Porn vs Club

I don't watch much porn. I prefer being with the girl physically and experiencing her in real time.

I typically only watch porn when I can't sleep and need to get myself off to drift away into blissful, orgasmic... rest...

Like now...

Some, but not as much as I used to. I feel like they stopped making interesting porn several years ago.

Very little privacy at home if I watch any its lesbian porn

Now what's my fun or prize?

25 years ago I kept getting my computer infected searching for free porn. Especially using Napster. Now there is so much free porn available that it has become boring and I rarely watch it.

I still like "R" rated movies that have nudity in them.

Interracial pawg porn or twerking vids.

I have a high sex drive. Even after having sex, I still j/o later. Even after getting extras at the club, I still j/o after. The only time I don't is if I'm having sex 3 times a day which I haven't done in 2 summers.

Not much, but some.

I like the kind with lots of caressing and the woman seemingly having a good time.

Wish there was more good lap dance 'porn', that depicts increasing pleasure without going straight to the sucking and fucking.

I have always watched porn with girls that I was in a relationship with, including my wife. It’s thrilling to learn that the girl you’re with likes porn too. Watching porn together is a great way for couples to communicate about sex - what you like, or might want to try. I love it when watching porn helps to release my woman’s inner bisexuality, seeing her getting turned on by girls and lesbian sex.

Don’t really watch porn, I would rather meet someone who wants to have fun together than watch someone else.

Similar to Pawg Patrol but slowly moving to YT thematic videos and chat sites (zero interaction or payment) instead of traditional porn given I’m visiting clubs more often.

We cold solve a lot of violence problems in the world if more men had outlets for consensual ejaculation (both themselves and women assisted)

Also agree with Gsteph

Wish there was lap dance porn

I generally watch it for 20 minutes or so before I go to sleep. I'm into a range of female physical types, from Katana to Maserati. I tend to fast forward to the vag penetration. You'd think they have a formula for lube that's shiny on camera, so we weren't seeing so many dicks looking bone dry on the upstroke. I'd rather watch kissing or boob fondling than BJs. (BJs have never been my thing even IRL.) I like attending to the clit IRL, and I'm fine with women who can only finish from that. But, somehow it does nothing for me to watch it in porn. Anal/DP can be hot if the woman can really sell it, not look like it hurts.

IRL I've often gone for long stretches only getting lap dances from one dancer. But, I rarely watch the same woman in porn more than once a month. Which is the main reason OF does not work for me. I don't feel very motivated to subscribe to pornhub or Xvideos, since the performers get no cut of the subscription money.

I'd prefer it if the men in porn were less rough/pushy. It's always seem weird to me that porn without this is rare, rather than the most common type. The porntubes might get more subscriptions it they allowed users to save a version of their favorite scenes with their own edits.

Porn animation is getting so good ( rule34collection.com ), I wonder if it will eventually make live action porn obsolete. But a lot of it is unwatchable to me, because it's targeted to guys with a torture fetish of some sort. But, I'll admit I find some of the scenes of women with dogs and horses hot. Sad how desperate us old ugly guys are to feel like we have a chance. I could REALLY do without all the futa scenes.

Rarely. Maybe once a month I feel a need to rub one out. I mostly will view blow job content I'd previously purchased on Only Fans. It's somehow hotter if it's an "amateur", even better if it's one I've met in real life.

I watch more than I care to admit. My sex drive is much higher than my wife’s so whenever I need to “take matters into my own hands” I’ll watch some porn. There is enough variety on the free sites like pornhub and xvideos so I don’t pay for it. I’d rather save my money to spend on dancers in person when I visit the strip club.

(And yes, the wife knows I visit.)

I'm really surprised at all the folks here saying monthly.

For me it's a daily ritual, unless I've otherwise had sex that day.

I only watch porn on the days I go to sleep, so like most here, not much. Got to drop my kids off at Kleenex and Sock.

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@grrlgonebad

I will play along and comment on your discussion.

Q: Do you guys spend a lot of time viewing porn while you are not at the clubs? A: Who doesn’t?

Q: Do you take this "hobby" beyond the clubs, where you are watching (and "interacting" with) porn when you are not in the clubs? A: Who doesn’t want to have OTC (Outside The Club) interaction (sex) with a favorite dancer?

And of course pornography can support healthy sexual activities and develop healthy sexual relations.

Porn can educate people about a variety of sexual practices; includes a variety of body types, genders and races; and some porn shows that sex can provide pleasure for all participants.

Men and women have a natural desire to have sex and procreate.

In our society/culture this natural desire has been modified/repressed in many ways by religion, education, social rules, negative environment that impacts their physical and mental health, etc, etc, etc.

For example the hormonal levels that regulate physiological sexual desire are affected and can suppress sexual desire.

In other cases the pursuit of “happiness” in other activities takes away some of the natural sexual desires.

In the case of men and women natural sexuality, our society/culture historically has repressed their sexuality to a point beyond recognition of what healthy sexual desire is.

You wrote and I quote:

“I've got a few, somewhat "niche" porn categories that always interest me, but I would love to know how you guys feel porn fits into your club experience... or does it?”

How did you find out about those categories that “always interested you”?

Because nobody is born with that type of knowledge/information.

The ultimate goal for most TUSCL members (and heterosexual men in the world) is to have “sex” in one way or another…

It is also natural for women to want/need love/comitment in addition to sex to be in a state of satisfaction (happiness)

Women naturally want a man they would trust enough to be their protector and provider, for them and their children, it is in their DNA.

Let’s be careful out there.

:D

Okay.. first off... let's clear something up...

It is also natural for women to want/need love/comitment in addition to sex to be in a state of satisfaction (happiness)

Women naturally want a man they would trust enough to be their protector and provider, for them and their children, it is in their DNA.

Ummmm.....no.

Those are ideas built up by men, that came from an era where having a female orgasm was considered a "myth" or they became "hysterical" (from the latin root for women)... We've cum a bit further since then! (pun intended). Maybe you should look at the "DNA" studies from today, not the 1950s.

I think it scares the shit out of men when they find out that women love sex as much (or more) than most men. The scary part is that if that is true, then men are faced with the question... "then why aren't they having sex with me??"

It turns out that what you label as "natural for women to want commitment" is just that they don't want to commit to the possibility of getting pregnant with.. well... let's say not everyone is worth the risk... that part is in the DNA... and just part of being a woman that you grow up learning to accept...

When you find a woman who is "cold" or "frigid" or... reserved... about her sexual drive, MOST OFTEN if you look into her past you will find some sort of point where she was made to feel bad... something, someone.. somewhere.. happened in her life to make her change... whether it being her mother telling her over and over "that is not how girls behave" or well.. worse...

As an aside, if the government limits birth control... do you think that will mean more or less sex for men?

I love to fuck. I enjoy making love with a partner I care for.. but I also like to get down and dirty and just.. fuck... and honestly everywhere in between... it is my natural state...

As with everyone, we go through portions of our lives where we may want to settle down and start a family... that causes us to look at sex from a whole different perspective... I will never be there... but... that is just me.

I like to give as much as I like to get.. it is always best when it is a two way street.

All of this is to say... my porn experience has opened me up to different possibilities.. some i have lived... some I would never personally do... but...still...find... hot. Watching porn has forced me to look inwardly to find the person I am... why I feel some things.. and why I am replused by others... those are the things that have "always interested me"..

Oh, and @libb... " Anal/DP can be hot if the woman can really sell it, not look like it hurts"

... it always hurts*... but sometimes there is enjoyment in the pain... so, sometimes what you are seeing is both...

*unless the person has been doing large item insertions.. which.. is a whole psychosis thing that deserves another whole post.

@grrlgonebad

Like I said before, I my limited experience and humble opinion:

Men and women (like most mammals) have a natural desire to have sex and procreate.

Western society/culture of today has completely lost touch with the biological realities of human nature.

Most men are biologically “programmed” to take care of a woman (be her protector and provider) and most women are biologically programmed to want to be taken care of (be protected and provided for) by a man.

It is a biological fact, that most men and women will be able to observe within themselves, if they just pay attention to it when they’re in a sexual/romantic situation with the opposite sex.

In most civilizations/cultures in human history, men are seen as the protectors and providers for the family.

However some modern societies/cultures have completely lost touch with the biological realities of human nature and live in denial and look for something else that is not there, and people are not longer true to themselves and who they are.

Let’s be careful out there.

@ggb Google Search AI says anal sex is not always painful. So maybe Google just has a more rubbery butthole than you do. Although one stripper told me it feels better if penetration doesn't go past the rectum.

How much a woman likes sex may be more about physiology than psychology: latimes.com . Sex that makes babies is too far away from the clits of many women. But big societies obliterate small ones (think natives of North America versus white people). So traditional norms restrict people to sex acts that can result in pregnancy.

I don't think we know at this point whether everyone or all men or all women want to be hoes or exclusive with one person. We'll probably never know unless someday there are no norms about this. Norms become the apparent reality, because humans are a herd animal.

I decided to spend tons of cash getting FS at SCs to break my porn habit. Worked like a charm. Most recent time I logged on to Pornhub it was to watch women eating each other out so I could see if I could pick up any pointers on technique.

grrlgonebad made the CJ Kent Band break character. There's a TUSCL flex if we've ever seen one.

I used to try to keep up with brazzers and bangbros new releases regularly, not to jerk off but mostly to see what new pornstars are out there. As far as jerking off to porn, only if its been weeks or even months without sex. I may google a pornstar and look at some pictures if its someone I haven’t seen before. Ive only been to 10 or so clubs, but to me the hottest pornstars are hotter than anyone ive seen at a club.

I don't watch a lot of porn.

I've found when I look, it's a lot of themes that I'm put off by. I run into that step-sibling stuff often and even when I don't, it seems like there is an obsession with something else I don't find sexy. Like way too focused on anal, or rough/humiliation type shit, or both.

I also prefer slim, natural girls. Often I don't find the comic book style fake tits and wide hips on many girls in porn to be attractive.

Even when I do find porn with an attractive actress and no objectionable themes, I'd still rather have the real thing in person.

"I run into that step-sibling stuff..."

Well who else is supposed to help those poor girls get unstuck from the dryer?

This thread is sort of like junior high or high school where no guys would admit to masturbating ever, but the boys bathrooms had cum-slicks and sticky wads of tissue paper around the toilet bowls that originated from someone with bad aim.

I also seem to remember that any thread here about favorite porn stars tends to get as much traffic as many of the busiest political threads here. So, I suspect that there's more fap traffic on TUSCL than this thread depicts.

Anywho, if I'm horny or stressed (or both...) and don't have time for the club or an OTC regular, I have no problem rubbing one out to porn. How often that happens depends on how horny or stressed I am. As far as what I like, it's all relatively vanilla. It matters more that the actress is hot.

When I'm

I dont think its healthy or natural for a guy to not be into large breasted wide hipped women. Theres been studies and biological reasons found behind why guys are attracted to those things. People likely had to be brainwashed into liking skinny women, although now its the reverse with people being brainwashed into liking BBWs. Comically large breast implants or ass implants aren’t attractive either.

@Man the best technique is one that makes her feel comfortable in coaching you as to how to do it as she personally likes it (not going to be consistent).

ilbbaicnl: I know there's no "one size fits all". Problem is when I don't seem to be getting any traction and I start throwing every move in my bag of tricks at her one after the other and then she says "keep doing that" and I'm thinking "Keep doing what?", because I'd been all over the place. Had a dancer give me very specific instructions in real time a couple weeks ago and boy did it pay off. When she finally went over the top, she clamped her thighs around my head so hard and for so long I seriously wondered if I was going to suffocate. Can't wait to see her again.