Comments by jaywalker1955

Dawgs and Lions, for geographical balance. Common denominator is Matt Stafford, although that's not the reason.

Typical media hypocrite.

Virginia is a great place to live - clean with lots of water, mountains, history, better economic conditions than most states. But that said, GoVikings is quite correct - the clubs truly suck in VA! Without question the lamest clubs in the U.S. of A. So, I do my clubbing when and where I travel, which thankfully is often! Favorite state for high mileage clubbing - Florida hands down, with an honorable mention to South Carolina.

The guys that would treat them right are the guys they'd never look twice at.

I'm going to say white girls, partly because we tend to be more culturally sympatico since that's my racial orientation. Latinos are a very close second. Black girls are either real good or they get so crazy it starts to feel like a steel cage death match. Asians can be beautiful, but many tend to be hustlers (i.e. "hey joe, wanna give it a go, show me the money.") Never experienced the fruits of India or the middle east. But it does truly depend on the individual, just like everything else in life. Society seems to be like to label people as members of groups rather than consider the individual. Too bad.

I'm usually traveling when I visit a club, so I'm not a regular anywhere. However, there are a handful of favorite clubs in my usual travel destinations so I do strike up acquaintances. Like Dudester, I'm middle aged too and am very respectful about a girl's boundaries. I'm not variety driven. I like to meet someone who I can talk to, spend some time (and money) with and let things develop naturally from there. Typically she becomes someone I look for when I return. In a few instances, we'll exchange numbers for texting purposes to coordinate schedules (for club meetings, I never suggest meeting elsewhere although on occasion a lady has.) I enjoy gently massaging a girl's body and making her feel good. A typical response is "wow, I should be paying you!"

Well written and informative. Also, the writer seems to be of a vintage similar to mine.

Well written, and it resembles my experiences there.

In a nutshell, you defined the club scene in the entire Commonwealth of Virginia.

Multiple visits for balance, similar to my experiences there.

A good basic review without lengthy embellishment. Refreshing!

This was the most interesting post and thread I've read since I've been on this board. I always saw only the upside of working in clubs for girls in school because of all the cash they make, or at least draw. (Not knowing how much the club takes from their take.) Being a 50-something, I'm surprised that there would still be a social stigma around being a "stripper" considering the liberalism that typically prevails on college campuses now. Probably easier for students in large public universities where you can lose yourself in the population easier. Anyway, it's fascinating to get the other side of the story. Thanks kumasdaisy!