discussion comment
13 years ago
Agreed with everyone else. You should feel an obligation to "give" something, especially if it is free cover hours and drink specials. This is not a bar and it is not a peep show. But if you are tipping, than you are doing the bare minimum and in my book, that is just enough. Tell you what, I will meet you there (not the same club I'm sure, but nevertheless).
discussion comment
14 years ago
While my experience consists of about 5 months, still I have noticed this to be the case in a few clubs, but I think there are a lot of factors that go into it. I am more like you and I at least want the girl to have had a reason to come over to me (even if it was just to make money) than for it to be because I was waving my hands for her to come over. My buddy on the hand, will stand up, point and motion to whomever he wants. I guess it all depends on what each one of us want or want to spend.
In terms of the girls though, I agree, that to a large degree it is laziness, but sometimes it is the girl's demeanor or maybe even manager's request that the girls don't be pushy and they may have misconstrued the meaning. I have now had two occasions in just the last two weeks, where I had a girl come over to me and she sits with me. One, she gave me one dance and quit, despite my affirmative to the liking. She later said she didn't want to be pushy. Then last night, I have a girl come over to me and we sit and talk for about 2-3 hours with no dancing. Finally, I asked and she said it was because they were told not to be asking guys for dances. I mean, I might not have believed her, but no one would sit for 3 hours and make nothing.
However, I think most times, I think it is what you said. I have really found management to be a huge issue. I can now really tell when the management is good someplace and where it isn't. Even the overall vibe is evident. I am sick of the clubs with the girls that line the bar doing nothing. You know, I understand the job and everything else, but so do they. I think that is where this site in particular has really helped me out. No more wasting time at the stupid clubs with the lazy girls!
discussion comment
14 years ago
Tell her the real question isn't if you are cop, it is if she can perform well enough that it wouldn't matter.
discussion comment
14 years ago
Eros guide is legit, just like backpage is, but obviously both can be scoped by the fuzz, so use discretion. I think like any of this, doing what we are doing here is what helps, and then I notice that on backpage if a dude finds a scammer, he posts it on there to let guys know and we need to do the same for each other. Typically, or I guess recently, I will visit a few clubs and backpage when I am in a town. I usually prepare a few weeks ahead of time for the "donatable" services of a young lady, checking out if the ad is up on the site daily or at least frequently. If I arrive in town and a new post goes up with some unbelievably "too good to be true" info, I just pass it up.
discussion comment
14 years ago
Heather Hunter
Jenna Heart
Monique Alexandra
Ashton Moore
Crissy Moran
Don't know about order, just the five that almost always one of them comes to mind for me to see.
article comment
13 years ago
Good comments and a good post. As a travelers, I can concur from that perspective as well, that I truly enjoy coming into Atlanta (especially if the girls name is Atlanta). Personally, no matter where I am, I miss Texas, which I just consider a high mileage state, no matter where you are, but I truly think Atlanta ranks right up there for great clubs and possibly even beats out the greater Miami area, in my opinion only of course.
Again, we all know Cheetah and as I always say, knowing ahead of time what you are getting into gives no one an excuse to not know it. My last time at Cheetah really showed me that with a group of guys, Cheetah is pretty good. Buy a bunch of table dances and for $$ split between the boys, you could have a fully nude woman dance on your table all night, lol, not bad at all!
But I really like Follies and Flashers, although Flashers really reeks and is a little small, I still like hommie feel, it has never been packed when I was there and have had some fun.
I look forward to returning in September and will maybe try Oasis, although I still have my free admission to Gold Rush and might go by for that t-bone special.
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13 years ago
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popCleverly disguised as a responsible adult
Funny enough, just recently got done writing my NOLA reviews. I have a great distaste for the area, so will hold back any attacks, but I beg to differ with anyone that thinks that this area hold anything over the vast majority of large cities (which I realize NOLA is not) and tourist spots. Except for maybe Orlando, which is a horrible, horrible place for SC's (or any of the hobbies really), NOLA would be hard pressed to beat any of them.
I would agree with pop and to a certain degree m00t, in that it is all perspective when going to these areas, which is why tuscl and our accurate reviews are so vital. There is really no excuse to go into NOLA or Orlando or anywhere and not know what you are walking into. At least with NOLA, there are clubs like Visions, that can at least offer that SC feel that most cities deliver. Bourbon street clubs merely offer high priced eye candy.
However, it is too easy to say, if you have the money . . . because honestly, if I have that kind of money, I would rather hope on a plane and go elsewhere. A matter of fact, a buddy of mine did just that. He was with a client and they flew their own cessna into NOLA. They were gonna do a SC, but opted to get back on the plane, fly to Houston and go to St. James, where my buddy has VIP access. They didn't regret it!
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13 years ago
Agree on most points here as well and I think we all vote that Johns premises are mostly all great, so anything said after that is just us throwing in some kindly rebuttals or additional thoughts. I think the clarification on the "drinking water" was spot on as was the "innkeeper" info (although possibly you get points deducted for knowing that, lol. For a second, I thought, "dad, is that you" . . .it isn't you right?).
I too am going to nix the standing up idea, but if anything just for myself. Some peeps can pull some things off, some can't. For starters, I go to relax and have a good time. standing up and sitting down isn't it. I like the thought of not making her sit down if you aren't going to buy her a drink, but not sure I would make that a rule, but just a nice gesture I personally keep in mind, although most certainly, some girls either don't stick around long enough or don't pass the "I buy you a stripper cost drink". I agree we need to deal with respect, but understand that what is respectful is a matter of opinion and some of the pushy girls don't quite get it. They may be working, but I am a patron, so let's play it by ear.
Lastly, the club, time of day and how crowded it is has to be taken into account, but I guess that is probably implied in the post.
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13 years ago
I think there are two caveats to the idea of being a "regular". One is being a regular with the club and another is being a regular with the girls. I think a major pro to being a regular, or at the very least, really knowing the club, is the comfort level of knowing what you can and can't get. I would consider myself a regular at a few clubs, one in Houston, Dallas and Atlanta. In these, no matter the girl, I feel I am the "regular". I know what I can get and I feel I have the upper hand. I don't need to "know" the girl, because I know the rules.
This one is tough, though, although I agree with most of the points. I was longing for the ability to be a "regular" somewhere here recently in terms of knowing some of the girls, but I travel so much and the club that I consider my place, always has so many girls, I hardly ever see the same one. The girls that I do know, I have spent too much money on in the past and so when I don't have that kind of change with me, they move on.
So, my "regular" status with the ladies never seems to work, but being the regular at the clubs has.
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14 years ago
I agree with most of you about "hygiene", but in terms of "dress" I think it really depends on the club. Being a rookie at the club scene, I have been to nicer areas like Miami and Tampa and lesser areas like the outskirts of New Orleans, Birmingham and currently El Paso and I think dress depends on the club (i.e. clientele and dancers) and the person. In the larger metro areas I think the girls actually have some "art" behind what they are doing and they know who has the goods to deliver (money et al). The smaller markets, I get very little play dressed up, where as in the larger markets, I have much better success. I found that knowing the clientele, and dressing a bit better than them, helps me more than just going all out and dressy snazzy. It's the old, if you and a buddy are being chased in the woods by a bear, you don't have to be fast, just faster than your buddy. But if you are too fast, you just run into another bear. So I dress the part and be just a touch ahead of the other guy. No doubt my looks get in the way every now and then, but hey, what I can say.<br />
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Granted, never tried gym shorts, but I actual had a stripper tell me one time to wear more accessible clothes. I find shorts, if allowed in the club, to be a great article of clothing for easy access and more importantly, depending on the club, ability to easily hide certain activities. <br />
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But again, depends on the club, the type of girls and the clientele. However, I agree with skeets that hygiene should always be practiced and that goes for both girl and guy at the club. But I think dress is arbitrary. I've seen many a hot dancer head back with the baller that looks like he came straight from the court. So, she may not like it, but she passed me up for him because he threw a couple dollars her way. There is one for everyone is what I figure. <br type="_moz" />