Does this happen to anybody else?
gammanu95
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Lookers is always hit or miss. The 10% of girls who are attractive are VERY attractive, and the others are not at all. Between the attractive girls, I saw a 9. Gina Gerson thin. Shadowcat would have loved her. Maybe around 5'5", spinner thin, long, thick brown hair, and a gorgeous face. She was sitting with friends and moving around, but not really interacting with customers. She finally came and sat at the table adjacent to mine, so I made my move and introduced myself. She spoke no English, at all, and was fairly new. Her dances were disappointingly tame.
This has happened to me at maybe the last 8 out of 10 club visits in Miami, Tampa, Fort Myers, and Clearwater. I see one of the hottest dancers sitting alone and not hustling, I have to get a dance from, and no English. yes, I speak Spanish, but it is mentally exhausting. I am far from fluent.
It is beginning to become regular enough that I may need to reconsider approaching the available hotties, but that almost defeats the purpose.
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Everyone has to start somewhere. Even the great dancers often started out not knowing anything, but they learned fast. Those that don't quit.
Chupa chupa? Quanto?
In Thailand, they have something called Coyote Girls at the Gogo clubs. Super hot dancers who are just there to rev you up for the other dancers.
I’ve run into this a few times. Dancers who had great bodies and very attractive faces - but who spoke very little English - and who did a poor job of grinding (and offered nothing more).
It might be a logical conclusion - as these are very attractive girls - so if you don’t see them being in high demand - then it might be best to avoid them?
Earlier in the week I was down at one of said Pompano clubs in the twilight hours towards the end of day shift. There was a few lookers there, but I had my eye on one girl in particular. She mostly fit your description, maybe a few inches shorter and with jet black hair & extensions that went down to her ass. Excessive extensions aside, a solid 9 in my book. Her behavior was similar too, she'd make a partial lap, then go back and sit alone or with another friend after maybe approaching one customer. Eventually, she came close enough where I didn't have to traipse across the entire club, so I went over and asked her to join me at the bar. Her eyes lit up and she excitedly complied.
Her English was non-existent, she hadn't even learned dance or hello. My stripper Spanish is good enough but like OP its far from fluent and painful for me to use it. Anyway, the dances weren't disappointing, but not spectacular either. She stuck around after the first round of dances, and indicated she was hungry so I bought her dinner and a drink. We did a few more dances after, which were better but still average. But, she was amazingly cute and quite affectionate and I was happy enough with my choice. We exchange numbers, as her shift is ending and I'm about to head out. Fast forward to yesterday afternoon, as the Dolphins are getting embarrassed by the Jets I text her to see if she's working. She wasn't. Yada, yada, yada, she's currently asleep in my bed. A few months earlier, I had a nearly identical experience. There's certainly some more typical ones where I invite her over and the dances are lackluster and I send her packing or she goes back to sit in isolation, but those aren't nearly as memorable.
I haven't had that problem
I suspect there are lots more factors than just "popular" versions "sideline" at play here. The club, the time of day, the nationality of the dancer, and who knows what else.