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Do dancers have issues with dealbreakers?

rickmacrodong

This was an odd thing that happened some time ago.

A dancer would squirt milk in her first dance no issue. No asking for extra money or anything.
The second dance, I asked if she could squirt the milk longer, like for 10 minutes. She started saying stuff like “if it happens in the dance it’s fine, i dont want it to be like a dealbreaker though”. And she said her milk is her personal thing.

I got the dance, and there was milk, just a few squirts.

What’s the reasoning behind the dealbreaker concerns...? Was this dancer a control freak or something? It seems odd to me to say that line of if it happens in the dance its fine, but i dont want it to be a dealbreaker.
Its also odd she didn’t have any complaints about milk in the first dance.

There’s also another odd correlation. First dance she had no issues with touching pussy. She didn’t want to be fingered, but was fine with pussy touching. In the second “dealbreaker” dance, she said no when I asked to touch. It was said in an annoying, maybe playful tone. I wasnt gonna risk it and touch just because she’s saying no playfully though.

It was a surprise since I had mistakenly assumed the rules would remain the same as before. This isn’t actually the case, especially if you’re dealing with immoral nutcases who can create rules out of thin air, at any time.

The whole scenario to me sounds like she has control issues or something I can’t put my finger on. But this kind of scammerish behavior is one more reason why I avoid clubs and avoid too many repeat dances. I need to be told of all rules upfront. I also wouldn’t want to ask the same dancer her rules before each dance just to confirm whether the rules are the same or there’s new restrictions. That’s just extremely odd behavior.