Is it just me or my area or does it take way too long for you to get time with the dancer you like?
The dancers spend so much time on stage then backed up with regulars/others after it can make a trip more time consuming then you want.
Anyone else have this issue and if yes have you found a way to solve it?
The only time I'll spend waiting is if it's a club I need to get a better idea about. Otherwise I already know what I'm looking for and if it's not there when I need it to be there I leave.
The imperfect answer if a dancer is too backed up with others is to throw money at the problem. That’s how those regulars got to be regulars The rational answer is to leave if you’re not having fun and either hit another place or come back another time. You can even put in a word with your preferred dancer and say you want to do some dances but have to leave. If she commits to a specific date/time and isn’t available then, it’s time to move on
My normal procedure is to show up around ten at night because before then many of the girls have not yet arrived. I then spend the next hour looking for a girl I like to buy lap dances from. I will either see her on stage, walking around or sitting around. Usually if they are off stage we can do lap dances immediately. If they are on stage they say they will come to my table later. I give them half an hour and then start looking for another girl. By midnight if I have had no success or have yet to see a girl I like I head on home.
You know what I'll try to make things go right up to chicks I'm interested in, if there is wait or like she just went into a room for who knows how long with another dude, that could be an hour, I'll club hop around a bit, that's when I'll go check another club (and sometimes you just end up finding something better honestly) but if not then I can circle back and see if the que cleared up a bit.
Yes - I often set time limits. “If dancer X, or another hot alternative, doesn’t become available by 4:30, I’m leaving.”