Who gets the better lap dance? Married or single?

Dancers don't care if you are married or not...treat them with respect and pay generously for their services and they couldn't care less if you have a ring.

I've never found my ring to be a burden, and at times, it has been a plus!

I've asked dancers about this, and I've gone into clubs with and without my ring. The dancers tend to say they couldn't care less one way or the other and my experience matches that.

Coming at this from a slightly different angle, to the extent the conversation/rapport matters, it does seem to me that the married/divorced dancers wind up relating a little more directly and maybe relaxing a little bit (?) when I acknowledge being married... it's common ground, basically. I could be imagining this.

peaceful72,

I don't think it is your imagination. I believe you are correct. Why?

My guess is that a lot of dancers don't enjoy being hit on all the time, and married men are less likely to do so. I know that is how I met my ATF.

Clubber is right -- married man have a slight edge, other things being equal. I like to tell the girls on my lap that strippers have helped hold my marriage together - by giving me some female companionship that doesn't involve any committment - just money. They seem to appreciate that.

I agree with SLIDER and clubber - most don't care and it can sometimes be a slight plus. It's how you treat them that counts.

TUSCL_Brother,

I don't think "funds" have anything to do with being a reguloar customer. Perhaps to being a regular tipper, LD buyer, and such. I've been a regular in a number of clubs, as a married, man, and still tip well, ans saw no difference then with my single friends.

Married,single...male/female....black/white/purple....it doesn't really matter. When all is said & done, what is in your wallet is really all that most dancers care about.

True lopaw, though I'd like to add that overall I get treated better when I'm with my wife. We have been told that we are a fun couple to hang with and we have gotten some outrageous dances from strippers that were not as enthusiastic when it was just me. I guess when everyone is having fun that goes a long way toward better dances.

As a married guy, i have never had any problems. As SLIDER said, be respectful and spend some money and it shouldn't matter either way.

A dancer could care less if you are married or single as far as the quality of dance you are going to get. Her job is to get you to buy more dances. Some dancers prefer married men as they are less likely to stalk them or ask them to go out with them. This, however, does not effect the quality of the dance. As I said, it's all about selling the guy another one.

I think the married guy gets better service after the lap dance if it involves their bedroom. I remember one night, one dancer grabbed my hands and dragged me off to get a slightly more private lap dance, told me she was married but that her husband was ok with her working at the strip club, then proceeded to do a lap dance and immediately put my hands right on her tits. Then she said she doesn't let most guys do this. However she was drunk too. She wanted me to remember her name and I still do even though I was drinking too. I'm not sure why she wanted me to remember her so much. Drunk girls can act crazy.