discussion comment
17 years ago
A lot of good advice here.
In my personal experience, I've always relied on 1.) being very nice, saying "no thanks, I'm good" to the mediocre girls, and "Eventually, absolutely! ...I've had along day though, and am looking to unwind a little." to the hot girls. That usually gets them to at least sit and talk, giving you a chance to see if you have some decent chemistry... and 2.) I tip *every* girl that comes around between $1-3 dollars when they are grabbing tips after a stage dance (whether I saw it, or not, and whether they are hot, or not). That alone will give you a good rep in the gossip rounds amongst the girls. Now, if they are hot, and I'm thinking maybe I'd like an LD later, I will occasionally tip $5... even up to $10 or 20 if I'm really desperate for a particular girl's attention. And when I give it to her, I wink and smile and compliment her (on her dance, her outfit, her hair, her smile, whatever stands out)... and then tell her I'd love to see her again when she had some time. They ALWAYS come back.
You can "turn them down" so to speak, but if the girl passes the "I'd hit it" test, I would only turn them down with the understanding that I would like to see them again in a little bit, and that they will be walking away with a tip in their garter.
discussion comment
15 years ago
""Didn't the former USSR try this?"
Nope, but thanks for asking"
So the former Union of Soviet SOCIALIST Republic didn't involve socialism? Ok.
review comment
6 years ago
Golden pussy syndrome... when girls provide extras, but only at ridiculous and exorbitant rates.
review comment
6 years ago
There's a chain hotel literally right next door to the club. If it has inside hallways, that group has an agreement in place with the night manager most likely. That would freak me the fuck out too. I've been to the club my times. I've seen plenty of dancers being dropped off by their pimps (assuming pimp because between car and dudes outfits, it's the epitome of pimp). And I've had plenty of girls from here offer to head back to my hotel even after just a few LD.
While I used to be a regular here, I haven't been one in years. I still head here when I'm in town once or twice a year, and very little changes. That said, while the weekday afternoons are exactly as you describe regarding ethnicity and music, the weekend evenings and nights get far more mainstream with music, and much more mixed selection of dancers.
Still, a very blue collar area, bordering on downright scary as evening turns into late night. Glad you didn't get mugged or worse.
article comment
13 years ago
Cool. Kinda what I thought went on back there, with heavy emphasis on 1-3. Well... maybe add-in a little bit of tip-stealing, cat-fighting, man-hating and drug use for #7-10. At least that's what I've gathered from some of the stories dancers have told me at the clubs I've spent time at.
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14 years ago
I already do a lot of these things, and another good portion don't pertain to me (I'm not ever driving anyone anywhere).<br />
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I will say that I have been following the part about only taking keys and the cash you will spend, leaving all else in the car or at home. I leave my ID in the car. I'll only get it if they require me to (which someplaces want everyone to have ID on them). I also divide up the cash into different pockets. I often wear some type of cargo shorts, so I've got like 4-6 pockets. I put all my $1's in a roll in one pocket, my keys in a second, my ID and/or condoms in a third. Lastly, my bigger bills I use for lap dances and CR, if I decide to go there, are in a 4th pocket in a roll, usually with a money clip of some sort, biggest bills on the inside, $20's on the outside. Makes it easy to peel off a $20 in the dark without taking the roll out of the pocket to pay for either a LD or a drink. I try not to EVER flash my big roll of cash, even to the dancer I just got a LD from. My roll of $1's is different though... I will flash that and sometimes put a stack of them on the bar to make it easy to tip, and/or if I'm having trouble getting a dancer to pay attention to me. A stack of twenty $1's will bring the dancers, but wouldn't pop up on the radar of someone looking to mug/rob you.<br />
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Lastly, don't make extended eye contact with other guys at the club. I don't care how tough you think you are, or how much of a punk he looks like... you don't know him, or who he's with, or what he may be carrying in his wasteband or in his car. Just avoid confrontations in the club, because you always lose. Even if you win the fight, you still lose because you are going to get kicked out and possibly banned from the club.
article comment
14 years ago
SOUTH Florida... Miami to Ft. Lauderdale. The Mecca of extras in the CR. Some of the clubs are so bad they might as well just be brothels, especially during the day.
article comment
14 years ago
@ justanotherexvirgin -- Sometimes I wish they would heed that practice as well! I can't begin to count the number of times dancers have told me about their kids, their problems, their boyfriend, or whatnot without me even asking about it (or wanting to know!). I also can't begin to count the number of times that they have asked me probing questions about my marital/girlfriend status, if I have kids, what I do for a living, etc.,... even within the first 5 minutes of a first conversation with them. All that talk should be off limits, IMO. It can really ruin the vibe and ambience, and thus my enjoyment. I realize that it might just be inexperienced dancers trying to make conversation, or it may be a ROB/Shark trying to size me up, rather than a dancer just being nosy... but I'd rather just avoid those topics all together.
article comment
14 years ago
IMO, I have tried the SW area of the country, from a few in Houston to a couple in El Paso to almost all of San Diego. None of them can hold a dim candle to the amount of offers I had for sex in the CR, or right on the LD couch, in pretty much any club in south FL. It's never 100%, but during the day, at most of the south FL clubs I've gone to, it gets pretty close. Night is busier, and thus less consistent. YMMV.