Be careful who you talk to
georgmicrodong
Just a fat, creepy old pervert.
Met up with another monger acquaintance this weekend. I'll call him Bob. He's richer than I am. Much richer. He's a little older, maybe mid-sixties, divorced, and about to retire. He has, or rather had (thus the title of this thread) a sugar situation going with former dancer. I'll call her Candy. He never let much go in the way of detail, but I gather he spent a lot on her, gifts, vacations, the whole nine yards. I got this whole story from Bob by way of warning me about him.
Bob had been hanging with this other group of mongers for several years. One of them, "Bill", seems to have figured out who his sugar baby was. He'd never actually told them (nor had he told me), but Bill had figured it out somehow. Turns out that Candy was someone Bill had been trying to get with for quite some time, but she'd always turned him down.
Apparently Candy used to work with another girl who has lately turned escort.
So Bill got hold of the escort, ostensibly to get with her, but obviously in reality to try to get with Candy. Why he thought contacting a *different* escort to try to get with Candy, I don't know, but... In the course of conversation with the escort, Bill dropped the fact that he "knew" about Candy and Bob, and that Bob has revealed details of their relationship. He also dropped all kinds of info about *other* dancers like names, costs, activities, etc.
So the escort immediately told Candy and she blew up. From what Bob said, "blew up" is a pale description. She apparently believed the whole tale that Bill was spinning. Not only did Candy break it off with Bob, but she and the escort also warned the dancers he'd named that Bill was dropping their info.
I'd wondered why I hadn't seen Bill in the clubs for a couple months.
All because a blabbermouth couldn't keep his jealous mouth shut.
So again, be careful who you talk to.
Bob had been hanging with this other group of mongers for several years. One of them, "Bill", seems to have figured out who his sugar baby was. He'd never actually told them (nor had he told me), but Bill had figured it out somehow. Turns out that Candy was someone Bill had been trying to get with for quite some time, but she'd always turned him down.
Apparently Candy used to work with another girl who has lately turned escort.
So Bill got hold of the escort, ostensibly to get with her, but obviously in reality to try to get with Candy. Why he thought contacting a *different* escort to try to get with Candy, I don't know, but... In the course of conversation with the escort, Bill dropped the fact that he "knew" about Candy and Bob, and that Bob has revealed details of their relationship. He also dropped all kinds of info about *other* dancers like names, costs, activities, etc.
So the escort immediately told Candy and she blew up. From what Bob said, "blew up" is a pale description. She apparently believed the whole tale that Bill was spinning. Not only did Candy break it off with Bob, but she and the escort also warned the dancers he'd named that Bill was dropping their info.
I'd wondered why I hadn't seen Bill in the clubs for a couple months.
All because a blabbermouth couldn't keep his jealous mouth shut.
So again, be careful who you talk to.
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Not a clue. Bob never mentioned TUSCL, and neither did I.
Yet I think I’m more befuddled by wig22’s story. What CEO gives enough fun money that one could get a vip room with multiple girls? That’s wild.
Confession, my real name isn't Dave. Its Robert. I hate the name "Bob." I'm younger than your much balleyhooed "Bob" in this story, but honestly that name is annoying. Since my name is Robert I can say that. Lol.
Would that not have violated some version of confidentiality? I've never been quite clear on exactly when the "official" client confidentiality thing kicks in.
The best part of having schizophrenia...
...is all the friends you've made
People like that are truly toxic.
It used to be that other men in your inner circle could be trusted to keep their mouths shut. What happens in the club, stays in the club, right? Not anymore. I think this ended with my father's generation, right around the time when men stopped embracing concepts like male strength and pride. Nowadays too many of them are emotional pussies who are hypersensitive and eager to please.
This has served me well for a long time in the clubs. For some girls, especially in small clubs, the biggest hurdle to OTC is not the sex, but the risk that it will come back to bite them in the ass. Once a girl really understands that a man can be trusted to keep his fucking hole shut, it makes things much easier.
The one big mistake I made recently is to out myself by meeting up with other TUSCLers in my favorite club. It made things wonky in that club for a while. I know that a couple of dancers and definitely a couple of the female bartenders started reading my online posts. Where before I was a discreet unknown quantity, suddenly the scope of my extracurricular activities became better understood. C'est la vie I suppose.
I’m also amazed at the stuff twig was provided by a corporate client! I thought those days were long gone.
^ Yup. This. I was never a big gossip, but I used to be a little more willing to talk to folks here with some level of specificity, and on a few occasions asked similar questions of members. Yes, she did what she said or her rate was $xxx kinda thing. I don't do either anymore. Too many issues, thankfully all very minor, but enough to make me realize the err of my ways. I've been asked about girls people have seen me drop off at the club or come walking out of a back room with, and I'll sit there with a straight face and deny even knowing the girl. I've done it when they're still sitting in my lap.
Life is a long series lessons on what YOU do wrong. The lessons will sting or even hurt bad. You’ll unfortunately run across the Bills of the world regularly. Learn from it, make better choices than previous, control what you can control, don’t substitute a thought process for impulse (impulse example: never talk to anyone! JHFC, you’re not the Lufthansa heist crew. Sure, it’s minor to modest scandal regarding a combination of SC ITC/OTC and the story about the birds/bees).
Two Lessons: (1) YOU Select better confidantes, (2) there’s many more sugar babies in the candy aisle.
According to Bob, he did NOT reveal intimate details. I know he's never revealed such to *me*, and I tend to assume that he did the same to others. Of course, he could be lying or mistaken, but in either of those cases, the warning is still relevant. That said, even if he's not lying or mistaken, he obviously dropped enough clues, consciously or not, for Bill to figure things out. It's also possible that Bill simply assumed facts not in evidence and just thought he'd fuck things up.
Thanks founder, once again.