Pros and Cons of Being a Strip Club Regular
rell
washington dc
Now for those who are new to this or just dont have a clue here are some personal things I've learned and pros and cons of being a strip club regular.</p>
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PROS</p>
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-staff knows you and you normally get better treatment and less hassle from security<br />
-the dancers feel more comfortable approaching you and you can get better dances out of them<br />
- you get drinks on the house if your cool with the bartender<br />
- alot of hook ups and otc experiences if you play it right</p>
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CONS</p>
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-dancers will try to "claim" you so if theres a new hot dancer at the club.. chances are shes been told that your taken<br />
-you learn too much about the dancers(personal issues,baby daddy drama)i come to see you shake your ass and tits not here about your issues<br />
-as soon as you come in.. $$$$$ is your name<br />
-if new talent doesnt come in for awhile.. its the same ol thing</p>
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Here are some pros and cons of being a freelancer</p>
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PROS<br />
-its always a new experience you get to see different girls all the time<br />
-if one of your favorite girls has left a club yourll probly bump into her again at another club<br />
-since most of the dancers have never seen you before you can play the whole "i dont get out much" role</p>
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CONS<br />
-no deals from the staff<br />
- clubs that are more laid back the dancers are less likely to approach you<br />
-if your one of those guys that try to hook up with a stripper a halfway decent stripper will be more hesitant to drop you her #<br />
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For some being a regular is a good thing for some it isn't. For me personaly I enjoy going to different clubs and seeing different dancers and having new experiences. But if you're a gentleman that finds a good strip club and you want to be a regular, have at it. Just weigh your pros and cons.</p>
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I'll just add that I think that the freelancer comments are ok, except that I find the "traveling businessman" gig to be very helpful in some places, particularly with getting right to the point in OTC setups. With my suit they think that I must have some money, they learn quickly that I am staying in a nice hotel, and I am highly likely not to come back and haunt them by hanging out in the club night after night running my mouth. In fact, some girls out there are much more eager to do OTC in those situations than they are with locals, or so I have been told.
In my experience, I have seen that being a regular at one club doesn't mean living there, but maybe once or twice a week is enough. Once you get the OTC pattern down, you can usually miss your main girl (I am not big on hitting the clubs on the weekends anyway) and have a day with her and day without to see new talent.
The suit or dressed business class has always helped me fare well.
I did jeans and casual, even a basketball jersey once, and the girls think you are more of a peer and are more prone to the counseling sessions than when they try to measure up to a man with a suit.
My $.02.
i'm a freelancer, so i'll try to comment on the pro's and con's you stated on that. the first 2 pro's you listed about freelancers are very true, from my experience. because i don't often (in comparsion to other TUSCL members), i do always see fresh faces/ new dancers at the club i frequent. i mean, sure, there are going to be a few of the same ol dancers that i recognize, even if i haven't been in a while, but there are ALWAYS a lot of new dancers that are fresh faces to me. and then the second thing you said, is if you have a favorite, and she left the club, you'll probably bump into her at another club. that happened to me. one dancer at a club i frequent, suddenly didn't work there anymore. and then one day i went to another local club, and ended up bumping into her there. she recognized me, too.
rell, can you elaborate on the third pro you mentioned for freelancers?
However, I've never gotten anything "special" on rates with bartenders...even the ones who remember me...but I don't chat them up, either
i just think its funny to go into some of the clubs that have the local feel to them and see the regulars there .. you know the PL's and always thought i hope i never become that guy and see the hoovers come over there and just suck thier money right up
i think the original article really hits the points accurately... everyonce in a while I like to be incognito in a new club but usually prefer to return to my home turf..
You arrive and go to the restroom for a minute.
At the bar you see the waitress already has your drink ready and your change when you never even spoke to her or pulled out your wallet to pay yet.
As a regular even when a club gets crowded and many others have no dancers at their tables, I have two or 3 dancers at my table. I would have settled for one at a time but one of them attracts a number of others.
Another plus for being a regular, every once in a while you get an extra perk you weren't expecting. Sometimes I get free dances, a few weeks ago one dancer gave me some free passes to the club.
I find being a regular works out better. In a new club I often feel like a piece of meat left out among some hungry sharks that come at me left and right and sometimes two at a time. If this continues longer than 3 hours without much interruption, I will start to envy all those tables of guys with no dancer bothering them. If I'm a regular and dancers already know I don't want any dances from them, I get left alone except for new dancers who usually don't know me. Occasionally some long time dancers will come up to me and ask for a dance and say something like "I've been working here for x number of years and you have never gotten a dance from me, let's go."
On the one hand, I think it hurts you. If the girls know you've been there, they also know you'll probably come back and probably won't care if you get a crappy dance or a weak act when it comes to her seeming interested in you. That's not good. If she thinks you're fresh blood, then she might try harder.
On the other hand, if bouncers know you're trustworthy and will spend, they might let you get away with more in the club. And if a dancer knows you've got a reputation of spending and tipping well, she might do more to try and get you to do exactly that. Plus, if you're a regular and known, then I think OTC opportunities are more likely because of that trust.
However, this can be a two-way street. I recently had an odd experience I'm kind of embarrassed about. It was my first time with a particular girl from a club I visit regularly and we went from the club to a casino, which is something I never do. We both played on my dime. I knew, as a non-gambler, I might make mistakes and lose. I did. She also lost, though she was convinced she would win, and blamed me for us not winning more while also getting flustered. Now I don't want to go back to that club since I have a feeling she probably told the other dancers the next night I was dumb from the casino experience. Way to make your customer feel good about his "purchase."
Furthermore, it's tough if you've been going to a club for a long time and you have a reputation for one thing, then you start wanting something else. I was a lapdance guy for a long time. Now that I'm thinking OTC, I'm guessing the girls I've done lapdances with for a long time will think, "Why should I do that? Can't I get the money the way I always have?"
So yeah. I guess it all depends.
This one is tough, though, although I agree with most of the points. I was longing for the ability to be a "regular" somewhere here recently in terms of knowing some of the girls, but I travel so much and the club that I consider my place, always has so many girls, I hardly ever see the same one. The girls that I do know, I have spent too much money on in the past and so when I don't have that kind of change with me, they move on.
So, my "regular" status with the ladies never seems to work, but being the regular at the clubs has.