Over the past month or so, I have had three torrid encounters with a hypersexual, big-assed and big-boobed Dominican. Not my preferred body type, but the “hypersexual” aspect more than makes up for it. She’s just constantly getting off, which accentuates my experience as well.
Encounter #2 wasn’t as torrid as it might have been, since neither of us had a condom, but we made do. When I met up with her at the club before encounter #3, she proudly told me she had a condom. Turns out that, in a sort of reverse O. Henry story, I had one too. When I joked about wearing both of them at the same time, she asked if I wanted to fuck her in the ass. She had dangled this opportunity at the conclusion of our first meetup. It wasn’t mentioned during encounter # 2, presumably because we were bereft of protection.
I have compromised or abandoned altogether many principles in pursuit of this pastime, but one I try to hold fast to is that any sexual activity should be enjoyable for both participants. AFAIK, the male and female buttholes are functionally identical, and I know that I don’t enjoy it at all when the doc briefly sticks a bony finger up my butt to check out my prostate. I’m sure that I would enjoy it even less to have something the size of my erect dick up there. I’m no Johnny Wadd, but there’s more girth and length than an index finger.
My experience in this area is limited and dated, involving a handful of drunken one-off encounters with civvy women, back when “consent” issues weren’t implicated when both participants were basically equally drunk. I recall it being tight and blowing my load almost immediately, probably due to the tightness of the aperture, as well as the transgressive nature of the act. Not something I’ve had much interest in.
When she asked if I’d like to fuck her in the ass (we’re still standing at the bar at this point), I didn’t want to seem ungrateful for the offer or look like a pussy, so I looked her in the eyes, smiled, and lied and said “I’d like that”. To the VIP we went, where we had another remarkable session, but there was no further mention of ass play.
I’m thinking I’d be just as happy if the topic never came up again. I’m curious whether others have had such offers from dancers, and if they pursued them.
She probably saw it in your face at the bar and knew you weren't really into the idea.