What percentage of customers do you think are married or in a relationship?

customers in the club: 60% FS customers: 80%

I would guess the majority of customers are married or at least in a relationship. At least as far as the friends I've gone with to clubs goes, one of them absolutely goes to escape his wife. OTOH, a different friend I've gone with always went regardless of his relationship status, or at least he did before he seemed to lose interest in strip clubs.

I would think a lot of guys go to strip clubs because they like women in small doses but do not want to be around them all the time, which would be the case if you were married to one. I fall in that category. When I go to a strip club, I almost always go home smelling like perfume. A few times I have also gone home and noticed lipstick on my face when I looked in a mirror. I also get home very late at night after a strip club visit. It would easiest for married guys to frequent strip clubs if part of their job involves traveling and they are staying in a hotel rather than heading home.

I go to strip clubs because I like naked women to whom I am not married. never met a stripper that I would consider for a relationship of any type at all over my wife. Nope not a big deal in my home. No sense in fucking up a great 36 year relationship over sex. Goes both ways.

Its hard to narrow down the overall %.

Its more tied to age and location. The party clubs in Atlanta or NY with a bunch of ghetto guys making it rain, guys like that probably arent married.

Docsavage narrates a highlights reel of pitfalls that mongers with SOs face all the time. In spite of taking a lot of precautions, I've come home smelling of perfume, and with the proverbial lipstick on the collar. Even glitter (and I'm not a preschool teacher). As to the original question, I would surmise most younger PLs looking for extras are not in relationships, while most older PLs looking for extras probably are in relationships. Guys of all ranges who are just looking to party or some harmless grinding are probably 50/50 single/in a relationship. BTW, new (to me) dancers I spend any significant time with almost always ask if I'm married and after I answer honestly I'll some times ask, jokingly, whether that makes them think any less of me. A frequent response is that they'd go broke without married customers.

An even bigger potential problem than going home to your wife with lipstick on your face after spending time with strippers is not using a condom and going home and giving your wife a sexually transmitted disease. There is another thing even worse than that: getting a stripper pregnant. Ask Hunter Biden.

too many

If I were to judge by the responses here, I would say most are involved, which would also include me. On the other hand, what kind of strip club goer frequents TUSCL? I'm guessing the occasional and younger visiter doesn't even know about TUSCL, it's the veteran/serious hobbyist that is on here, and they are also more likely to be in a relationship. Another way to look at this - older strip club visitors are more likely to have "settled down", and are also (sad fact of life) in a relationship that has gotten comfortable, but the sex has diminished, is lower quality, or both. So they go to a strip club to satisfy that part they're not getting at home. Which is my story. Percentage wise? I'm guessing around 50% is in a relationship.

"I wonder if most customers use club time as an escape from their significant other or if it is single guys who have trouble getting women or the women they want through other means."

I gave myself 30 seconds, and I came up with 8 additional valid reasons that a guy might go to a club... 😊

Some random examples...

A guy who has to travel for work for weeks at a time may go to a club because he can't get any physical contact from his wife, who might be 2000+ miles away. Another guy might go to a club because he has friends who like going to clubs, so he happily goes along with them. Some other guy might not have difficulty getting himself into relationships, but maybe he doesn't want a relationship at that time, yet still wants a little bit of physical interaction with attractive ladies occasionally...

Anyway, those are just a few possible reasons why one might choose to head off to the strip club... 😀

@clubfan81077 as far as reasons a guy might go to a strip club, other reasons could just be that the guy is dumb or is scared to go to escorts.

Theres countless guys who see clubs as the only option for p4p, either due to lack of knowledge or fear of meeting a random girl in a hotel.

And some guys are going to expensive non extras clubs because they maybe just dont know any better.

Maybe I worded this poorly. I feel like no one is focusing on the main question.

I think it depends on the club, younger guys seem to typically be single, older dudes just seem to want a break from the wife they've been married to for decades.

@dogchain Your first reply was from a dancer who gave you her estimate as far as a percentage goes. I would think that dancers would have a MUCH better idea of something like that than the guys who go to clubs. As a guy who goes to clubs myself, I'm pretty clueless on the relationship status of other guys in the building, most of whom I won't notice or interact with...

So I think your "main" question is perfectly valid, but as a customer, I don't feel like I have any real basis on which to even throw out a guess! I have to defer to dancers on that one... 😊

Its just a question for fun on what people think. I will do my own double blind research study on the question 😁

^ Well since it's just for fun, I will throw out a total guess and say that 65% are either married or in a relationship!

Some bonus guesses...

Going commando: 28% Not washing hands after going to the bathroom: 52% LDKing without permission from the dancer: 22% Wondering how ClubFan is coming up with these percentages: 100% 😀

I went when my wife had MS/disabled. Not often, she just never knew as I'd go when on business trips. Now, I go as I like naked women.

I’m glad I’m single and I don’t have to lie.

There are "other" customers? Besides me? Who cares?

The younger guys are typically single. They have problems getting women. They tend to go to clubs later in the night after they've spent the evening drinking elsewhere and have struck out meeting women earlier. The club provides the last chance to impress the ladies so the evening isn't a total waste.

The older men who go to clubs are mostly divorced. They and not in a relationship and most likely are not looking for a relationship.

I forgot to include the percentages,

Younger guys: 95% single, not in a relationship. Older men: 75% divorced, not in a relationship.

75-80% in some type of relationship. I never went to strip clubs until after I was married.

@ClubFan81077 why would one need someone's permission to jizz in their own pants? Embarrassing enough to have it happen without mentioning it lol I did meet a dancer once who said it happens to like over 90% of the guys she dances for.

@dogchain I don't speak from personal experience here, because LDKing isn't really my thing, but some dancers aren't too happy if it comes through the guy's clothing and gets on them...lol

A quick google says that 60% of American males are married from 35-death (variations here and there). My guess is that strip club customers are married at a slightly higher rate than non strip club customers, so perhaps 70% of customers that go 5 or more times a year are married?

If we include the few times a year for a bachelor party crowd then the number would obviously be lower due to a younger cohort.

@blahblahblahs very good analysis! I think you might have nailed it.

@wisetoo those numbers could only be remotely true if you were only talking about strip club regulars in those age brackets. Because there are plenty of bachelor party guys who go to clubs.

Plus a bunch of younger guys who want to go to party make it a rain type clubs.

Finally for at least the last 10+ years thanks to redpill and other online forums, it’s considered commendable for guys to cheat on their girls or be players.

Jascoi, you don’t have to lie when you’re married either. Just don’t tell as long as they don’t ask. On a morality note, is getting a HJ or bj rong if married?