With TJ bar girls, being Polite makes a difference?

Not really who cares about how a hoe feels when you plowing the shit out em. This is my sexual gratification no theirs. Just give me a warm hole & mouth and I’m set.

Being polite usually gets you fucked over bud

When people are assholes, it's not because they don't have a general understanding of the trade-offs of being an asshole. It's because they enjoy it more, and/or they have an irrational compulsion to do it. In Mexico, the worst-case consequences of being an asshole are more likely. Especially when you are doing business with the cartels, which you are by going to the red light district.

Fucking well said @PAFBABS.

Respect gets respect. Treating Bar Girls well is not just worth doing for it's own sake, you get much better service for it too.

@ Mr Monger, I’ve read your recent posts and was expecting this response by you. We share opposite perspectives when it comes to TJ mongering, still I appreciate your feedback.

. “ In Mexico, the worst-case consequences of being an asshole are more likely. “
^ ilbbaicnl - You are very observant, and well said. The main reason for my bringing up this subject is mainly for that one reason you mentioned. Also, being polite in general doesn’t cost you anything, although being an asshole especially in TJ can lead you into a world of unwanted trouble. The rookies aren’t quite familiar with this fact, but when you’ve been mongering out in TJ for many years you tend to understand it all quite well in how to avoid trouble ITC as well as OTC. TJ bar girls may seem all friendly and super caring, but most are quite well connected OTC and you don’t want to get involved in that grim side of their affiliation.

Treat everyone politely, all the time and it becomes second nature. At Mynx the last time I was sitting next to the dancer I wanted, but she was occupied with Mr. too much cologne. While I drank 3 dancers, none my type approached. I was polite, very polite. When Mr. Cologne left in a cloud of cologne for the men's room, hot dancer, said "I appreciate the way you treat dancers you aren't interested in, because I bet you treat the ones you are even better and I hope I find out". There was just a faint hint of cologne in the air when we retunred 6 songs later.

. “ Respect gets respect. Treating Bar Girls well is not just worth doing for its own sake, you get much better service for it too. “
^ RonJax2 - Dude, I agree 💯 percent, and as I mentioned if you’re in this game for the real FUN with TJ bar girls then being polite will most definitely increase the overall outcome threefold in many ways. But,I guess only the long terms players in this hobby understand how to maximize the FUN while still staying out of unwanted trouble👍🏻You and I besides a few others in here understand all this quite well, as such the FUN is endless each visit👌🏻

skibum609 - Obviously, you’ve been in this game for a while and as such understand it all quite well👍🏻

Well said @PAFBABS! I always go by the Golden Rule: treat others the way you want to be treated. I treat everyone with respect and class, and while there are always be exceptions, I find myself getting those shown to me in return. In the TJ Zona Norte clubs, if you treat the girls right, they will show their appreciation.

I agree with skibum.

. “ Rule: treat others the way you want to be treated. “
^ OPlllini96 - It’s a simple rule to follow, and it costs nothing but it does go a long way with these bar girls. Also, politeness is well appreciated by these girls, IMO it differentiates you from the usual jerks they come across on a daily basis. As such you can also expect a positive overall outcome coming out your way naturally from their side. Happy TJ mongering my friend👌🏻

There's the old quote. "Call a spade a spade, but call a prostitute a lady. Their lives are hard enough. "
Most people deserve and respond well to kindness. I only treat otherwise those who have earned my scorn.

. “ Most people deserve and respond well to kindness. I only treat otherwise those who have earned my scorn. “
^ dannyboy3 - Very true, indeed! It costs nothing to be kind, but it sure does go a long way👌🏻

@PAFBABS. Agreed. A little kindness goes a long way!

. “ Agreed. A little kindness goes a long way! “
^ devl_dawgg: Majority of us that have been doing TJ Mongering for a while seem to understand and follow this simple rule quite well and the ones that aren’t familiar with it I’ll highly recommend it - It costs nothing extra, but kindness goes a long way👌🏻

Agree with Paf, Ron and others being polite can go a long way. Also it’s well known the bar girls talk and if you put off a dickish vibe I’m sure you’re not gonna be as popular. Fellow monger @justinyoo recalled a guy being loud obnoxious and not so polite and even after buying a bottle the chicas with him had their one drink and bolted. You always get more flies with honey than vinegar. If you disagree you do you and the rest of us will enjoy the chicas

Zbott - I do recall the incidence quite well, shared by our fellow monger @justinyoo. The guy was being all loud and obnoxious and pretending being a heavy hitter, but despite buying a bottle he couldn’t hold up on the girls. They just used him for what it was worth and bolted right away ( Lol ). Now on the flip side,had he been a little more low-keyed and kind towards the pretty ladies then he could easily have had a mind blowing FUN evening. These bar girls can smell a jerk from a mile away coz they frequently come across them a dime a dozen. In life kindness goes a long way with everyone and especially these bars girls that already have it rough enough but still trying to keep a smile and entertaining us with a good attitude 👍🏻

After my second year of law school, I went to work in the far northern reaches of Maine, fifty miles from where you fall off the earth if you sail too far out. I went there to work on a Ford Pinto crash case resulting in death. My employer had spent summers up there and when his wife was mugged in the subway, he left Wall Street and moved North.
Very rare to get a summer job like I had, but the best part of it was what he taught me. The first day I carried his bag to Court he looked at me and said: "Since you're in Law school I assume you're smart enough to know to treat all Judges like gold. If you want to be smarter than smart, treat everyone in the system that way and if you do, life will be easier. I took it as the gospel and from the moment I walk in, I do as he suggested.
It works pretty much everywhere. Be friendly. Have some insight into what the people you deal with are going through. My comment at the Car rental counter about having to drive to Vegas from L.A. at 1 a.m., followed by, sure beats a 5 minute ride to work though, made the attendant, who looked exhausted at 1 a.m. laugh. She said I feel you and indtead of an Audi A4, I drove off in a Mercedes 400 GLE.
Being nice causes you no harm and as surprising as it may be, we can still be a dick if it doen't help.

. " Since you're in Law school I assume you're smart enough to know to treat all Judges like gold. If you want to be smarter than smart, treat everyone in the system that way and if you do, life will be easier. “
👆🏻skibum609 - Those are golden words of wisdom, and I truly appreciate you taking the time in sharing your positive feedback with us 👌🏻

@Pafbabs - I do agree with treating them like ladies with respect, don't be a dick. 💯 Yet as we have talked offline, I think this could be taken too far, meaning most girls I have met that I ended up with a multi hour ficha sessions like an edge which might laugh and poke fun at our flaws and not just polite all the time. Too nice all the time and it is boring. Too much of an edge then you become an asshole. So each of us tries to tow that line depending on the chica.

For example, hanging with my CF last trip, she said she was thinking of dying her hair black. A polite and nice response would be you would look beautiful. Nah, didn't want to say that
My response was a dick response but we were beyond formalities already, so I asked if the drapes would match the carpet after she dyed her hair? She didn't understand at first until I pointed down and her mouth and eyes shot wide open and she fell over laughing. She said something like I your bad while kissing me on the cheek.

So I'm long, yes, be respectful and polite but to a point from my point of view if you want to really have fun.

Who under 40 has a carpet these days?

justinyoo - My friend you are correct and I was implying being ‘ Polite/kind ‘ within limits ofcourse. Also,I do appreciate your nicely detailed feedback on this topic, it makes a lot of sense👌🏻

No matter who she is. The woman you fuck os a reflection of you.

How you treat her defines you not her

.”How you treat her defines you not her”
^ Icey - Well said 👍🏻Your comment has a lot of meaning to it, and I am sure a few in here comprehend it quite well while for some others it may seem meaningless.Still, your feedback is well appreciate by me.

Just be nicer to others and usually they'll be nicer to you.

Jascoi - Yes, the treatment you give others is what you’ll receive in return. It’s always worked for me that way👍🏻

Being polite to any woman you want to fuck is just common sense . How can you enjoy being with her if youre creating tension?

One thing Ive learned is a woman will happily do anything if ahe thinks its her idea and is happy about it. And you make her feel like she's doing the right thing. Let it be about the both of you. Not just seeing her as a mechanical cum dump

One place where I don't treat a girl nice is if she comes up and wants me to buy her a drink and I don't. But usually I'll send her away with a small tip and a smile!