Do You Even Want This?

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Manuellabore
Over the past month or so, I have had three torrid encounters with a hypersexual, big-assed and big-boobed Dominican. Not my preferred body type, but the “hypersexual” aspect more than makes up for it. She’s just constantly getting off, which accentuates my experience as well.

Encounter #2 wasn’t as torrid as it might have been, since neither of us had a condom, but we made do. When I met up with her at the club before encounter #3, she proudly told me she had a condom. Turns out that, in a sort of reverse O. Henry story, I had one too. When I joked about wearing both of them at the same time, she asked if I wanted to fuck her in the ass. She had dangled this opportunity at the conclusion of our first meetup. It wasn’t mentioned during encounter # 2, presumably because we were bereft of protection.



I have compromised or abandoned altogether many principles in pursuit of this pastime, but one I try to hold fast to is that any sexual activity should be enjoyable for both participants. AFAIK, the male and female buttholes are functionally identical, and I know that I don’t enjoy it at all when the doc briefly sticks a bony finger up my butt to check out my prostate. I’m sure that I would enjoy it even less to have something the size of my erect dick up there. I’m no Johnny Wadd, but there’s more girth and length than an index finger.



My experience in this area is limited and dated, involving a handful of drunken one-off encounters with civvy women, back when “consent” issues weren’t implicated when both participants were basically equally drunk. I recall it being tight and blowing my load almost immediately, probably due to the tightness of the aperture, as well as the transgressive nature of the act. Not something I’ve had much interest in.


When she asked if I’d like to fuck her in the ass (we’re still standing at the bar at this point), I didn’t want to seem ungrateful for the offer or look like a pussy, so I looked her in the eyes, smiled, and lied and said “I’d like that”. To the VIP we went, where we had another remarkable session, but there was no further mention of ass play.


I’m thinking I’d be just as happy if the topic never came up again. I’m curious whether others have had such offers from dancers, and if they pursued them.



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wallanon
2 months ago
She probably saw it in your face at the bar and knew you weren't really into the idea.
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Puddy Tat
2 months ago
I've had offers, but I find anal to be highly overrated. Doesn't feel as good as the pussy or even a half-decent blowjob. You get an inch or so of super tightness then a lot of empty space. I think it's hotter to finger a girl's ass while boning her doggystyle than to actually stick my dick in there.
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drewcareypnw
2 months ago
I like fucking women in the ass, but it comes with a lot of baggage: there can be shit, there can be bleeding, she could get hurt, it’s a prime way to transmit stds… sometimes worth it, but in a club without access to a long slow warm up and a shower after, it’s just too much to deal with.
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ilbbaicnl
2 months ago
I use to see an escort who was a champion of deep throating. She was curvy but petite. It was bare back, and it felt like I was passing between her vocal chords. I was a unique sensation, but it felt nervous about damaging her vocal chords. After a couple times, I told her I though she should do it more shallow to be safe. She seemed disappointed. It was probably hard for her to get accustomed to doing that.
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Electronman
2 months ago
Over the past 15 years of visiting extras-friendly clubs, I've encountered a number of strippers who claim to like anal, often as much as vaginal sex. Admittedly, the percentage of strippers who will do anal in the club is relatively low, probably less than 10% but a number of the strippers will admit to enjoying anal but in a different setting (where they have access to a shower, etc.). I suspect some of the attraction is a result of the porn industry where anal scenes are quite commonplace. Some may be a direct response to requests from customers. I've also seen a small percentage of dancers who wear butt plugs while performing, mostly at places that feature nude dancers.

For me, there is an appeal of something "different", whether it is a novel partner or a novel activity (including anal ITC). I certainly have my limits (no interest in male partners or any activity that hurts/leaves marks). Others may have different limitations; I'm not judgmental.

I agree with Puddy Tat, after an inch of tightness, there is a lot of empty space. So vaginas are preferred, but every now an then a trip to the Greek Isles is a nice novelty. If you decide to pursue, I recommend that you carry some wet wipes and maybe a small tube of lubricant, often available online or at a store that sells "erotic" supplies and toys.
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rickdugan
2 months ago
I tried anal sex once back in my dating years. It was meh. I much prefer the natural feel of the equipment made for the act, including the natural lubrication. Slathering my penis with Astroglide just so I can stuff it in some girl's asshole is not my idea of a good time.

And no, having condom sex with a bigger high volume Dominican chick is also not my idea of a good time. For all you know she could be giving you an Academy Award performance.

Finally it sounds like the consent laws in your state really suck. I'm guessing you're in one of the Nanny states. Here in FL, a girl who becomes voluntarily intoxicated can still give consent unless she's outright hammered or flat out passed out. This makes it more of a common sense judgment. If a girl is throwing up, slurring her words or walking unsteadily then for me she's clearly off limits. But if she's just regular ol' drunk and she wants to get freaky laid then it's good times.
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Icey
2 months ago
Anal has to be planned to really be enjoyable.
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Muddy
2 months ago
I feel like anal is something you have to get to know these girls a little bit before that's on the table. Very rarely does a girl sit down and next to me and hardball me about fucking her ass.
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shadowcat
2 months ago
Anal is strictly for gay men.
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Puddy Tat
2 months ago
Yesterday at the club, I asked a new girl what she'd do and she said "anything you want." So just to test her I asked if she offered up the back door. To my surprise, she did, even if it was $1,000. Normally when most women say they do "everything," it's "everything but that."
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ilbbaicnl
2 months ago
Anal is no more gay than a BJ.
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gammanu95
2 months ago
Anal does not do anything for me. The only time it was useful was a girl I dated in college who like anal, but reserved it for while Aunt Flo was visiting.
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Beantowner
2 months ago
I had it offered once, which I declined. I like anal in concept since it’s usually a no fly zone for more women, but in practice it’s always lackluster. Not to mention it’s not exactly ideal conditions in a club
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ilbbaicnl
2 months ago
In porn they have a lot of prep rules so that anal doesn't turn into scat. The reality versus the concept.
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