Are lapdances illegal if done outside the club? Can you get sex offender charges

On a prior thread one poster claiming to be a strip club owner/manager posted:

“If you are caught on my property engaging in sex in a car be it yours or hers, of which we circumvent using the gated lot, she will be fired if she works for us, she will be charged for solicitation and turned over the police. You being the instigator owning the car or truck on my property are charged with solicitation and cooercion, which carries a sex offender tag upon conviction of which always is added due to no dancer is going to say in court she got into your car or truck on her own idea.

Just FYI, we have caught guys who found a girl to visit the parking lot in the past, the girl gets fired and charged for solicitation, as does the fool who paid her plus he gets a sexual predator tag when he loses in court, and they always lose.”


Is this true, or just a strip club owner fear mongering? can you be charged as a sex offender for doing anything nude or sexual in a public place like in a car, due to public nudity laws? Or is it a blanket punishment for getting lapdances in general, are they illegal if performed outside a club venue?

Normally solicitation/prostitution is just a misdemeanor charge. If you can be charged as a rapist or sex offender, for engaging with escorts, or doing OTC, that is entirely different and a much bigger risk.

Even if you are getting the OTC or extras in a club parking lot, wouldn’t the most you could get would be solicitation + being banned from the property? Or does the logic go that parking lots are considered public places, so doing anything sexual in a car means you can be charged with being a sex offender, even if the car windows are tinted?

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  • rickmacrodong
    2 years ago
    Is there also a legal risk to doing anything sexual in a clothing store fitting room, even if its consensual and doesnt involve any form of payment? I thought the main risk would just be getting banned from that store.
  • BitCoinHodler
    2 years ago
    Yes.
  • CJKent_band
    2 years ago
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  • TheeOSU
    2 years ago
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  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    2 years ago
    Why doesn't cacaplop Google lapbdance ordinances?
  • CJKent_band
    2 years ago
    Remember children

    "When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser”

    ~ Socrates

    :D
  • TheeOSU
    2 years ago
    Remember cj

    'Dick pic collecting trolls aren't respected on a strip club website for straight men'

    TheeOSU :D
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    2 years ago
    Theosu is a weirdo. Hs tried accusing sjg of being cacaplop me of being dougster now cjkunt of being cacaplop. Weird ass troll
  • Champphilly
    2 years ago
    Another troll topic. Do not waste your time to answer this elementary stupid question
  • rickmacrodong
    2 years ago
    Icee you know the stuff you said there, could be seen as a normal but unproven statement but when you say it its trollbait, flamebait
  • Champphilly
    2 years ago
    Why a decent man does that shit in club parking lot? What kind of question is this?
  • BitCoinHodler
    2 years ago
    I have already answered the question. I declare this thread CLOSED.
  • rickmacrodong
    2 years ago
    Bttcoin id like more specifics

    Are lapdances in general illegal if performed outside a club or bar?
    Assume no payment is involved, are sex/lapdances illegal inside a car or inside a mall fitting room?
    What if the car has tinted windows so nobody can see inside it?
    Does someone need to witness a nude lapdance in order for there to be sex offender charges?
    If the man is fully clothed, and the woman is doing a nude lapdance, why would the guy get sex offender charges when hes clothed and the dancer is nude?
  • docsavage
    2 years ago
    Sex in public is almost always illegal. I've had strippers tell me they can't even sit in a car talking to a customer in a strip club parking lot because it looks like they could be doing something sexual. Strip club owners are cautious because they don't want their club shut down by the local authorities. There is no good reason to have sex in public because there are plenty of private places to do that.
  • rickmacrodong
    2 years ago
    Even if the car windows are tinted so nobody can see it? So you could actually get sex offender charges, even if you get a nude lapdance inside a car with tinted windows? Basically lapdance or sex without payment , in a parking lot or mall fitting room gets you criminal charges far beyond prostitution? Prostitution/solicitation are just misdemeanors but the sex offender type charges can probably end your career, ruin your life etc
  • docsavage
    2 years ago
    Whether someone could be charged with coercion is an interesting question. A stripper could say a customer dragged her into his car and forced her to do something sexual, but would she be automatically believed? It would be dangerous to automatically believe whatever a female says while never believing what a guy says. Females do make false accusations sometimes. One time at work I complained about having to do the work of a girl in the office because she wasn't doing it. She retaliated by accusing me of harassment. It was dropped because there was no evidence of it, and I had no history of doing anything like that. Men have to be cautious in an office setting. The fact that I was always polite to women and had no history of unwanted sexual advances helped me when I got accused of something.
  • Champphilly
    2 years ago
    OP asking about Sex in mall fitting rooms, wow. What a wierdo.
  • Jascoi
    2 years ago
    i say it is an interesting question. without looking up the ordinance... just where can 9two consenting adults have a sexual or risque encounter here in the USA?
  • Jascoi
    2 years ago
    (scratch the number 9 out...)
  • rickthelion
    2 years ago
    Nothing is illegal if you can say “go away wildebeest!” convincingly.

    Of course, you have to be a lion to be really convincing. Aaaaand whadya know…I’m a frickin’ lion. It’s great to be me. ROAR!!!
  • Champphilly
    2 years ago
    BTE, are you from Pakistan?
  • Cashman1234
    2 years ago
    Regardless of the location or question the OP is still a troll.

    This is another BTE troll discussion intended to kill the usefulness of this site.
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    2 years ago
    Look up your local ordinances and you'll know. It's a dumb question with a simple answer. Don't feed cacaplop.

    And it's not about sex. Lewdness indecent exposure disorderly conduct etc come into play.
  • Champphilly
    2 years ago
    2Icee, do you live in a car? It looks BTE do. I understand that It is your primary residence. Lol. Still it is parked on a strip club parking lot. So, extras are not legal.
  • twentyfive
    2 years ago
    ^ He claims his fully loaded Hellcat is his residence !
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    2 years ago
    Says the cosplay millionaire to cacaplop
  • rickmacrodong
    2 years ago
    Icee the ordinances are a separate question, some cars have tinted windows where you cant see whats going on. Does that not matter? Basically if you think someone’s having sex in a parking lot or public area, they can get all those indecent exposure and sex offender charges even if they cant be seen? Is it the same with public bathrooms or bathrooms in stores malls etc? Even a family bathroom where nobody can see you or hear you, no stalls next to each other etc?
  • rickmacrodong
    2 years ago
    Champ philly why do you say that baba ji? How do you know about these languages, how does icee know?
  • twentyfive
    2 years ago
    ^ Cosplay millionaire gets a lot more respect, than cosplay pimp
    LULZ
  • rickmacrodong
    2 years ago
    What makes non extras lapdances illegal if performed outside a club? Do they fall under prostitution
  • rickmacrodong
    2 years ago
    Icee how did you get a fully loaded hellcat? You had to have robbed that during the BLM protests, hence you were extra triggered over rittenhouse being at that car dealership. Was that when you pepper sprayed the guys balls then drove off in his car
  • Champphilly
    2 years ago
    BTE, are you nuts? Go read again who said that foreign stuff?
  • Champphilly
    2 years ago
    BTE you sound a Pakistan guy. 2ICEE may be from your neighbor afghan.
  • Champphilly
    2 years ago
    BTE, do you live in a car? Because you are asking for strip club extras in your car. Lol. Is it a normal stuff to do in your country? That’s why you are asking to see if that is legal here?
  • georgmicrodong
    2 years ago
    Yes, they are. You should stop immediately before one of the many police officers on this board tracks you down and throws you in the slammer for the rest of your life. Don't be a fool! Stop now!
  • rickmacrodong
    2 years ago
    Champy ji i got the baba ji word from icee
  • Champphilly
    2 years ago
    BTE, I am sure the laws of your country Pakistan, are you from Pakistan.? You may be used for parking lot stupidity there, but I it won’t be a smart thing to engage in parking lot with such act.
  • Champphilly
    2 years ago
    BTE, parking lot not worth the risk. Find a hotel, red roof inn is decent and 80 $ range affordable.
  • rickmacrodong
    2 years ago
    Good advice champy...
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