until the arrangement runs its course. Good luck!
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