PL with daughter issues

When she makes it sound like shes not sure about her relationship. It could be a way if her trying to lead you on. Not kill the fantasy shes trying to sell

What the fuck are you talking about? Is this story even real? Let's just say you're being serious:

1. You're banging her OTC at your house.
2. You GAVE her a blanket.
3. You think she actually really likes the blanket.
4. You're worried about her real man?
5. You should be worried about him finding you and kicking your ass, since you let her know where you live.

What are you worried about? You're banging a stripper. That's it.

Theres nothing wrong with wanting a real, human connection.

@Icey

   I agree with you that there's nothing wrong with wanting a real human connection.  But I question the OP's psychological fortitude with getting sucked into a stripper relationship.

Ive learned its easy to have normal relationships with strippers when there is enough in common, an attraction and you get along. But yeah. When there is that big of an age difference and its just p4p, catching feelings is a recipe for disaster

@GB other than strippers, I don't meet women under 30 except at (my) work. I would have civvie dated my favs (except maybe the ex-con). But they all wanted guys who were younger/better looking and/or interested in being seriously committed. The ex-con would have made me earn my rockers first.

I'm in my 60s so I think I missed the boat. I'd rather spend the money rather than spend time in places I don't want to be in. I prefer flyover country generally.

Gordieboy.... Acting like that is more likely to get you seen as creepy, immature and trying too hard.

Working on your body and having a good skin care routine is key. Dressing too young or hanging out in places where everyone is much younger makes you look older than you are.

Theres no game. Its about attraction and vibing. Either you have it or you don't.

===> "I did get creep-shamed several times before I learned better."

I'm guessing that plenty of young women in these venues still find you creepy. Because seeing someone old enough to be your Dad hanging out in a place full of young people partying IS creepy. And the older you get and the harder it becomes to hide signs of aging, the creepier it will get.

@Ilb: It's not a "daughter issue" when you want to stick your penis in the girl. You're falling into the classic trap of developing feelings for a girl far younger and out of your league just because she spent some sexy time with you.

Shake it off man, lol.

@rd the title is a self-effacing parody of all the daddy issues posts. But par for the course that humor and humility are lost on you.

The stat I've heard is that about 20% of women are into flings on a regular basis. They are often called promiscuous, but that's more than judgemental than true. A reasonably attractive woman can take a pass on 90+% of interested men, and still have dozens of flings per year. In my experience, women in this demographic are the most likely to brush you off calmly and politely when they are not interested. For whatever reason, not necessarily your geezery appearance.

The women who are a strip club push factor are generally a subgroup within the other 80%. They faux creep out when men approach them hoping for a fling. When a guy who's much older rolls up, they typically assume it's for a fling. When woman actually creep out, it's typically when they fear you are the no-means-yes type.

Obviously, we have to take each other's anonymous asses with a boulder of salt. Maybe GordieBoi is really Donald Sutherland in Animal House, maybe not.

===> "But par for the course that humor and humility are lost on you."

Could be. Or it could be that your humor sucks. When the comedian doesn't get a laugh, is it the audience's fault? 😉

Gordie boy youve posted creepy ahit on here for years

at 74 I am automatically creepy too any girl I might be attracted to,

hence my preference of going to a strip club.

Age difference is just a number. You never are too old to be creepy.

Think Bill Belichick and his cheerleader girlfriend and soon to be wife Jordon Hudson.

And for the family value types, Trump's press secretary, Karoline Leavitt and her husband have a few decades between them.

Gordieboy your old profile was creepier than your new one 🤡💩

OK Gordie, if you're a famous celebrity or a billionaire, less creepy.

But you're neither, so it's very creepy. Even more so when you hang out in age inappropriate party venues hoping to score, which you can be sure the guys in your examples weren't doing. Creepy AF dude. 😂

Im in my early 30s and look kinda young for my age. And I enjoy it. But I wouldnt be 60 dressing like im in my 20s and going to college bars

My last gf was in her mid 20s, 18 years younger than me. She said she had no interest in guys her own age, but it was weird that she was still a fetus when I arrived at college.

Her dad was only a couple years older than me and she still lived with him and her sister, and he still treated her like a teenager. The first time she stayed the night at my place, her dad called her 20 times and even called the fucking cops. She was also extremely naive, emotionally immature, and completely clueless about money. Man, I should have known this when she unironically used the word "kinkshaming."

Eventually, her being hot and loving sex wasn't enough. Now, my "ideal woman" might be in her low 30s. It seems like no one, man or woman, hits adulthood these days until 30 anyways.

LOL. GordieBoy, my daughters were out of your league when you were their age, nevermind as an old man. Any of them hooking up with someone like you is not remotely my concern. You're a childless old man, which says pretty much everything needed about you.

But what is my concern is creepy old men making them feel unsafe in places that should be the domain of other young people. I mean seriously dude, what in the world are you thinking?

rickdugan is adamant about being adamant. He has serious malignant tendencies. He brags about it when women loosen their long-held boundaries with him, particularly if has reason to thing they are doing it under duress. There is much skepticism about him having a wife or children. From what he says about them, they sound like characters from the novel of a talentless unpublished writer.

At its depths male sexuality is a reptilian attraction to women who can bear and raise healthy, capable children. But many have a layered sexuality, where emotion bonds/needs overshadow the reptilian layer to one degree or another. (I am unfortunately not among them.) There is no bright line age range to the reptilian attraction. The peak point for each woman, in eliciting this attraction, generally falls somewhere between adolescence and menopause.

Hopefully some lurkers got some laughs out of my original post. I thought I might hear some advice I could pass along, about how people in their 20s should make decisions about how/when to make compromises, to achieve a relationship they can happily grow old in. But I always knew that was a long shot.

The two of them have been together for about 5 years. She seems to be pretty open with me, she rarely says anything about them arguing.

I think there are many men who would never say they are sexually frustrated because their wives are showing their age. But, I think there are aging couples where the emotional bond between them is more erotic than ideal physical appearance.

Gordieboy its not about you saying you date younger women. Youre just a creepy weirdo 🤡

As far as connections with dancers go. I dont believe you can have a real connection as long as youre paying for the interaction. It puts them in a different mindset. Everything they say and do is related to their hustle.