Annoyed about boyfriends and their "benefits"- what’s the upshot?
tbot1102
California
So over the Christmas holidays, I discovered that my most recent conquest (the 19yr old Mexicali hottie with nipple piercings) got herself a boyfriend. POssibly he was always around. GOing by her IG profile, he comes with a child and she is seemingly very enamoured with the child. Was thinking how good must the guy have it fucking a hot 19 year old while also enjoying HER money. Also, am wondering what is the pyschology of guys like him who must know the girl’s business. She wears pricey outfits and accessories and also got herself a SUV recently. So clearly, the guy must know. Putting myself in his shoes, I would enjoy the pussy while keeping my options open to jettison her on short order when I want to "settle down". Surely the girl will be at the losing end when she is past her prime beauty/earnings.
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so you just found out your "conquest" is seeing someone. that guy, as far as you can tell, is living off of her earnings. therefore, some of your money is being used to feed that guy. and to add he also gets to fuck and get sucked off by her without having to pay. what i am curious though is if you know all this and you're not exactly thrilled by it all, then how would you want to see and get your cock up for her? after the way you explained all the above i would think your dick would perpetually remained shriveled for this 19 year old. you sound like you want to be that guy she's seeing.
In fact, it’s more like you’re her conquest.
The gorgeous girl with a broke loser boyfriend.
The handsome ultra successful guy with the fat and ugly stay at home mom wife who’s always busting his balls.
Anyone who would even talk to Icee.
The stripper duct taped in Muddys trunk.
You're deluded by thinking she is somehow wrong for having a boyfriend just because she held her breath for a few minutes and slept with you. Does her boyfriend know she's a sex worker? Maybe, maybe not. Not your business. But seeing as how there's a child involved, their relationship might actually be serious and he may know what she actually does. Again, not your business.
Plenty of guys on here (in fact, probably the majority) have slept with multiple beautiful women. Any man (or woman) with money can do this. They don't have to be Rockefellers and they don't have to look like a movie star. So, congratulations, now move on.
How do you know the boyfriend didn't buy her that SUV?
From my one trip to the TJ clubs, the BGs seemed like fairly typical Mexican women. The idea of being a tradwife for the right guy had appeal for them. When women take it up the hoo-haw at gynecologist's, nobody thinks it means anything about her values or personality? So why to people make so many assumptions about an FS sex worker, who's just earning a better living than they could otherwise?
Just because its true for you, and you're unlikely to ever know . . .
Enjoy your conquesting
As long as money is exchanged willingly in exchange for a positive experience, I don't care what she does with her earnings.
I don't care what my landscaper/plumber/barber/etc does with my money, so why should I care what strippers do with it?
Playing Captain-Sav-a-Ho is a perhaps a natural instinct, but serves no real purpose.
If we are honest with ourselves, we would generally not consider dating those girls if met under any other circumstances, so why do we suddenly care more about them in a strip club introduction scenario? There are socioeconomic, cultural, lifestyle, and age differences that generally make us incompatible with strippers.
Who's going to care for her at the end of the day, let alone her kid? You? She's your service provider, same as your mechanic or physician. Obviously her bf provides something that your cash can't.
Why do you care about his psychology? I wouldn't date a woman who grinds on other dudes for pay, let alone swallows their cum, my choice. The bf, whatever his motives, has to deal with that. Maybe he'd rather smoke weed and play Madden all day than get a real job, and he's willing to share his girl's puss for it. It's their life decision, not yours.
Find a new girl and stop being a creepazoid stalker.
...more than 20 years your junior?
...from a different social class or ethnic group than yours?
...a tough guy, a gangbanger, a drug dealer, a wanna-be pimp, a fuckboy, a drug addict, an aspiring rapper?
...the kind of guy who dates strippers instead of renting them?
...a loser with a kid and no job living off his gf?
...a cuckold that enjoys the thought (or taste, yuck) of other men fucking his girl?
...icey loco?
You probably won't understand his psychology. Even if you saw it diagrammed out on paper, you'd probably say "this shit doesn't make any sense".
It's basically the same as ours. He's getting to bang the same girl you like to bang. Different reasons. And it's not necessarily better on the other side. Unless you're a wannabe pimp, would you want to be the guy at home while your girl's out catching dicks so she can have her own money on the side?
Isn't she still 18?