discussion comment
16 years ago
Dancer approaching is good, but only if they ask to join you for awhile. If their first words are "wanna dance?", my first words are "no, thank you" or "maybe later."
When I do the approaching, it is typically during their stage set.
discussion comment
16 years ago
For this year, January - June, I count 15 visits to clubs, 12 FS inside the club, and 5 OTC experiences. Two of the latter were free, and one of those was an overnighter, completely spontaneous after having met for the first time in the club that night.
discussion comment
15 years ago
Socialism always involves tyranny, because responsible citizens who produce and succeed don't willingly give away all their earnings, but must be forced to do so.
Capitalism, with whatever faults it has, can co-exist with liberty. This is always preferable to tyranny.
discussion comment
15 years ago
Dancers' shop talk usually is merely gossip, and I hate gossip. I also dislike shop talk because it reveals the fact that dancers talk about customers incessantly, and I'd prefer to imagine that wasn't the case (fantasy).
article comment
10 years ago
Any plausible stories of "feature dancers" giving extras?
article comment
13 years ago
Just like to point out the likelihood that the "for my class assignment" explanation is bogus. 4.0 is a grade point average (GPA), not a grade for any class. That is, one cannot make a 4.0 for any particular class.
article comment
13 years ago
The oft-repeated contention from dancers that "extras dancers" should not be allowed to do their thing regardless of club leniency because it "makes it more difficult for the non-extras dancers to make money" is pitiful. "Steve Jobs shouldn't have made the iPod because it made my Walkman less appealing, and I might have to work at making a new product"...If the Sony CEO said that to his board, they'd replace him.
You have the absolute and inherent right to not do extras and to establish whatever limit you choose, and you have the right to have your limits honored respectfully...but you have no right to expect payment for what people do not choose to buy from you, even if the only reason they made that choice is that another offered more.
article comment
13 years ago
Any limit a dancer sets is her business, and I will honor it. But I won't pay for a tease.
article comment
13 years ago
I don't hate the rich; I aspire to earn more myself...
Also, how would one steal money from another who is without?
The problem is too-large central government, wherein congresspersons can steal from makers and use that money to bribe the takers. Anything that engenders greater dependence of individuals on the central government is evil and must be stopped.
article comment
13 years ago
Any gal who'd go for a guy who said "let's pick up where we left off at my crib" is not a gal I'd want to "bag."