Well, THAT was Kinda Weird

avatar for Manuellabore
Manuellabore
Stopped off at a place I see sporadically to see a dancer I see sporadically who gives good, intense FS. She’s a little rough around the edges but who cares? She also said some shit once in her limited English about me being hers exclusively (to which I made no response) but who cares? I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it.

I set my phone face down on the little ledge on the side of the VIP area and off we go. We’re in the middle of going at it when my phone rings. Without breaking stride, she reaches over, picks it up, looks at it, sets it back down and we keep on going.

Only when we’re done and I’m in my car do I look to see who called: “Home”. One of the two least optimal callers but no big deal in itself: Plenty of reasons I might not answer my cell or call back immediately during the work day.

But, why was she even looking at who called? Was there some caller that she would consider of sufficient significance to bring to my attention? Was she looking to see if it was some Latina skank competitor (as if I would be dumb enough to load a name like that in my contacts)?

Whatever the issue, it is offset by the quality sex, but it is kinda weird.

Comments

last comment
avatar for tin man
tin man
2 days ago
Women need boundaries, its not a deal breaker but definitely make sure she doesn't do that.
Don't feel alone. I've had a couple of girls take a look at my phone screen if they're conveniently close to it. And I've had a few scroll through my pictures while in the club... They know I'm not faithful. They see me with others all the time.
Its not a big deal
avatar for Mr Monger
Mr Monger
2 days ago
Oh hell no that’s mad disrespectful. Don’t be a soft. Set boundaries or she will feel like she can run over u
While a harmless incident in the moment, definitely feels like a red flag to me in addition to the other stuff about you being "hers exclusively". That sort of controlling attitude feels like a step beyond standard dancer aggression to push more services and it would feel unneccessarily risky letting that relationship continue with that dynamic, especially if you are getting calls from Home that you need to manage carefully. If you're talking about "crossing bridges," it sounds like this might not be the first time she's pushed boundaries like this.

There's always a tension between reducing risk by not sharing any sensitive info with a dancer vs letting it go to show trust and foster a more natural rapport. You have to make that call yourself but ultimately I think it's a question of whether she's the type of dancer who would go for drama/pushing your buttons to point of losing you as a customer. If it feels like she is, I'd exercise more caution personally.
Blatant red flag. Then again, who cares I guess
OK, can I confess that on one occasion, I did the exact same thing to the dancer?

The simple explanation is, I thought it was my phone ringing, not hers. Only after I picked it up did I realize the mistake.

Maybe she thought your phone was hers?
avatar for GordieBoi
GordieBoi
21 hours ago
That was my thought, she thought it was her phone. Natural mistake

I always keep my phone locked with a pin, avoids snooping really well
avatar for 59
59
Pennsylvania
18 hours ago
Same with GordieBoi. Always locked with fingerprint or pin.
Want to post add a comment?Join Now