Is it just me or my area or does it take way too long for you to get time with the dancer you like?
The dancers spend so much time on stage then backed up with regulars/others after it can make a trip more time consuming then you want.
Anyone else have this issue and if yes have you found a way to solve it?
The only time I'll spend waiting is if it's a club I need to get a better idea about. Otherwise I already know what I'm looking for and if it's not there when I need it to be there I leave.
The imperfect answer if a dancer is too backed up with others is to throw money at the problem. That’s how those regulars got to be regulars The rational answer is to leave if you’re not having fun and either hit another place or come back another time. You can even put in a word with your preferred dancer and say you want to do some dances but have to leave. If she commits to a specific date/time and isn’t available then, it’s time to move on
My normal procedure is to show up around ten at night because before then many of the girls have not yet arrived. I then spend the next hour looking for a girl I like to buy lap dances from. I will either see her on stage, walking around or sitting around. Usually if they are off stage we can do lap dances immediately. If they are on stage they say they will come to my table later. I give them half an hour and then start looking for another girl. By midnight if I have had no success or have yet to see a girl I like I head on home.
You know what I'll try to make things go right up to chicks I'm interested in, if there is wait or like she just went into a room for who knows how long with another dude, that could be an hour, I'll club hop around a bit, that's when I'll go check another club (and sometimes you just end up finding something better honestly) but if not then I can circle back and see if the que cleared up a bit.
There was a dancer yesterday that's my favorite in this one club and she was already giving dances when I got there and my second favorite came up and approached, so I get dances from her and was going to high tail it out of there as soon as I was done. I was at the bar finishing my drink and had literally just set up my Uber ride on my phone and about to go when my favorite came out of nowhere approaching me asking if I wanted dances! LOL Sometimes it works out like that. And maybe it's my experience, but I notice a lot of the dancers that I find to be the physically hottest seem to be the nicest and more willing to give dances to multiple patrons.
I used to be willing to wait a long time, all night if necessary, but I'm the opposite now. I just move on to the next dancer that catches my attention. Or I'll actually up and leave. It worked out yesterday, but if it doesn't, I get over it immediately.
This happened to me last night. This smoking hot dancer got on stage early on when I arrived. I complimented her outfit and stage moved, tipped her $10 and asked he to join me after her tip walk, and she ended up sitting with someone on the other side of the bar the rest of the time I was there. Them's the breaks I guess lol. I try again another time hopefully. (I still had a pretty good time with some other dancers).
Sometimes it’s worth the wait and other times I’ll just pick another hotty…
The only solution is to be more valuable to her than the guy she's with, enough so that she doesn't want to make you wait. Otherwise it's get in line time.
Going to a club for the sole purpose of seeing one dancer really isn't my jam. I go more for a night out with the full experience. Knowing that clubs are inevitably a crap shoot, especially on night shift, my expectations are tempered. When I really want to spend scheduled quality time with a girl I try to arrange an OTC outing.
Not criticizing anyone's preferred approach. To each his own.
The only way to fix it is to be interested in more than one dancer and whoever comes around first, take her. It's not like they only have one dancer
To clarify it is more than just one. I feel like get any can be like this at times even some times the average ones are busy
I do this. When a particular dancer doesn't return as promised or sits all night with losers who don't spend money, I try to swing by on my way out and whisper in her ear: I hate leaving with so much money in my pocket. Inevitably, they say don't leave. I do. Doesn't get me laid. Feels good though.
Just ask the bartender if that dancer is busy
I agree with Manuel..become "that guy", that the girl will seek out. It doesn't mean dropping $100s on a visit, either....reliable and consistent money is often better than large one-time cash drops.
Yes, it takes time, but other than dropping tons of cash onto the stage (which may not even work if the girl has known regulars in the club), being a regular requires recurring visits....not an easy way to come out over known regulars.
@Nickanme yeah this happens sometimes and it is what it is. I have given plenty of dancers money on stage and they prioritized someone else. Maybe they were the highest bidder or a known regular.
Agree with the others that you have to become that regular and you will get special treatment afterwards. Slow and steady
Yes - I often set time limits. “If dancer X, or another hot alternative, doesn’t become available by 4:30, I’m leaving.”