Very basic tipping question
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I kinda feel silly asking this but here goes. After a dancer finishes her set on stage and she’s approaching each customer sitting at the bar for a tip, what is the standard amount?
I used to go to strip clubs a lot in the 1990s and have started to return to the scene. Back in 90s the standard, expected, tip was $1. But with inflation is that too little now? Or is this a some things never change type of thing?
To be clear I’m not asking about tips for extras or a good LD etc. Just basic post stage show tipping. I’m not looking to impress anyone by throwing money around but I don’t want to look like a cheap bastard either.
If geography makes a difference I’m talking about central NJ ( bourbon st, black Betty’s, gogo rama area).
Thanks.
I used to go to strip clubs a lot in the 1990s and have started to return to the scene. Back in 90s the standard, expected, tip was $1. But with inflation is that too little now? Or is this a some things never change type of thing?
To be clear I’m not asking about tips for extras or a good LD etc. Just basic post stage show tipping. I’m not looking to impress anyone by throwing money around but I don’t want to look like a cheap bastard either.
If geography makes a difference I’m talking about central NJ ( bourbon st, black Betty’s, gogo rama area).
Thanks.
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What I’d add is this, will you be going there frequently or semi frequently? If so what’s your predetermined comfort level spend (make sure to have a predetermined amount)? If you can comfortably spend like this, if the average customer gives 2$ you give 5$. She does something particularly right for you? Tip smartly but solidly. As you go back there more, that previous additional spending buys above the norm potential for each visit.
If you like what you see, 2 $1 bills placed in different locations is a neutral.
Larger bill obviously placed to be seen by dancer=see me 1st when you are done collecting tips
If it were me, I'd do what I felt was right and watch the girls reactions. It shouldn't be hard to see the range of reactions from along the spectrum from resentment, to indifference, to excitement. Then adjust for to match your tip with your feeling. If she was unattractive and gave a poor performance, a low tip is warranted. If she was hot as fuck and put on a great show, a better tip is warranted. You could try to peek at what others are giving too. But me telling you that my typical tip range is 3-10 bucks probably isn't relevant in your situation. Especially since I generally avoid tip walk clubs.
I don't usually try to use tip amounts to indicate level of interest interest. Sometimes I do, but usually I find it more effective to tip in the average/slightly above range and simply tell her I'd like to her to come over when she can.
$2 if she was especially cute/good on stage/was personable in approach....but not good enough to elicit interest in more conversation/drink/LD/VIP.
$3+ if I want her to come back to me after tip walk &/or if her set was particularly engaging.
In summary....depends on my mood/situation. There is no one-size-fits-all amount.
I do NOT, however, engage with the "1 for the kitty?" nonsense that sometimes follows the first $1-$2. I shut that down quickly.
Though I’m not clear on what the 1 for the kitty nonsense is. Is that referring to when after tipping a dancer up by her breasts she pulls aside her g-string a bit for a bonus tip down low? I’m actually ok with giving a second tip in that circumstance.
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