Strippers being rude and harsh

I hate it when they ask for a dance. I say "No thank you" and then they ask why.

why....

if some young guys that are relatively new on this board here are a bunch of replies you can choose to use:

-because you're not my type.
-because you don't have a big ass.
-oh i don't know. i'm just not in the fucking mood.
-silence with a real bad death stare.
-i'm waiting for another girl. if the annoying bitch replies "who?" then reply with the name of the girl you're waiting for, i'll know when i see her, or not you.

Hahahha yeah that's funny man good stuff I like your comebacks. But first of all you don't have to explain shit to these little brats anyway, also it's probably not always the best to start an altercation with the dancers, cause then she's just gonna snitch to the managers and be a little bitch. I only start an altercation when it's some really untolerable shit like she leaves a dance or walks away that's happened and the manager was on my side cause he knew the dance ended in like 15 seconds and refunded my money that's the only types of cases I'll call her out

If she's just asking why or why don't u like me, I mean yes you can fool around with it sometimes and fuck with her or annoy her back, but is it really worth it, it's only gonna make things more bad especially if it's a club you frequent regularly she's always gonna be mad and try to extract revenge on you

I can't recall the last time I was treated like a dick at the club on initial contact. But I tend to return fire in the form of an equivalent shitty attitude. Maybe a quick up and down visual without a smile, then return to eye contact with a blank to cold stare......that usually sends the message to change tactic, or move on.

The rudest I recall was a Reese Witherspoon look a like at Follies that told me "All men are ass holes".

How does a grown man get into an argument with a little girl in her underwear.

Man I know this is my own thread and I don't mean to comment a lot myself, but I appreciate all you guys comments and participating I really like it, this discussion is really going and alive thanks guys. And yeah I agree you shouldn't get into too much of an argument like I already said, unless she's super super fked up to you then you should call her out or tell her some bullshit back about her

But generally just handle it maturely just say I'm not interested, just hanging out, usually they run for the hills, the second you say I don't want a dance they fucking run a marathon away from you if your not spending money so usually that's not the problem anyway but if it does happen where the girl keeps pushing and won't leave you alone, either just walk away move seats, or just put her in her place say listen little one I don't want a dance stop bothering me, I said no now leave me alone before I tell the workers ur going overboard and keep asking when I said no

At my home club true rudeness isn't really tolerated. If a girl gets complaints about it, she's gone.

As a white dude I do get annoyed when brown and black dancers imply I'm racist for turning down a dance. I've tasted the rainbow, if I turn her down it's a hotness or personality thing not a race thing.

You're talking about two separate things: being an asshole, and not giving you the time you feel you should get for your money. Whenever people say bitch, specific to women, rather than a general term like asshole, I get skeptical. Shouldn't hold others to a higher standard than you set for yourself, cause they have something different between their legs. Yes, many strippers are overbearing. But they're not unique. A woman can't walk down the street without some rando dipshit odering her to smile.

Best to just not get torqued about it when you can't afford everything you want. You'll only make yourself bitter. Better to see what you can do to get more money coming in. Also, keep in mind strippers are almost always paying to work at the club. Whatever you're paying for cover or drinks, she's got no reason to feel she owes you for that.

It’s very very easy. Say “I’m just getting settled in and want to watch dances for a while”. 99% of the time they will tell you they’ll be back and then will leave. Unless you’re spending hours in the club, you’re alway just getting settled in. Don’t engage in the “why don’t you like me” discussion or other qualitative arguments. It’s a waste of everyone’s time.

You have to understand there are a lot of time wasters in the clubs. If the girls are too nice, they end up giving these types of guys lots of attention for no reason. I've seen maybe a hundred times where a girl patiently works on a guy and sucks up to him and then he leaves without spending any money on her. You may not be like that, but she doesn't know that. They aren't mind readers; you know? Most experienced strippers have learned how to calibrate how much time to spend on each customer to maximize their income. That is why they are there with us instead of with a guy they actually want to spend time with: to make money. Never forget that.

Also, successful strippers are used to having guys call them a bitch or getting angry at them for not doing something or putting them down as being dumb, fat etc. The ones who don't develop a hard shell soon leave. Several of my favorites left the business because they couldn't take the way they were treated. Customers are not the only ones who have to deal with rudeness. The strippers have to deal with it too.

A lot of dancers really aren't there to make money. They're there to hang out, play on their phones, chat with the other girls, score their drugs. I've seen girls who consider it a job, they want to make money and leave. Those girls are constantly giving dances and going to the vip. Some can easily make $500 / hour if she's not butt-ugly.

I've had butt-ugly girls not want to leave me alone, I think it's because they're pissed at the world for being butt-ugly. She's miserable so she wants to make me miserable. Maybe she's past due for her medications. What always works is to start feeling them up. They don't want to be giving away free gropes. Some sjw here will probably accuse me of sexual assault. Since all heterosex is rape, I don't mind.

If a girl is rude and asks why or who you’re waiting for tell them to fuck off. Or tell them they’re too ugly or trashy looking. They’ve earned it at that point.

(1)Politely decline. If that doesn’t work…
(2)Standing next to you is a girl in her panties in a SC insisting you should buy a dance from her. The back and forth conversation this can elicit is an under appreciated enjoyment.

Wow thanks again guys hahahaha. I appreciate everyone contributing to the conversation and helping out. Yeah everyone got their own takes on what to do. And yes I understand of course you can't sit down with a customer and spend like 30 minutes or an hour talking yes I understand that I don't expect that. Sometimes that happens where a girl just talks long and doesn't expect anything she's just cool talking to you

Yeah I know I don't expect her to be super super nice and do everything for me, yeah I know she has to have a time window so she doesn't get cheated also and no money, but you gotta at least sit and talk a few minutes like 5 minutes or something I'm not asking for an hour. Cause some are just rude from the get go within the first 15-30 seconds for no reason they're like want a dance want a dance? You ask a question sure maybe but let's talk first I wanna get to know what I'm getting into, they're like wtf I don't have time, or stop being stupid.

But yeah anyway as we all majority of us agreed don't waste your energy fighting with these girls, just let them leave, usually u don't got to explain anything or owe her any reason. If anything she'll be like why don't u want a dance, just be like maybe I would've had earlier but how you were rude and acting so better than me and treating me like nothing now I don't want a dance, that's not the best way to get customers, that will own here she'll just be all silent and walk away knowing what she did

FWIW... I've noticed the increased rudeness in most clubs I visit. IDK but IMO it seems to track with generation. The older veteran dancers seem to understand the dynamics involved where as the younger more entitled dancers seem to lose their minds if you aren't into their fat/ugly-ness. I think it also tracks with the general trend of dancers having more say in setting their own agendas and the club not setting or enforcing some baseline (for various reason).

Maybe that's one reason I appreciate Cuban strippers, a lot of them can be pushy, but even the most pushy ones will leave you alone if you stand your ground and respectfully decline.

Strippers Have To Be Angels For Mi $$$. If They Treat Me Like I'm The Boss, Then We Are In Heaven! 💲✔️