Insults and Reviews

Muddy
USA
Recently I talked smack about a club's dancers and got called out on it big time by a dancer on here. We got to into it, it got ugly. But it turned out she is pregnant and the baby could be mine to add to the drama. If Maury was still going we'd be on it. Ok enough with all that stupid shit.

How do you feel about going negative on dancers with clubs you review on this site? It's tough. I want to write interesting. But I would also feel shitty if I single out and name a dancer with something negative that she can't control. If she read it by chance and they sometimes indeed do, I would not feel good about it. What I did in this last review though was call out a whole lineup. Which I feel better about doing, it's not a focused, who knows who I'm referring to. And in this case it was weight, which you know you do have some control over.

Anyway am I just acting like a little pussy ass bitch right now? Am I aiding and abetting tuscl becoming soft? Or is this something that crosses your mind too when you write on this website? I mean it's not like reviewing food, it's reviewing people. I try to balance trying be humorous and on the other side with the actual human element of it, especially if they didn't wrong me in anyway.

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  • doctorevil
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    a year ago
    Yes, you're acting like a pussy ass bitch. The most important part of a review is a description of the lineup. If it's substandard, say so. But yeah, like with extras, don't call out a particular girl.
  • Muddy
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    a year ago
    Yeah that's kind of where I'm at with it. If I'm going to go in on someone I'll leave the name out. If she's cunt to me then it's fair game. Good thing customers don't get reviewed or I would taken to cleaners on a daily basis.
  • Electronman
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    a year ago
    Maybe a little perspective taking would help. How would you feel is a dancer wrote a review of the customers in her club and singled you out by name or by description for having a small dick or herpes, or some other condition over which you have little control.

    If you identify a dancer by name (even stage name), say something nice. The only exception would be to use a stage name in identifying a ROB which I consider to be a public service to the other TUSCL readers.
  • shailynn
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    a year ago
    “Good thing customers don't get reviewed or I would taken to cleaners on a daily basis.”

    You sleep in your car to save money so you can spend more on dancers. That’s every dancers dream customer!
  • mickey48066
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    a year ago
    If agreed upon services for agreed upon money was not delivered then you should absolutely put her on blast. Reviewers should also, perhaps a bit more nicely, also identify those who deliver an uninspired, mechanical, going through the motions experience. Conversely, compliments can be given to the dancer who provides a quality experience.
  • Mate27
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    a year ago
    Weight isn’t subjective, it’s a fact so you should be cleared to criticize how hefty dancers are. Don’t want to hear how that’s being an insensitive fat shamer, there’s really not be simple thing a stripper can do to compete, and that’s stay fit. It’s not okay for everyone to lowers their standards to make girls “feel” accepted. If they want to be fat and not critiqued, become a phone sex worker.
  • rockie
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    a year ago
    The objecting adjucator still approved your review!

    You conveyed what you witnessed about the lineup as a whole and that is making a desired contribution. I'm guessing that you know that some others may not have done so for you enough prior to your Cumberland RI visit.

    Someone recently posted about HPTW (Height Propotionate To Weight), perhaps you devise the Muddy meter and note that the weight leans beyond the Muddy meter desire quotient!
  • 5footguy
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    a year ago
    "Weight isn’t subjective, it’s a fact"
    You'd never have thought a few years ago that people would consider gender subjective either, so, be prepared for people to declare their ethnicity, weight, and any other number of things which they choose to slap reality and science in the face with.
  • JamesSD
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    a year ago
    I would never call out specific dancers for things like getting old, putting on weight, or even stinking of cigarettes.

    For me the only thing worth a call out is ROB behavior. If she promises a BJ to get you in the back then doesn't deliver, or even promises a high contact dance and you get air.
  • twentyfive
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    a year ago
    The way I see it is most of the people who toss insults around on here are just jerks, and who cares what a jerk says anyway.
  • Hank Moody
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    a year ago
    It’s pretty easy to be honest in a review and not offensive. Some version of “the lineup included several spinners, some slim thiccs and a few larger girls, so something for everyone.” Not everyone is into the same thing and someone likes the girls you don’t or they’d go do something else. Personally, I love that other girls want girls I’m not interested in, and they don’t want mine.
  • Hank Moody
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    a year ago
    ^other GUYS
  • RiskA
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    a year ago
    +1 on don’t be a pussy ass bitch. Reviews are largely subjective opinions, we all know that. My “fat” is Ben Affleck’s “my wife’s ass is hot.” If you say “Flopsie has herpes” that’s entirely different, that’s an empirical fact. I agree don’t make it too personal; avoid names & generalize if too insulting (except re: ROBs, name them & give details). And if it’s your only club, discretion is probably wise. I could give a flying fuck about dancers’ reviews of me; I think I’m ok but I’m open to criticism, and I use a fake name too LOL.
  • blahblahblahs
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    a year ago
    Can't you just convey that the dancers aren't your type without being cruel? Even if you are criticizing a whole lineup, then by extension you are criticizing every dancer that worked that night--and they know what nights they worked. A simple "I like spinners and none fit my tastes" would convey it without insults. IIRC, Papa C did the opposite, but kind, when complaining about a lineup that was too thin,
  • gammanu95
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    a year ago
    If you're fatty fatty, 2x4, and can't fit through the kitchen door, then you shouldn't be dancing either.

    Men shouldn't play womens' sports and fat bitches shouldn't dance.

    +1 for not being a pussy-ass bitch and calling a spade "a spade".
  • datinman
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    a year ago
    There was a member here just last week looking for BBW's in NYC. Some guys like them big. You alerted all the chubby chasers that this is their club. You spared all the guys that don't like excessive weight on their dancers from wasting their time. Pretty much the point of a review, right?
  • Mate27
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    a year ago
    It’s your review, Muddy. Who TF cares about someone reviewing your review? She wasn’t there and she wasn’t the one being criticized, so she should probably stay in her lane, unless she has unresolved issues she’s trying to work out on a website dedicated to men who visit strip clubs. Then have at it!! Take the comments with a grain of salt.
  • Brahma2k
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    a year ago
    As @mate27 says, weight isn’t subjective. What a customer may like is subjective. Regardless, a SC review should include the visual appeal of the strippers. And Keeping weight in the optimal visual range is a part of making a SC get the higher visual rating. This is a looks business, that’s the reality. Strippers do a lot of aesthetics work, weight control should be one of them.

    Now singling out a stripper by name and saying she’s fat? I wouldn’t but noting there are strippers overweight in a review? Absolutely.
  • twentyfive
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    a year ago
    @blah
    There are several here that enjoy being cruel jerks, it is unnecessary but some here are insensitive jerks that get off on bullying. Best you can do is ignore their ignorant behavior.
  • drewcareypnw
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    a year ago
    I agree with the folks saying don’t be cruel, don’t associate names to extras (for the millionth time), and do out ROBs. If you’re trying to be entertaining and want to say something negative in that context, then avoiding names it probably a good idea.

    Whatever you say, If they know you, they might read it, put 2 and 2 together, and chew you out like this one did to Muddy. So, if you’re worried that something you’re about to say will piss off the dancers, it’s probably a good idea not to say it. Excepts ROBs, they’ve got it coming and probably won’t be dancing there too long anyway.

  • PoundKing
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    a year ago
    We all should totally mention the negatives. The fuck with this fake nice bullshit on a strip club board. I want to know about the negatives and I want to warn others about the negatives

    I wouldn't be mean about it but that's a personal choice. You do you if that's what floats your boat

    Someone said earlier to think about how I'd feel if the shoe is on the other foot. If there's a stripper or sexworker board and they are reviewing customers, and I am a shitty ass customer, then I totally expect them to share that info. Oh wait...
  • JamesSD
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    a year ago
    I definitely like girls a little thicker than a lot of guys. Not papi chulo mode, but more Prime Modeling Kate Upton.
  • gammanu95
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    a year ago
    I think JS69 and shadowcat were/ are the only two guys on here that were so committed to spinners that they would turn down Kate Upton.
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