I have a question for the married mongers among us: when you go out, do you take the wedding ring off, or keep it on? Why or why not? Any difference in connecting with the girls?
I doubt I could get mine off, it’s kinda ingrown now, after 40+ years. Only time I’ve been asked is when out of the country and the answer is “yes, she knows where I am and what I’m doing”. And she usually joins me if we can get our schedules aligned.
Similar, I hate jewelry. I never wear a real wedding ring. I bought a 10 dollar stainless steel ring to ward off skanks when I am in a dive bar. But the bar has to be really low end to contain any women that would look twice at me.
I do both, but more without. Normally, I don't wear my ring , so there isn't a tell tale ring mark on my finger. Another reason I don't wear it at the club is because my fingers swell when I get fucked up (and I like to get fucked up at the club).
In terms of conversation, there really isn't more or less of it because of the ring....it's just a piece of visual information they have on entry to the "game."
SkiDumb and I have several things in common when it comes to his last post, even left out the antiquated hatred towards our youth! There’s hope for humanity after all.
^I have lost my ring on a job site one time, and it was a minor miracle that I found it pressed into the gravel. It had obviously been driven over and the platinum band inlaid to the gold was a bit scuffed. I went out and bought a gold-plated stainless steel ring after that, less than 1/10th the value of my actual wedding band, to wear on a day-to-day basis. The one my wife gave me sits in my jewelry box next to my dress watches for social occasions.
I kept min on the entire time (37 years) we were married (she passed away 21-Feb-2024 from 24 years of MS), EXCEPT, when I had a quad-bypass 19 months ago. Strippers didn't care, in fact, I think it is an attractor to them.
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last comment...and, strippers could not care less.
In terms of conversation, there really isn't more or less of it because of the ring....it's just a piece of visual information they have on entry to the "game."
SkiDumb and I have several things in common when it comes to his last post, even left out the antiquated hatred towards our youth! There’s hope for humanity after all.
Asked the wife about replacing it and she said why bother. So I don’t have that problem
My finger gets claustrophobia.