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I suggest that "service provider" be a urologist MD.

If you stop ejaculating blood, DM blahblahblah, she can get it going again for you.

Just reading that is painful! I felt pain in my balls

I'd see a doctor before an escort, my man

Tripod. If you don't have a camcorder, there is a bracket you can buy the lets your phone be your video camera while using the tripod.

fyi it looks like bedpage is the site that has pretty much all the good shit

^ I suspect that you and I define "good" differently.

FetLife.com and it isn't even close (for this specific case at least). It is not an escorting site, but it IS specifically what you want for what you need.

Make an account right now, it's free for nearly full access (except viewing videos), but you have full access to all messaging etc. at no cost.

Sites that are escort-oriented and that have forums and personal profiles: Humaniplex.com and PrivateDelights.ch depending on where you are located, also try eccie.net

Note: they do have various TOS limitations for public posts, especially Humaniplex (aka HX) for HX, join a club like "pushing limits" and post in there.

Also, when searching for a girl particularly on private delights, search for the keyword "fetish".