The only downside to going to strip clubs, for me, is dealing with unwanted offers for dances and unwanted attention. I typically look for the few dancers I find attractive and initiate with them because I am not shy. But before that happens, I generally stand alone nursing my drink while I see who is there on that night.
Invariably, the least attractive (often overweight or old) dancers come up to me to initiate conversation designed to lead to a private dance offer. I generally tell them I am waiting for someone else and they go away. But sometimes, they are bold enough to caress my biceps or chest uninvited, or even grasp my crotch and all of these cross my boundaries.
Question: How do you guys deal with unwanted physical contact? I generally softly move their hand from my body, but they like to stand there and debate or bicker due to hurt feelings. I never respond directly but I again tell them I am waiting for someone, or I walk away. What strategies do you guys use to quickly dispose of unwanted physical contact or attention from the girls you don't like?
My patented phrase is " I'm waiting on someone. " Which is kinda true. I'm waiting on someone different than that girl.