Can You Come See Me Tonight?

I don't see anything altruistic about it - if she was making bank in the club from some whales you'd be the last thing on her mind - IMO dancers that do this mostly just see you as sure-$$$ and a walking-wallet.

There are chicks that will call guys to come to their house when they are horny and they wanna get fucked - when she calls you b/c she just wants you to fuck her w/o $$$ being involved then it can be considered as some kinda of "compliment"; o/w IMO one is just seen as mostly an ea$y mark.

Agreed.
She's got whales.
I don't mind being second to them.
I am an easy mark for the right approach.

We both benefitted more with her text than without.
Also, she knows (with me) it obliges her slightly more to make it worth my while- and she knows I expect her to show it.
And they do.

Sorry. The topic should include At The Club.

It's how they get customers to come in on a slow night. It's not a big deal. Just realize you're a customer.

" it probably just means they're not busy."

Yes. And that's when I like them to contact me.

This particular CF is very hot and usually very busy. But even ITC I tell her I'd rather wait til she's worked the floor and caught up so I'm not squeezed-in to her tight schedule.

It falls into the 'minor Rob gestures to keep their regulars' category (like adding add'l extras to subsequent VIPs).
When presented with the choice ITC, a CF that occasionally texts me OTC trumps one that doesn't.

I'm clubbing to be played. Finding one to do it right is the hard part.

There's a fine line between simp shit and pimp shit. As long as you get yours and enjoy the game

Ice, is that an original quote?
Not bad.

It's origin but its true. Its about feelings. A pimpnsoends money to stand out and make her hooked on him. A simp does it to just be used and pander to her

Sometimes I go to the club, but other times I don't. I assume that she has copied and pasted the same message to several other guys.

It's a sales call that occasionally works.

I'm a high-maintenance grind, so they know they're in for some heavy lifting when they're desperate enough to invite me in.

"copied and pasted the same message to several other guys."

I'm good with making the top five.
First place is too much pressure.

Yeah, I used to get so excited when girls would ask for my phone number. Wow, they. are really into me. Then I get a generic messege like, " I miss you" . Have to admit. I was a sucker the first few times. Then I realized that is the stripper marketing scheme.

There is nothing wrong with enjoying the attention of a young and beautiful woman, especially when she puts a little effort into it. For me the social element is half the fun of going to strip clubs. Only in this bizarre parody universe known as TUSCL is splooging in your own pants as fast as possible the primary purpose of visiting a strip club. If you feel like your money was well spent then all power to you.

Just last night my CF actually switched her club destination, en route no less, just to work at the club in which I was hanging out. She bounces around a few different clubs, but my preferred club is not her best spot from a money perspective so she doesn't work there often. Yet she came and spent hours with me and I thoroughly enjoyed it.

I spent more than I expected to for less than I normally get for that kind of money, but it was worth it to me. It's not something I'd do often, but last night I was in the right mood.

"especially when she puts a little effort into it"

Thanks Rick.
That's all I was getting at.

I'm happy to just go when the mood strikes me and see what's doing.

I am perhaps not a romantic 🤣 I tell my CF outright -- I love spending lots of time without other customers there, feel free to text me any time the club is dead. So there's no opportunity to get aa gushy, and there's no "I miss you and want to see youuuuu" texts. Just "club is dead, come save my shift" texts, which is like my mating call. No customers, I'll have you all to myself? In!

My fav stalker just bookmarked me.
Jump on in luv. I respect all opinions that aren't personal attacks.

I would make her otc offer.

She could be sending that to all her customers in phone. They will try to manipulate you they are your GF. Is she a lap dance ROB that does not play?

This particular CF knows my otc offer's always good.

I'm a patient dude, and already have a satisfying otc menu.

Its exactly what others said. "Can you come see me" means its a slow day or they arent making enough money. Dont be surprised if you arent getting more of those texts now. A lot of guys are saving thier income due to inflation or reallocating it to things they couldnt do during covid like trips to the carribean. Shame the girls cant take all of our money to go to miami to take instagram photos like they were all doing during covid.

*OT intermission fun*

Diagonipples: During 1 on 1 conversation, ask if she's Asian (unless she obviously is. duh). Make sure she's in a good mood first.

Ageism: If your otc offer is declined by a 20-something because you're 'too old', reply with 'thats interesting. in 5 years you'll be too old for me'.


Off to monger.
Carry on.

All this means you are in her 10 or 20 customer roaster. Nothing much. They copy paste Miss you message may people same time.

Some of you overthink it. It means she wants you to come to the club. It's no different from any business trying to lure customers.

My received pre-rob texts are at least 3-4 exchanges.
No one should just see 'miss u' and hypnotically start driving to the club.

Mass form text or not, the trick now expects (or should expect) a personal hostess to give them full attention for, say, at least an hour including dances.
Juggling/satisfying even 3-4 solicited inbound tricks on top of her usual hustling/stage/loitering room time is a gamble that can also lose her regulars.

The times I've had dancers send texts like that they'd spend the whole night with me.

= bring money tonight. Simple.

Thanks Champ.
Second sentence in the thread.

But is it really bad for them to do it? Is it bad for you if you go?

You're aware that it's a paid interaction and so is ahe.

Nope. All good.
I like hearing from them anytime for any reason.
They're my itc/otc fantasy world angels.

Try this. Go to see her. Get her food and couple of drinks and hang out. Treat her nice. But don’t take lap dances or vip. Then I am sure next time you are not going to get the message ‘I want to see you tonight texts. So, when you see this message take enough cash and spend on lap dances and tip her well, otherwise say NO. So, she can send the same text to next customer in her roaster.

Champ, I know you keep meaning 'roster', but roaster actually works too. And it's funnier.

Yes it's a given that when the money stops, the texts stop.
Why you trying to burst my bubble bro? Lulz.

Daily_Grind, you are correct. I was referring roster. Just saying that in her list of customers who are required pay her regularly. May be justifiable only if you are in OTC relationship with dancer!

Yes, if you are into OTC with a dancer, then she has all right to expect you to or force you come to club.🤣🤣. If you really like her company & have cash to flush, the definitely these strippers message can make you happy. So, I understand here is that if you are not into OTC with the dancer, please DON’T fall PREY to these “Can you see me tonight?” messages.

My current top favorite (CTF?) sometimes does, but not often, text me specifically this (because she sure doesn't need <em>my</em> minimal contributions to her bottom line very often, especially at her current club), but she does engage moderately frequently, two or three times a week, with such things as "how are you doing", "how do you think this outfit looks on me", "my puppies are pissing me off", and other such things designed to keep me interested in her. While I'm reasonably certain that she "likes" me, I also recognize that it's primarily because I'm respectful of her limits, polite, not very demanding, and still give her some money for spending time. I'm not a whale, but I'm dependable, and she's well aware of how fickle customers can be when it comes to spending money in a club; keeping me on the hook with inconsequential engagement only makes sense.

I have no illusions about how long that "like" would last if I stopped spending on her.