Insults and Reviews
Muddy
USA
Recently I talked smack about a club's dancers and got called out on it big time by a dancer on here. We got to into it, it got ugly. But it turned out she is pregnant and the baby could be mine to add to the drama. If Maury was still going we'd be on it. Ok enough with all that stupid shit.
How do you feel about going negative on dancers with clubs you review on this site? It's tough. I want to write interesting. But I would also feel shitty if I single out and name a dancer with something negative that she can't control. If she read it by chance and they sometimes indeed do, I would not feel good about it. What I did in this last review though was call out a whole lineup. Which I feel better about doing, it's not a focused, who knows who I'm referring to. And in this case it was weight, which you know you do have some control over.
Anyway am I just acting like a little pussy ass bitch right now? Am I aiding and abetting tuscl becoming soft? Or is this something that crosses your mind too when you write on this website? I mean it's not like reviewing food, it's reviewing people. I try to balance trying be humorous and on the other side with the actual human element of it, especially if they didn't wrong me in anyway.
How do you feel about going negative on dancers with clubs you review on this site? It's tough. I want to write interesting. But I would also feel shitty if I single out and name a dancer with something negative that she can't control. If she read it by chance and they sometimes indeed do, I would not feel good about it. What I did in this last review though was call out a whole lineup. Which I feel better about doing, it's not a focused, who knows who I'm referring to. And in this case it was weight, which you know you do have some control over.
Anyway am I just acting like a little pussy ass bitch right now? Am I aiding and abetting tuscl becoming soft? Or is this something that crosses your mind too when you write on this website? I mean it's not like reviewing food, it's reviewing people. I try to balance trying be humorous and on the other side with the actual human element of it, especially if they didn't wrong me in anyway.
23 comments
If you identify a dancer by name (even stage name), say something nice. The only exception would be to use a stage name in identifying a ROB which I consider to be a public service to the other TUSCL readers.
You sleep in your car to save money so you can spend more on dancers. That’s every dancers dream customer!
You conveyed what you witnessed about the lineup as a whole and that is making a desired contribution. I'm guessing that you know that some others may not have done so for you enough prior to your Cumberland RI visit.
Someone recently posted about HPTW (Height Propotionate To Weight), perhaps you devise the Muddy meter and note that the weight leans beyond the Muddy meter desire quotient!
You'd never have thought a few years ago that people would consider gender subjective either, so, be prepared for people to declare their ethnicity, weight, and any other number of things which they choose to slap reality and science in the face with.
For me the only thing worth a call out is ROB behavior. If she promises a BJ to get you in the back then doesn't deliver, or even promises a high contact dance and you get air.
Men shouldn't play womens' sports and fat bitches shouldn't dance.
+1 for not being a pussy-ass bitch and calling a spade "a spade".
Now singling out a stripper by name and saying she’s fat? I wouldn’t but noting there are strippers overweight in a review? Absolutely.
There are several here that enjoy being cruel jerks, it is unnecessary but some here are insensitive jerks that get off on bullying. Best you can do is ignore their ignorant behavior.
Whatever you say, If they know you, they might read it, put 2 and 2 together, and chew you out like this one did to Muddy. So, if you’re worried that something you’re about to say will piss off the dancers, it’s probably a good idea not to say it. Excepts ROBs, they’ve got it coming and probably won’t be dancing there too long anyway.
I wouldn't be mean about it but that's a personal choice. You do you if that's what floats your boat
Someone said earlier to think about how I'd feel if the shoe is on the other foot. If there's a stripper or sexworker board and they are reviewing customers, and I am a shitty ass customer, then I totally expect them to share that info. Oh wait...