Strip Clubs had a profoundly therapeutic affect on my life. First, they enabled me to fully get over my fear of speaking with attractive women as a young man. Today, approaching a 9 or a 10 outside the clubs is nothing special for me.
Second, it got me over my fear of rejection. On a handful of occasions, a dancer might reject me for whatever reason. I smile, nod my head, and walk away gracefully while looking for the next one I might approach. Prior to this immunity from rejection angst, I would be devastated.
Third, I have become clubbing and going out on my own without having to ask others to go with me. Being able to enjoy night life and social environments is a super-power because you only have to rely upon yourself.
Finally, they enabled me to get over my shame and shyness related to my foot-kink. Yes, I am a foot-guy and dancers become absolutely giddy when a customer who loves to massage and play with their tired and aching feet make their preference known. This actually increased my confidence to be open and honest about feet in normal life which has paid dividends over the years.
So with all the negative stuff I tend to express about strip clubs (much of it justified), I just wanted to focus on the positive aspects for a change. They are not all bad by any means.


Thank you, Rex,