some guys seem to be very loyal to a particular girl and then other guys are always looking for new girls. Even though they get everything they could possibly want, they keep looking for other girls.
“some guys seem to be very loyal to a particular girl and then other guys are always looking for new girls. Even though they get everything they could possibly want, they keep looking for other girls.”
If they were really getting “everything they could possibly want” with one girl/ATF/CF they would not “keep looking for other girls”.
Maybe they are looking for variety or suffer from “The Grass is Greener Syndrome” meaning that they have an inability to feel content with their life as it is, and relentlessly seek something “better”.
I have had ATF that I was “very loyal” ITC and OTC, but if I was traveling or they were busy with family or personal matters, I looked for possible alternatives during those times, sometimes with success sometimes without.
I do get the One and Only thing, but I also understand The Grass is Greener Syndrome, so it is what it is.
IMO, we need both good standbyes, as well as variety. We go to the standbyes when we need a reliable experience, and seek out new girls when we want variety.
Both types of girls have a place in this activity.
Also, different regular girls in the rotation for different experiences. So, a PL could have a girl he sees when he wants wild crazy times, and another for more chill hangouts.
I've had a lot of one and done's but I love variety and a new girl. sometimes I'll hang with her for a 'dance' a few visits to the club if we have chemistry.
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I will play along comment on your discussion .
You wrote and I quote:
“some guys seem to be very loyal to a particular girl and then other guys are always looking for new girls. Even though they get everything they could possibly want, they keep looking for other girls.”
If they were really getting “everything they could possibly want” with one girl/ATF/CF they would not “keep looking for other girls”.
Maybe they are looking for variety or suffer from “The Grass is Greener Syndrome” meaning that they have an inability to feel content with their life as it is, and relentlessly seek something “better”.
I have had ATF that I was “very loyal” ITC and OTC, but if I was traveling or they were busy with family or personal matters, I looked for possible alternatives during those times, sometimes with success sometimes without.
I do get the One and Only thing, but I also understand The Grass is Greener Syndrome, so it is what it is.
Just my two cents.
Both types of girls have a place in this activity.
Also, different regular girls in the rotation for different experiences. So, a PL could have a girl he sees when he wants wild crazy times, and another for more chill hangouts.