highroller23

Agreed with everyone else. You should feel an obligation to "give" something, especially if it is free cover hours and drink specials. This is not a bar and it is not a peep show. But if you are tipping, than you are doing the bare minimum and in my book, that is just enough. Tell you what, I will meet you there (not the same club I'm sure, but nevertheless).

While my experience consists of about 5 months, still I have noticed this to be the case in a few clubs, but I think there are a lot of factors that go into it. I am more like you and I at least want the girl to have had a reason to come over to me (even if it was just to make money) than for it to be because I was waving my hands for her to come over. My buddy on the hand, will stand up, point and motion to whomever he wants. I guess it all depends on what each one of us want or want to spend. In terms of the girls though, I agree, that to a large degree it is laziness, but sometimes it is the girl's demeanor or maybe even manager's request that the girls don't be pushy and they may have misconstrued the meaning. I have now had two occasions in just the last two weeks, where I had a girl come over to me and she sits with me. One, she gave me one dance and quit, despite my affirmative to the liking. She later said she didn't want to be pushy. Then last night, I have a girl come over to me and we sit and talk for about 2-3 hours with no dancing. Finally, I asked and she said it was because they were told not to be asking guys for dances. I mean, I might not have believed her, but no one would sit for 3 hours and make nothing. However, I think most times, I think it is what you said. I have really found management to be a huge issue. I can now really tell when the management is good someplace and where it isn't. Even the overall vibe is evident. I am sick of the clubs with the girls that line the bar doing nothing. You know, I understand the job and everything else, but so do they. I think that is where this site in particular has really helped me out. No more wasting time at the stupid clubs with the lazy girls!

Tell her the real question isn't if you are cop, it is if she can perform well enough that it wouldn't matter.

Eros guide is legit, just like backpage is, but obviously both can be scoped by the fuzz, so use discretion. I think like any of this, doing what we are doing here is what helps, and then I notice that on backpage if a dude finds a scammer, he posts it on there to let guys know and we need to do the same for each other. Typically, or I guess recently, I will visit a few clubs and backpage when I am in a town. I usually prepare a few weeks ahead of time for the "donatable" services of a young lady, checking out if the ad is up on the site daily or at least frequently. If I arrive in town and a new post goes up with some unbelievably "too good to be true" info, I just pass it up.