BBFS and Plan B: Scam?
Electronman
Too much of a good thing is never enough
True story:
At a Detroit club that is widely known for extras, a dancer offers an enthusiastic BBBJ and BBFS private dance session; the customer does not object. When the customer came, she looked at him and said "Did you cum in my pussy? You know I could get pregnant! Have you had a vasectomy?"
Customer: "No, I have not had a vasectomy. When you agreed to BBFS, I assumed that you were on the pill."
Dancer: Well, you should have asked if it was OK to cum inside me. Now, I'm worried about getting pregnant. I could take a Plan B if you want to give me an extra $40.
Customer: Handing over an extra $40 on top of the agreed upon "private dance" fee. "Good idea on the Plan B; neither of us needs and unplanned pregnancy."
What would you have done; paid the extra $40? This is not a question about the risks of BBBJ and BBFS--- some risks are worth taking. But this is a question about forking over an extra $40 under these conditions.
Two additional details:
1. When the dancer got dressed, she took her agreed upon fee and left the extra $40, but did not explain why she left the extra $40.
2. The same scenario happened with a different dancer at this club, about a month later.
Is this a scam that others have encountered??
At a Detroit club that is widely known for extras, a dancer offers an enthusiastic BBBJ and BBFS private dance session; the customer does not object. When the customer came, she looked at him and said "Did you cum in my pussy? You know I could get pregnant! Have you had a vasectomy?"
Customer: "No, I have not had a vasectomy. When you agreed to BBFS, I assumed that you were on the pill."
Dancer: Well, you should have asked if it was OK to cum inside me. Now, I'm worried about getting pregnant. I could take a Plan B if you want to give me an extra $40.
Customer: Handing over an extra $40 on top of the agreed upon "private dance" fee. "Good idea on the Plan B; neither of us needs and unplanned pregnancy."
What would you have done; paid the extra $40? This is not a question about the risks of BBBJ and BBFS--- some risks are worth taking. But this is a question about forking over an extra $40 under these conditions.
Two additional details:
1. When the dancer got dressed, she took her agreed upon fee and left the extra $40, but did not explain why she left the extra $40.
2. The same scenario happened with a different dancer at this club, about a month later.
Is this a scam that others have encountered??
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Side note: it is my strict policy to never nut in any woman (SW or otherwise) unless it is my full intention to get them pregnant. Pull out game is air tight.
YOu listen to what the other party is saying, but you never believe them.
And it is better if you are boning the one you have decided that you intend to be waking up in the mornings with.
SJG
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tip the ho a wire coathangar.
Any stripper who does BBFS who _isn't_ taking serious birth control is stupid, crazy, or both.
Air tight as a screen door in a submarine.
You finishing up with her on top, or you get her on her back like on a sofa or the floor?
SJG
As long as the amount/$hakedown is not too-large; I guess the avg PL will pay-up just to be safe – kinda hard to think clearly when getting hit w/ that out-of-the-blue – and this is what many ROBs count-on, whether it’s this scam or any other scam; they count on the PL either being out of his element; or distracted since he’s there just focused on having a good time and not thinking about the multiple-ways a ROB can put one over on him.
Is the scam that she's already preggo unbeknownst to the PL and using him as a means to have a father on "standby" if needed? On some "I never took the plan B so you're on the hook?"
Never known for any dancer not to accept moeny given regardless of circumstance. It's all "tips" regardless of the category, so makes no sense to leave it behind.
The comments about BBFS and STD risk and pregnancy risk are acknowledged. But some of you need to read up on risk. The only thing that is risk free (as in zero risk) is abstinence. The next lowest risk if mutually monogamous sex between two people who have never, ever had an STD (but that accounts only for STD, not for pregnancy). If. you're reading this web site, those first two options have probably disappeared into the rear view mirror years ago.
Everything else, including CFS, CBJ, HJ, all convey some level of STD risk. CFS and pulling out also have some risk of pregnancy. None of these are risk free. So the issue should be what level of risk are you comfortable with for what benefits (sexual benefits in this case).
Thanks for all the visuals about copious, overflowing cum shots. I never predicted that this discussion would take that turn!
DesertScrub: Was any of your commentary focused on the discussion item? If I had a distractibility problem of your magnitude, I wouldn't advertise it with ALL CAPS. I'm imagining the following conversation.
Person A to Desertscrub: Can you give me directions from LA to San Francisco.
Desertscrub: LA? ARE YOU KIDDING ME. THAT CITY IS FOR LOSERS. ONLY AN IDIOT WOULD START A TRIP IN LA. YOU SHOULD START IN SAN DIEGO, NOT LA. AND YOU SHOULD GO TO SANTA FE, NOT SAN FRANCISCO. WHAT COLOR CAR WILL YOU BE DRIVING? IF IT'S WHITE, YOU MIGHT AS WELL STAY AT HOME. THIS COUNTRY HAS TOO MANY WHITE CARS ALREADY.
So you really think asking for $40 is a scam
So you really think asking for $40 is a scam
So you really think asking for $40 is a scam
I’m in disbelief at ya thought process. Just making sure
What is your definition of a "scam?" I pose this as a question.
If the dancer was on birth control and not really worried about pregnancy, would it be a "scam" to ask for $40 for Plan B? If she was NOT on birth control and genuinely worried about pregnancy, then it would not be a scam? How to tell whether the request was legitimate or not?
What if the dancer was on birth control and asked for $100 for Plan B?
What if the dancer repeated this request with 10 or more customers each week. That's an extra $400/week. Is that a scam?
Just wondering how you define a scam.
For those guys on here gnashing their teeth about potential pregnancy, please dudes, lol. Assuming she even knows for sure who the father is, which is questionable if she's fucking dudes ITC, do you really think she'd ever want her relations, friends, current/future SO and especially her child to know that she was impregnated by some old dude while fucking for money? Because it'd be impossible to hide if she she's awarded child support and you counter by demanding visitation rights.
You really think she wants you in her life for the next 18 years as a constant reminder to everyone she knows? It ain't gonna' happen, unless perhaps you're so wealthy that the potential money is worth the never-ending exposure. In all my years doing this, I have never, not once, actually heard of a club hound who was sued for child support. Now I'm sure that there's a unicorn story out there somewhere, but I'm convinced that it's not common. Assuming that a girl who gets pregnant even knows for certain who did it and keeps the kid anyway, you can bet she tells her SO or a civilian fuck buddy that it's his.
and clean yer stank off my cock bitch.
But, to Rick's point about her suing for child support and the father countering, isn't it a bit of mutually assured destruction that either side could bluff at? I mean, she could be banking that I'm not gonna want that stuff either and just hope I'll pay up and shut up. It's a lot easier to hide a few grand a month in child support than it is to have a kid around every other weekend and be explaining to everyone how it's your child from that time you banged that stripper.
OTOH how many of the PLs around here would really care if others knew that he got a stripper pregnant? I mean guys like me would for a time, but anyone past a certain age who doesn't have romantic attachments or school aged kids probably won't.
Idk, but even if the exposure was as equal as you believe, I don't see any girl wanting to live with the never-ending threat that a guy could someday change his mind, ask for visitation and then blow up her life in the process. IMO a girl's far more likely never to tell him even if she's sure and instead either put her SOs name on the birth certificate or leave that part blank, if for no other reason than to shield the child from the truth of his/her conception.
Until we have this, there will often be a great deal of brinksmanship and head games in sex.
SJG
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fecal waste can be infectious and contagious !
iceydougee is definitely infectious but he's not very contagious because hardly anyone agrees with or believes his bullshit.
No offense to the dumb dude, even if he might look a lot like the OP.
One question. If she offered bareback, and she told you upfront she’s not on birth control, would you decide to bareback her ass? If you are not worried about taking risks, then you could save the $40…
Of course, you have to be really stupid, or tired of living, to be a BBFS stripper whore in the first place. And if you're not on birth control yourself, do you think you're going to remember every john who nutted inside you that week? Any stripper with an IQ greater than her heel size knows not to take that risk.
Therefore, you're probably the 10th john she ran the Plan B hustle that day. Don't feel too bad, man, she's a pro and you aren't.
OP should always remember. One man's nut is the next man's lube
Also, the amount of men on USA Sex Guide Detroit who claim to have done bbfs with a sex worker or post looking for one is alarming and frightening. I trust reviews on here a little more that USASG, but a stupid amount of guys still, at least, inquire for bbfs providers on USASG.
ignores the scamming bitch with no bbfs blame on the participating hoes.
fuck off reddit rag.
The biggest reason is that a certain % of dudes won't pay for condom sex because it just isn't worth it to them. Some older guys can't even cum with one on. So when girls arrive at those moments when there's money on the table and a choice to be made, some choose the money.
JimmyBigTits - that is hilarious - and true!
The little I know about USASG is that they tend to be more hardcore over there - but there are def more TUSCL barebackers than admit to it on-here especially guys that have longterm ATFs and/or OTCs - most guys don't like condoms thus a good # will take-the-plunge once they've gotten comfortable with a dancer.
It also has to do with one's stage in life - for various reasons a guy in his 20s and 30s will often be more careful (or scared) than someone in their 50s and 60s.
Threads like this show how broke and or stupid some of you really are
I guess you didn't bother to actually read the posts before you started trolling. Stuff like this is why you can't do better in your love life than crack whores. Be better.
SJG
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At least you got this one right.
Agreed. Nutting in a girl and then bitching when she asks for a couple of additional 20s doesn't make sense to me. Maybe some guys just don't have enough experience with women to understand that the jizz doesn't just magically melt away. At the very least she's going to have to spend extra time cleaning herself up and some girls can never get it out completely and end up leaking after.
Trying to make her your vending machine is setting up a mercenary situation.
SJG
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