It is starting to happen very frequently for me. I'll be sitting at a table, watching the dancers, turning down the fuglies, and spy a girl who is really attractive. She is not mingling much, at all. No one is approaching her, and she is not hustling. The rub (not the good one) comes when I approach her. An example happened earlier this week.
Lookers is always hit or miss. The 10% of girls who are attractive are VERY attractive, and the others are not at all. Between the attractive girls, I saw a 9. Gina Gerson thin. Shadowcat would have loved her. Maybe around 5'5", spinner thin, long, thick brown hair, and a gorgeous face. She was sitting with friends and moving around, but not really interacting with customers. She finally came and sat at the table adjacent to mine, so I made my move and introduced myself. She spoke no English, at all, and was fairly new. Her dances were disappointingly tame.
This has happened to me at maybe the last 8 out of 10 club visits in Miami, Tampa, Fort Myers, and Clearwater. I see one of the hottest dancers sitting alone and not hustling, I have to get a dance from, and no English. yes, I speak Spanish, but it is mentally exhausting. I am far from fluent.
It is beginning to become regular enough that I may need to reconsider approaching the available hotties, but that almost defeats the purpose.
Most dancers quit right away. The only reason you don't notice is because they last a few days, weeks, or months. You mainly only see the survivors.
Everyone has to start somewhere. Even the great dancers often started out not knowing anything, but they learned fast. Those that don't quit.