Her: Is there anything that I should bring?

That's dependent on any special interests/fetishes you have. Leash/collar? Stockings? Toys?

It's a good sign that she's interested in making sure you're happy.

Maybe it helps if she brings outfits that make her feel sexy? She's obviously not going to be in them the whole time, but dancers who I know around that age seem really focused on how they look literally at all times.

Depends on the girl, most of the time there's nothing they need to bring. There have been a few that I've asked them to bring a particular outfit of theirs because they do a really hot strip tease out of that outfit in the club and that is a great way to start out an OTC session. I have also asked a couple of girls to bring a nice dress so that we can go out for a nice meal between sessions.

Others have asked if they should bring things like handcuffs, toys, particular costumes or other fetish iitems which I generally decline. I did have one ask if she should bring a video camera and I just responded that we could use mine.

I’ve never had one ask that before, either. The only thing that came to mine was condoms, but I always have my own and I’m sure you do too. Unless you plan on bare backing.

have her show up wearing a mini skirt and pantyhose.

I've had a couple girls ask, my response has always been similar to yours. I think most of the ones who have asked it was their first time doing that sort of thing.

Not munch to add. Maybe ask what she likes to eat or drink so you’ll have it on hand or she can pick something up?

In a follow up text she also asked if I wanted her to wear anything special. I replied that I find nighties sexy but it didn't matter because it was all coming off anyhow. :) I'm more convinced that this is her first time OTC. She is coming to my house. The trust is there.

Treat her extra well, and allow her to sever ties when the situation sours. Braver man than many of us....you never know how someone's behavior may change when the dynamic shifts.

I kinda think shadow knows what he’s doing. If he doesn’t, the rest of us are doomed.

She may have too many different outfits to bring them all, and wants to know your preferences.

You need to agree on condom type, or maybe two, one for oral, one for FS. Also lube type and maybe massage oil type. Some escorts would ask me if I wanted the lube warmed to close to body temp. They had some device to do that, but I never asked for it. If you don't have what you agree on, and don't want to get it, obviously she'll have to bring it.

Sometimes they want booze or soft drinks or snacks. So you could ask her what to stock up on, or tell her it's fine for her to bring any of that stuff that she wants. One wasn't picky, she'd just rummage through my fridge and pantry. Without asking, like the slacker daughter I never had.

Wouldn't hurt to discuss if/what she can smoke beforehand.

Tell her to bring her last STI, HIV and herpes test results. You can't be too careful.

rattdog... "have her show up wearing a mini skirt and pantyhose."

really??

I'd have her show up wearing a mini skirt and NO pantyhose OR panties!!!

^oh yeah. that combo makes me get real mentally hyper and then gets my dick totally jacked up.

A cute girlfriend! Maybe the second time.

I would say KFC to try to work in some free fried chicken into the deal.

Guess it depends how comfortable you are with her..... A couple of favorite outfits? A few toys? Massage Oil? What have the two of you intimated to each other?

If it's someone I have little experience with I'l always ask if they would remove nipple and clit type piercings if they have any. In most cases they obliged. Those piercings are a big turn off for me Not a fan of tongue piercings either but I'll let it slide

A whip or heavy duty belt

If she's blah, phone books and duct tape.

A chicken pot pie for late lunch?

Do y'all think these girls want to hang around and eat with you?

Or is their goal, really just to fuck, get your money and leave as quickly as possible?

Is this a date or a paid fuck?

B)

Classy outfit for going out & hot lacy one for indoor activities

would that chicken pot pie be from boston market or from another spot?

Heard this from several over the years. It’s meant anything from food to protection to a second girl to background music to an overnight bag.

@shadowcat

I will play along and comment on your discussion.

Q: Her: Is there anything that I should bring?

A: shadowcat: yourself

If she is 25, maybe she meant to bring some recreational drugs to enhance the sexual experience and get her “on the mood” like “ecstasy” and she is asking if you need something too; like grass, hash, coke, mescaline, downers, Nembutal, amphetamines etc.

You might want to be the man in the relationship and follow up with a text:

shadowcat: You might want to bring an overnight bag in case you decide to spend the night… and we will have breakfast in bed in the morning ;)

I usually bring my ATF a sexy outfit for her to model for me and take pictures, I have thousands of pics and vids from my ATF from five years ago.

Just find the right balance that works for you, the customer, and makes her feel comfortable and safe, and good about OTC as a win-win situation.

Just be cautious and careful out there and listen to your spider 🕷️ sense/gut feeling and;

“Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner.” ~ movie “Heat” (1995)

And remember Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.

:D