First time tips

Carry cash. Avoid credit cards and ATM use

If you have to commit to an expensive vip room, be very careful to make clear what services you want and what you will pay for them before you buy the room. Also tell her you pay after services. Show her the money then put it away. If she says she gets paid first, tell her she doesn't and now she gets nothing.

Cash Is King, skip the ATM as fees can be very high, and credit cards leave a digital footprint. Be careful about flashing cash, just be discrete. Do a review when you get back! And do read the Review FAQ example/

" No matter what a stripper tells you There is no sex in the champagne Room"

Unless you're extremely self disciplined stay out of the strip club It's expensive and can/will be a roller coaster of emotions.

Don't allow yourself to be intimidated by seeing lots of girls walking around in their underwear or depending on the club in their birthday suit.

Strip clubs are designed to separate you from your money as fast as possible.

1. Welcome
2. Decide what your maximum budget, in cash, is going to be. That would include drinks (alcoholic and non) for yourself, and dancers (if you choose to do).
3. When you get in there, the first wave of approaches will need to be dealt with....good luck....you decide what you want to do. They will smell your virginity!
4. Figure out what kind of girls you like, and the dance style you like. Pay for good service.

• Don't get drunk.
• Ask girls how long they've worked in that club. Avoid girls in their first month there (they are learning the club's rules), and avoid girls visiting from out of town (who know they'll never see you again).
• Don't be afraid to gently test limits. Clubs vary, girls vary. When getting a lap dance, gently & slowly try to touch anywhere you would like to touch. She will politely let you know if you're headed out of bounds. Accept her limits.
• Be polite

Have a drink but don’t get drunk Set a max spending limit, carry it in cash Decide in advance what type of experience you want - lap dances? 15-30 min vip? Tip girls at stage only? Etc If a girl comes up to you who you are not interested in, just say pretty quickly you aren’t planning on dances and they will shoo along Read the reviews of a place you are planning on in advance, figure out if it’s a tip walk place, make it rain kinda place, extras place, run of the mill place, etc Just make eye contact with girls you are interested in and they normally come over - ask a bar tender or staff their name if they are busy, say you’re interested etc and they can sometimes help nudge the girl your way

The girls are there to sell drinks too. Typically, buying a drink for a stripper will be 2x-4x more than yours, and probably flavored watered.

@ArtCollege: While this is too advanced for the OP, out of town dancers can be the best bet for extras in a generally no-extras club, because they DGAF

All good advice. I'd suggest OP stick to LDs on the first outing or two and stay out of VIP/Champagne Room.. Also, don't get feelings for a dancer. It's great to be friendly and essential to be polite, but they have no reciprocal feelings for you, no matter what they say

Manuellabore that couldnt be further from the truth.
Dancers are human. Anybody who is a human, can develop feelings for someone else they interact with.
Because the nature of providing a lapdance, or sexual services, involves intimacy, there are actually a lot more stories and occurences of a dancer, or an escort, developing feelings for a client, compared to other careers like a doctor, car mechanic, lawyer, teacher, etc.

If you pay attention in the real world, age, looks, even money- none of these are barriers in getting a women to have feelings for you or at least appear to have feelings. You will see plenty of guys who are old, or ugly, or poor, with a hot girl. Itd actually easier to get a dancer to develop feelings for you, than say a doctor or car mechanic or numerous other service providers.

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