I have visited a lot of clubs lately where dancers want $60, $80, or $100 per song for lap dances. When I hear prices like that, I will refuse even if she is a perfect ten.
What is the most you will pay or have paid for a three to three and a half minute private dance? What is your cut off?
Most dancers around here are $20 per song, with frequent specials.
PT's was $40 the last time I got a dance there, with a 3/100 bundle. I'll pay that for someone special, but not very often, and not with a complete unknown.
$20 is the most that I have ever paid but not recently. $10 is the standard for the clubs that I go to. If I am out of my area $20 is the most that I would be willing to pay and it better be a good one or I'll stop at 1.
A few years ago in Columbia SC a dancer quoted me $40 for a dance and I rejected it. She asked how much I usually spend and I told her $10. She said "That is crazy". So just call me crazy.
$10 is ideal $20 still feels like a bargain if she's hot $30 is what I'm unfortunately used to in my area
Anything higher is a no go including the 3/$100s that are getting more popular
$30. More than that, I can't. (I'm just too economically disadvantaged) 20 was the standard when I started in 2017. 25 is most common at my club now (for topless, 35 for nude a common ask).
Though if Nicespice came thru town I'd entertain 3 for 100.
I’ll go 20 with a cutie… I’ve done that hundreds of times…
There used to be a club I visited where it was $50 for the nude lap dance. I think the topless one was $35 there. I mostly won't go over $25
Damn. First off, I would differentiate based on mileage. I really can't justify anything for zero mileage anymore. (I used to think 2-for-$35 was ok but I can't stand the air.) I usually go for 3-for-$40 specials when above average mileage is likely (YMMV), but I would consider $20/each standard so long as there's mileage involved. Larger metros I can see $25-$30/each. Numbers in OP are crazy. Although... I'm pretty sure the dancers think I'm a cheep ass.
Always feel bad when I see what some are willing to pay for a regular lap dance.
As mentioned above, I could see some large high COLA areas being $20. But folks willing to fork over $30-$100 for a single dance, especially one that is an air dance or low mileage - welp, couldn’t be me!
Reason I feel bad is ultimately we are setting these types of price points by our willingness to pay.
We are enabling dancers to feel that’s what a dance is worth. Then we get threads on here from dancers pushing they should be mandatory tipped on top of that.
It’s not even about the money. It’s about value you get for the money spent.
No different than when we see any product or service rise to a certain point. Eventually it gets to a point where you have to question - Really?
The most I've paid is $45 for 1 dance. I generally avoid most clubs above $30 per dance.
$30 max Maybe $35 if it’s a 9+ with with looks and performance and I have a feeling the song will be longer than average
$30. And if I pay that I expect full two way contact and stick shifting. Any more than that I would walk unless extras were included.
$20 a song here in NNJ. Well at the least the spots I know.
Switched clubs at the first of the year paying $20 Previous to that $10 for nearly as many years. 20 is tops refused to pay more for a simple lapper
If I'm paying more than $30 for a song, the songs better be the unedited versions of In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida and Thick As A Brick.
20 is the norm. 10 can still be found in some Philly clubs. A dancer once had the audacity to unsolicitedly tell me to go for a dance for 35 at Pics. On rare occasions at Pics, I offer $200 to a girl to hang out with me exclusively for 2 to 3 hours, of which we usually spend 45 minutes to hour dancing on and off. But they need to make me fall head over heels for that to happen.
I don't get out very much so I'll do $20/per. I do some 3/$100 as I don't get out much. Denver is expensive. Topeka costs better.
I seem to remember doing $30/dance at a couple of out-of-town clubs (Albuquerque, I think), but that was more out of curiosity than anything else. Anything more than $20 around here, forget it. And I really hate haggling; it really takes away from the experience.
On the west coast 3 for 100 seems to be standard. The last $20 clubs in my state moved to 3 for 100 sometime this year.
I feel a little bit for them...I first went to SCs in the year 2000 and lapdances were $20 then. Kind of overdue for an inflation adjustment.
Some clubs in my state do 3 for 120 or 150... I won't pay that. They are always low mileage clubs too.
I have been to a place or two where lap dances were $30, and those visits become one and done. I cannot imagine any situation where I would pay $60-$100 for any 3.5 minute service (barring extreme circumstances). I generally try to draw the line around $25, and I feel even that is excessive.
$20 any more is a rip off. Done $25 or $30 at one or two places not knowing the price but never went back. That is my fault for just assuming the standard $20 i guess. I think tourist trap areas may charge more but that's not for me.
Do not let the lady walk your price up. It depends on the area to me. Some places I cap at $20 per song, others I can see $30. But I usually spend a little time or target a lady that fits me and work a multi song deal so I’m at that range. Some will easily do (even easier if a club they can drink at!) 4 songs for $80…
Here are my guidelines when it comes to dance prices.
$10 dances - I've not yet been to a club with $10 dance prices, but if I ever did encounter this scenario, I'd go batshit crazy with the right girl. I'm picky af, but if I could get $10 dances with the right cutie, I'm highly likely to keep her back in the dance area for her entire shift.
$20 dances - this is what I usually hope to get, just because it's almost always the minimum price that I will actually encounter. Again, the girl would have to be pretty awesome, but I'd still spend a pretty good chunk of change on her at $20 a song.
$25 dances - if the girl is cute af, I'm still reasonably tolerant of $25 dances, but my total club spending is going to be notably lower. I'll still spend money on the right girl, but my total spending might be roughly half of what I'd spend at $20 per song.
$30 dances - this is my typical maximum, and I'm extremely picky at this level. My total spending in the club is going to go down yet again versus $25 per song, but that's just the way I roll... My total club spending ALWAYS goes down with higher dance prices, shorter songs, or enough silly fees that I just plain get annoyed...
$35 dances - generally speaking, the answer here is going to be NO. MAYBE for the right girl, but she better rival one of my ATFs in terms of looks and personality, and that's asking a lot. And guess what? Yup...if you can get me to buy dances at all at this price, my total club spending is going to be...even lower. Oh, have I mentioned yet that I still appreciate value? :)
$40 dances - hahahahaha. Okay, look...now the girl has to rival my ATF in terms of looks and personality, AND we'd have to bond like crazy on top of that. In the extremely unlikely event THAT happens, okay, sure...NOW I will actually go batshit crazy once again! But the club sure better enjoy that night, because when I see her again the following night, it sure as hell ain't gonna be back at your club!!!
$45 dances - see above
$50 dances - I'm not even showing up at the club with these prices. I'll find a Twin Peaks, enjoy a good meal, see a bit of eye candy, tip generously, and live to fight another day...
$60 dances - 😂
$70 dances - 😂😂
$80 dances - 😂😂😂
$100 dances - 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
$30, but only at PHL in Burlington, as it's good value. Elsewhere I'll go only to $20, and only if my little guy takes over. I've been fortunate to have access to $5-$10 spots with solid experiences.
ClubFan brings up a point which has been widely debated on here....which is that girls may actually make more money overall at lower dance prices.
I will go wild with $10 dances, but often avoid getting any @ $20 or above.
Girls would be best served by getting away from the $x/hour mindset, and shifting to model of targeting $x per day.
Psychologically, I can convince myself to drop $500 on $10 dances (at that amount, there would ultimately be tips above $10), vs spending $200 on $20 dances.
And, ironically, the $10 girls try harder, and think less of themselves, and therefore, tend to provide better experiences. To be clear, those girls aren't necessarily bottom barrel girls, either.
Also apparently some clubs only do 2 minute songs while some do 3.5 minute songs?? For a 3.5 minute dance I would pay $30 but maybe im too used to that. My approach is somewhat different in that im not looking for any ITC extras and not looking to LDK. I am interested in OTC though. So there is no scenario where i would be spending hundreds on dances with the same dancer unless its a good ITC club. Otherwise I would only be willing to spend $100 on any individual dancer, beyond that OTC or ill stop getting dances with her entirely maybe for a year. I understand supposedly some girls only want to do OTC with guys who see them a lot but im not willing to invest that much just on dances and I also dont need someone who is extremely choosy low volume with OTC and only does it with one client per year or something.
$10 max; $5 preferred.
Not a penny more for a single, full-contact lap dance.