Do You Even Want This?
Manuellabore
Encounter #2 wasn’t as torrid as it might have been, since neither of us had a condom, but we made do. When I met up with her at the club before encounter #3, she proudly told me she had a condom. Turns out that, in a sort of reverse O. Henry story, I had one too. When I joked about wearing both of them at the same time, she asked if I wanted to fuck her in the ass. She had dangled this opportunity at the conclusion of our first meetup. It wasn’t mentioned during encounter # 2, presumably because we were bereft of protection.
I have compromised or abandoned altogether many principles in pursuit of this pastime, but one I try to hold fast to is that any sexual activity should be enjoyable for both participants. AFAIK, the male and female buttholes are functionally identical, and I know that I don’t enjoy it at all when the doc briefly sticks a bony finger up my butt to check out my prostate. I’m sure that I would enjoy it even less to have something the size of my erect dick up there. I’m no Johnny Wadd, but there’s more girth and length than an index finger.
My experience in this area is limited and dated, involving a handful of drunken one-off encounters with civvy women, back when “consent” issues weren’t implicated when both participants were basically equally drunk. I recall it being tight and blowing my load almost immediately, probably due to the tightness of the aperture, as well as the transgressive nature of the act. Not something I’ve had much interest in.
When she asked if I’d like to fuck her in the ass (we’re still standing at the bar at this point), I didn’t want to seem ungrateful for the offer or look like a pussy, so I looked her in the eyes, smiled, and lied and said “I’d like that”. To the VIP we went, where we had another remarkable session, but there was no further mention of ass play.
I’m thinking I’d be just as happy if the topic never came up again. I’m curious whether others have had such offers from dancers, and if they pursued them.
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For me, there is an appeal of something "different", whether it is a novel partner or a novel activity (including anal ITC). I certainly have my limits (no interest in male partners or any activity that hurts/leaves marks). Others may have different limitations; I'm not judgmental.
I agree with Puddy Tat, after an inch of tightness, there is a lot of empty space. So vaginas are preferred, but every now an then a trip to the Greek Isles is a nice novelty. If you decide to pursue, I recommend that you carry some wet wipes and maybe a small tube of lubricant, often available online or at a store that sells "erotic" supplies and toys.
And no, having condom sex with a bigger high volume Dominican chick is also not my idea of a good time. For all you know she could be giving you an Academy Award performance.
Finally it sounds like the consent laws in your state really suck. I'm guessing you're in one of the Nanny states. Here in FL, a girl who becomes voluntarily intoxicated can still give consent unless she's outright hammered or flat out passed out. This makes it more of a common sense judgment. If a girl is throwing up, slurring her words or walking unsteadily then for me she's clearly off limits. But if she's just regular ol' drunk and she wants to get freaky laid then it's good times.