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2 weeks ago

Strip Clubs Can Be Very Therapeutic

Strip Clubs had a profoundly therapeutic affect on my life. First, they enabled me to fully get over my fear of speaking with attractive women as a young man. Today, approaching a 9 or a 10 outside the clubs is nothing special for me.

Second, it got me over my fear of rejection. On a handful of occasions, a dancer might reject me for whatever reason. I smile, nod my head, and walk away gracefully while looking for the next one I might approach. Prior to this immunity from rejection angst, I would be devastated.

Third, I have become clubbing and going out on my own without having to ask others to go with me. Being able to enjoy night life and social environments is a super-power because you only have to rely upon yourself.

Finally, they enabled me to get over my shame and shyness related to my foot-kink. Yes, I am a foot-guy and dancers become absolutely giddy when a customer who loves to massage and play with their tired and aching feet make their preference known. This actually increased my confidence to be open and honest about feet in normal life which has paid dividends over the years.

So with all the negative stuff I tend to express about strip clubs (much of it justified), I just wanted to focus on the positive aspects for a change. They are not all bad by any means.

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sfrsox

Thank you, Rex,

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docsavage

Women can sense when a guy is overly desperate to be with them and this lowers their opinion of him. If you have the option of strip clubs it does not matter so much if any particular non-stripper female reacts negatively when you try to be friendly to her.

When it comes to extreme introverts like myself, another benefit of strippers is you can spend time with women without them wanting to move in with you. While I would have wanted to live with a female while we were raising kids together, once I got up to my fifties that reason no longer existed. It was then I switched from dating to strip clubs.

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Iknowbetter

Thanks for sharing. Strip clubs have definitely helped me to be comfortable and confident in social settings and with approaching hot women in the real world. I just have to be careful to remember that it’s not ok to stare at her tits or casually put my hand on a girl’s ass outside the strip club.

Negotiating with strippers has also taught me how to be more straightforward and clear about what I want and what my expectations are, and being clear about what’s included and what’s going to cost extra.

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SleazyPerv

Handjobs and blowjobs are great therapy

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sfrsox

HJ's I can do myself, but you're correct on BJ's

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gSteph

Tits and buns, and a little foot rub are therapeutic 😌

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