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11 years ago
Here are my contradictions:
Is ______ your real name? -
I like to ask "Why did you pick _____? " It is usally an interesting conversation starter. Such as it is my middle name, the owner picked it for me, my friend liked it... If you get to know a girl a better, you probabaly have her friended on FB.
Do you have a boyfriend? You married? -
All girls in a club are single. Answer is always no. Even if you know better. Knew a girl on facebook, who lived with her bf, but she still wanted to tell me she was single.
How old are you? -
Most girls tell the truth, until they 35+ then they round down.
What are you going to 'do' for me in VIP? -
If they are feeling on you dick, it is fair question.
Where did/do you go to school? -
Half are in college, so it is fair question. Maybe you have that in common and have something to talk about. If you went to HS with them, you probably already recognize each other.
Do you have kids? What are their names and where do they go to school? -
Like someone already said, maybe you have something common, like your own kids or grandkids. Where they go to school? too personal!
What's a girl like you doing in a place like this? -
Be more polite - Ask what they did before they danced. One girl told me she worked at a pizza place. Most have kids and needed more money than they could earn at McDonalds
How many dances/customers do you get a night? -
AVOID asking, dont really want to know how shitty their night is, or about how their car broke down and they need money.
What time do you leave here? - Who cares? Their shift ends at 8, they get off then, club closes at 3 am, they get off then. Easy to figure out.
Do you know where I can get some (insert extra here)? -
If they give you what you want, nothing wasted. You started the conversation, they know you are not LE. If they don't, you know up front. Bring it up casually, if they do not, it is usually a point of pride for them that they do not. They think the girls that do are gross.
Do you know where I can get some (insert drug name here)? - With medical marijuana becoming legal it has less stigma. Also have heard the song "Can someone help me find Molly?" Both of these are conversation starters.
If you can't handle these questions, by a white lie or changing the subject, you are in the wrong business.
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11 years ago
MMM. The more you turn her on, the more she want to suck you and fuck you.
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11 years ago
WEll if a girl is on her phone, it means her focus is elsewhere, move on. Dance will probably suck.
The music blaring. The only thing worse is on the phone in the toilet. (like Minnow said) I make sure I flush the toilet. I would be a little embarrased to explain that to the person on the other line.
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11 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
some girls just squirt. I brought 2 girls to a VIP. Girl A warned us she was a squirter. Girl A started licking out girl B. Girl B was moaning and enjoying. It was Girl A that was turned on enough to squirt.
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12 years ago
Do get off your butt! If you like a dancer approach her! Strippers despite being half naked are shy too. Sometimes they just arrived and have not warmed up. Warmed up might be a first drink or their first time on stage. They are looking for a friendly face too. That might be a regular or one of their co workers.
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12 years ago
I agree with Carlie, I have followed a girl to another club.
However, I hope you do work as a team. sometimes if I see 2 girls work well together, I want both of them. Plus sometimes I ask a girl about another girl, if they bad mouth the other girl, that is a huge turn off. It is a huge turn on, when they root for each other and help each other out. I went VIP with dancer A one week, but the next week I liked her friend J more. I usually feel bad when when I do that, but she was so sweet about it, I usually tip A, a 20 when I go in. Plus A and J are such good friends, they want me take them both back. Since they both do FS, this could be a fantasy come true!
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12 years ago
Make sure the girls are into each other. When I get a FFM, I am at least hoping they will make out. I got two girls together one time that were roommates, so I thought it would be fun. I was wrong, I should have had them separately, because i enjoyed them times apart.
However, I have had a fun experience, else where. Maybe it is the alcohol. The situation I described above was at a full nude club that can not serve alcohol.
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13 years ago
It has probably been said. But never fall in love with one stripper. Treat them like they treat you. Once you have danced with them and paid them. Most of them have moved on to their next customer. Make sure you move on and have another favorite.